Misunderstanding: Marrying him does not mean marrying his family

Many women have encountered this problem: Although they knew something about his family when they were in love, they did not cause any problems. I attach great importance to it, thinking that the person I am marrying is him, not his family, so I have the idea that his family has nothing to do with me.

This view seems reasonable, but you must know that a person's life always carries traces of his growth, and family habits are the habits of a person's subconscious life. The habits he has formed since childhood are difficult to change throughout his life.

So, marrying a person is not about marrying him, but marrying his growth trajectory and everything about him.

Myth 2: If he loves me and dotes on me so much, he will definitely accept my transformation after marriage

It is inevitable that two people with different growth environments, different thinking, and different living habits will live together. Conflicts may arise over many details. Although these conflicts are trivial, they often consume the most endurance of a marriage. At the same time, his persistence in details reflects his stubbornness in ideas.

Some female friends do not understand this, but adopt various methods to reform their husbands. As a result, men and women begin to confront each other, and the home becomes a battlefield without gunpowder. In the end, women are often helpless. The earth was defeated.

At this time, women realize that if they want to transform a man, it is really difficult to achieve success! Faced with futile transformation, women understand that whether a man accepts transformation has nothing to do with love or not, but with his life trajectory and habits. Therefore, to marry him, you must know where he comes from. We need to extend our appreciation from him to his origin, that is, his family background. From there, you can see his present continuous and future developing tense in the marriage.

Myth 3: Since we are married, our husband should belong to our small family

Be clear that your husband is not your private property. He not only belongs to your small family, but also to your family. Belongs to his parents, relatives, and friends. Therefore, he must share some of his heart with them. Not only that, but your love must extend to them along with him.

Therefore, when you fall in love with a man and want to marry him, you must be mentally prepared. You are not just marrying him, you are also marrying his living habits, family background and Social background marriage. Be clear that the man you are facing is not an individual, but the group of people behind his family environment and social interactions.

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