I’m tired of this man and this relationship. I can’t bear it and have no choice but to break up. If two people happen to have the same mind and have a final tacit understanding, a gentle farewell at a candlelight dinner will certainly be a wonderful result. However, it is always difficult to synchronize feelings. It's easy to think about dividing, but how to divide requires wisdom. A perfect ending can best describe the style of your relationship.

I want to get rid of this man. How do you want him to remember you in the future?

Make him feel guilty whenever he thinks of you in the future? fail! Because he subconsciously thinks that he is the one taking advantage; should he feel that breaking up is a relief when he thinks of you in the future? fail! Are you too worthless in his heart? Do you want him to be angry whenever he thinks of you leaving him? A failure within a failure! After so many years of emotional investment, I ended up with a "cruel" evaluation.

So, what is a stylish breakup? Let's put it this way: The purpose of breaking up is not only to leave him, but also to let him remember your kindness and your kindness... This is the art of breaking up.

First of all, you have to be rational. Dealing with the matter rather than the person, breaking up is just a denial of your relationship with him, not a denial of him himself. No one would worry about someone who denies themselves, right? On the contrary, the closer it is to breaking up, the more you need to affirm his goodness and the people around him. A woman who still thinks about saving a man's face when breaking up is a treasure to any man.

Secondly, you have to be generous. Everything in the past, no matter who was right or wrong, is in the past. Tell him that you have no regrets about being with him and that your experiences are your precious memories. The expression should be sincere and the tone of voice should be sincere. If you really don't know how, you can review "Moonlight Treasure Box" a few times first. It's not about learning Bai Jingjing, but learning about Supreme Treasure. Don't learn it wrong.

Moreover, you have to be considerate. You heard me right, I mean considerate. Although you initiated the breakup, you still need to be considerate and even more emotional than when you were passionately in love. She told him to remember to eat hot supper when working overtime at night, and not to nibble on hamburgers; not to drink too much at social events, and not to drive after drinking; when he is alone in the future, remember to take medicine on time: that yellow suit has been ironed and hung in the closet... ...Try to make him feel that what he has lost is not a girlfriend, but a warm care; at the same time, it will evoke his tender memories of you in the past and cause the physiological effect of soreness in his sinuses.

Finally, you have to be firm. Firm yet calm, gentle yet principled. You are here to break up! Don't change your mind when he's weak to save you. Don't say "Actually, I haven't thought about it yet". Breaking up must be planned before taking action. If you haven't thought about it well, don't take action. Going back on your word will only make him think that you are asking for something in order to make progress, and using the threat of breaking up to make him submit is so despicable that it is equivalent to "crying, making trouble, and hanging yourself".

What did you say? hypocritical? Insightful!

I know that many people must fight over who is right and wrong when they break up with their former lovers, and are used to hurting each other to the point of complete physical and mental breakdown. Maybe this is more enjoyable and more real. But completely out of style! You think, if you can make the person you once loved remember a little more tenderness and a little more beauty, why don't you be a little hypocritical?

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