Cheating is a mistake that many men make, and recent articles about male actors have also made this mistake. Although the article quickly admitted its mistake and obtained Ma Yili's forgiveness, whether a man should be forgiven for cheating has still become a focus of debate. Let’s take a look at whether women should forgive cheating men!

The article admitted cheating and was forgiven by Ma Yili

After the news of the article's cheating on Yao Di was exposed, no matter how public opinion surged, the parties concerned remained stationary, not knowing how to resolve the crisis. In the early morning of March 31, Wen Zhang issued a statement on Sina Weibo, saying that he had himself to blame. He also apologized and said, "I have let down my family, and I have let down the title of husband and father." The article also stated that "I hope I will never let down others again in the future." Later, Ma Yili responded to the article on Sina Weibo, saying: "Although falling in love is easy, marriage is not easy, so do it and cherish it."

Should a woman forgive a man for cheating?

After a man cheats, should a woman really turn a blind eye and choose to forgive? Or does a woman live alone with her children? I think this is really a dilemma. At first, the woman wanted to forgive the man for the sake of the child, but as time went by, she discovered that once caused, some cracks were irreparable, and the two people's lives could never go back to the past. .

And this inability to forgive just shows that women care about men emotionally. Some people say that if a woman really loves the man, she will forgive the man's mistakes, but facts have proved that when women choose to forgive, men Most of them will not appreciate it, and their cheating will get worse and worse until they can no longer handle it. Because people are greedy and insatiable, tolerance often becomes a kind of indulgence. Just like the woman in front, when she chose to forgive, her husband was disconnected from the woman outside. He hoped to have a complete family, but he couldn't. He was unwilling to give up his young and energetic lover, and in the end he hurt two women and destroyed his own family. And any woman with some self-respect is not willing to share her man with other women. If a man understands this, he will not let himself do anything wrong.

What should I do if my husband cheats? A "generous" woman will turn a deaf ear to her husband's scandals because she firmly believes that she can never be replaced by other heavy-tasting women in her husband's heart. If the husband only cheats occasionally and does not extend into an extramarital affair, but only stays in the stage of looking for new and exciting things, then the status of the head wife can still be maintained. If a man often goes to bed with a woman because he is obsessed with her, then being obsessed with her body is also a kind of love. This kind of emotional cheating is unacceptable.

Men are naturally fond of looking for flowers and people, so can this be an excuse for women to swallow their anger? Although some women reflect on their husbands' cheating behavior and check whether they have done anything wrong, the victims never think about complaining, but what they get in return is repeated trampling and insults from the perpetrators. . Of course, women need to be measured, but they have to see whether their husband is worth sacrificing so much for him. If he doesn't know what's going on, don't end this tragedy decisively.

In ancient times, men could have three wives and four concubines. I think this is the life that many men want. But that has become a thing of the past. Now is the era of monogamy. If men can't get the life they want, they can only steal. And when a man cheats, should women choose to forgive? I think most women cannot accept it. Even if some women accept a cheating man, it is a kind of helplessness in life. And when there is no more love in a marriage, it becomes useless.

Is all the sorry things in the world worthy of being forgiven? There is a classic line in "Meteor Garden": "If an apology is useful, why do we need the police?"