Post-80s marriage

In the 1970s, there were three popular items for marriage: watches, bicycles, and sewing machines.

With the reform and opening up, material life is getting better and better, and the three major items for marriage have become: refrigerators, color TVs, and motorcycles.

Nowadays, the three major things for getting married are: owning a house, owning a car, and no mortgage.

Each one sounds like it’s worth a lot of real money!

It is precisely because marriage is becoming more and more expensive that many lovers find it difficult to get married.

Although materialistic people keep saying "I am not worshiping money, but a house, car, wedding banquet is a must for a married life"!

However, nowadays there are many open-minded couples born in the 1980s who do not worry too much about material things when they get married. They will look for "alternative methods" and use their brains to save necessary money without reducing the quality of life!

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Marriage after 80s House: Rent a wedding room near the work, and then devote yourself to work to earn your own house

House is an old topic. Is it possible to get married without a house? The answer is of course yes.

It is a fact that house prices are getting higher and higher, but the happiness of couples born in the 1980s has gone to two extremes: some girls who claim that they "will never marry if they don't have a house", and their boyfriends who "love each other but don't have a house" Farewell, from now on, I feel so empty in my heart that I can never let go of that person. The more a man and woman break up due to material and other objective reasons, the greater the possibility of regretting it in the future. Especially, as a person grows older and possesses more and more material wealth, he will regret the missed true love more and more.

The other part is very open-minded and feels that "there will always be bread, but love will not always be there". They are willing to enter marriage when they are in love, not when they have a house. Girls and boys born in the 1980s will choose a house close to their workplace and rent it first as a wedding room. This way you can concentrate on your work. If you work well, wealth will naturally follow.

Car: Electric cars can replace cars, saving money and time

When Yuanyuan got married, her husband gave her a good car: a Xiaodao electric car.

The sisters cried out for her, "This man obviously changed his mind"! Ke Yuanyuan said with a smile, "Xiaodao electric bicycle is a famous brand car. It looks beautiful and is durable. You can ride it to and from get off work and you won't be afraid of traffic jams"! The sisters were so shocked that they stared: "Is this girl really stupid or is she pretending to be stupid?!" Of course Yuanyuan is not stupid. After getting married, I rode an electric car. I didn’t have to worry about traffic jams on my way to and from get off work, so I could sleep well every day. I only had nearly 100,000 yuan left to buy the car. Moreover, the advantage of electric vehicles is that they are affordable and can be used every day. When my sister Lingling got married, her husband gave her a car as a gift. As a result, Lingling was afraid of wasting gas money, so she locked the car in the closet and slept every day. Occasionally she drove out for a vacation on the weekends, and she was stuck in a traffic jam for two or three hours. It was really annoying. of! After all, it’s not as cool as Yuanyuan riding an electric scooter to get to work!

As Yuanyuan said: "Marriage is not about saving face. Live life as economically as possible!"

Wedding banquet: collective party replaces traditional wedding banquet

A Jin chose a party for her wedding. In order to respect the traditional concepts of their parents and other elders, the young couple chose a small-scale hotel ceremony to exclusively invite the elders. However, most of my and my wife’s friends are born in the 1980s, which is the beginning stage of economic development. When friends get married and follow other families, it puts a little pressure on everyone. Therefore, Ah Jin simply reached a consensus with his friends: not to accept elements and not to follow elements. Come, sing, drink, be happy and treat yourself to a big party!

On the surface, it seemed that Ah Jin had lost money, but in fact, it also cleared up many unnecessary "virtual favors" in the future.

Ah Jin said: "It is said that the generation born in the 1980s is a free and unrestrained generation. But why are they so objectified and careless about marriage?! It is really unnecessary. When you are young, you should not talk too much. Face, as long as you are determined to love each other, everything will be fine! ”

Love requires confidence.

At the same time, if you want to capture someone’s long-lasting love, you must be attentive and patient.

The joys and sorrows in marriage are always quantitative. If you get used to the sweet taste in the beginning, then the bitter taste will come in the future, and you will lose the ability to deal with difficult problems. Those boys and girls, don’t always complain that your lover is heartless and unjust. First, check whether you intend to share the joys and sorrows with him or her!