Test: Is your "sexual happiness" up to standard?

Sex is not just about technique, nor is it just about duration. Sex also has its own standards. Take a look at the content below, compare it with your own life, and understand whether you are "sexually blessed" or not.

Emotions: Being able to communicate with your partner

First of all, we must make sure that we are emotionally healthy. Okay, you don’t watch porn, you don’t go to porn websites, you don’t go to any porn places? That's great, but it doesn't mean you're absolutely healthy. “Healthy here means: you clearly know how you and your partner understand and feel about sex, you know what the other person likes and wants, and you are able to talk frankly with the other person about your feelings, moods and desires; you trust Your partner also trusts you; you respect each other and give each other enough space; you know and are always trying to give each other better sex."

Essence: Know how to make yourself feel the best< /p>

The essence discussed here is to accept one’s own gender positioning and one’s own body. Sound complicated? In fact, the meaning of this sentence is that during sex, you will not feel embarrassed because of your appearance, actions, or smell, and you dare to speak out your requirements and enjoy it. You have to know how to relax during sex and work on making it more pleasurable and interesting. All in all, it's important to feel comfortable with your own desires.

Tips: Knowledge to keep each other happy and safe

How many complex and difficult postures can be done is not a skill we are talking about, that is what gymnasts pursue. The skills mentioned here refer to: you know how to create an atmosphere, how to start foreplay, be able to master the pace and rhythm of the other party, and freely mobilize and guide the other party's emotions; also, you must have a sufficient understanding of each other's physiological structure and current situation. The physiological condition of the body, how to effectively prevent pregnancy and prevent sexually transmitted diseases... In addition to studying those unreliable "108 styles in bed" day and night, you must know enough about the real sexual knowledge.

How much sex is normal?

If you think about it 24 hours a day or have had sex only once in two weeks, you're clearly out of balance. do you know? A normal man should not think about sex for more than 95 minutes a day, and have sex 3.2 times a week, 28 minutes each time... Don't do the math yourself, we made these up.

There is really no standard for sex life. Even if you do it three or five times a day, as long as you feel energetic and energetic, there is no problem at all. However, since brothers like data so much, MH can still give you some reference:

Number of participants in the survey: 2420 (men aged 25--35)

Number of sex times per week: Within 3 times (37%); 3 to 5 times (44%); more than 5 times (19%)

Average time for sex: within 10 minutes (3%); within 10 to 30 minutes (71%); more than 30 minutes (26%)

Have you had any sexual fantasies in the past hour? : Yes (55%); No (45%)

Total time spent on sex-related things every day: Within 1 hour (42%); 1 to 3 hours (52%); 3 Hours and above (6%)

Gender education expert Dr. Lack told us: "Unless we can maintain health and coordination emotionally, intrinsically, and technically, sex will not only do you no good physically or mentally, but And over time it will become something that makes you feel painful.”

Eight signs of sexual imbalance

If you have several of these conditions happening at the same time, it’s very likely. Maybe you're having too much or too little sex.

·Lack of sleep

· Frequently oversleep

· Overeating

· Headache

· Soreness and weakness in waist and limbs, muscle tension

· Easy Angry or moody

·Wet dreams