1. Give him more respect

"Big man", "big husband", "big old man", "little woman", "little daughter-in-law" and so on. From these titles, we can see that a man occupies the core position in the family from beginning to end. From ancient times to the present, the Chinese family model has been that "men take charge of the outside and women take charge of the house." Therefore, people usually call women "the wife", "the mean wife", or "the good wife".

Therefore, women should not have power struggles with men in the family. You might as well give up family sovereignty to men, give your husband more self-esteem, and let him be an upright man in front of others, at home and outside.

Let him feel that he is a man all the time, proud and glorious. Never let your heroic husband become short-tempered and become a "doormat" or "a loser." Men are the top of a woman's head and the backbone of the family. This position cannot be replaced by women. Therefore, a good woman should always give her husband more self-esteem, so that her husband can straighten his back and be a great man.

2. Give him a little more trust

The big one says that men have their own careers, and the small one says that men have to support their families. For the sake of home, they have to work constantly outside, and they have to deal with all kinds of people of different genders, different ages, and different identities.

As a wife, you must fully trust your husband. You don’t have to be suspicious of which woman your husband has spoken to. You don’t have to worry about why he never comes home? Just believe him when he says he is busy. He is really busy, don't doubt that he is lying to you. Even if you call him and hear that he is in a high-end hotel where he is singing and dancing, you have to firmly believe that he is just socializing normally and not looking for something fancy. As a wife, you should not be suspicious, let alone accuse your husband. You must firmly believe that your husband is just having fun outside, and he will always love you in the end.

3. Give him a little more tolerance

The reason why you are tolerant is mostly because your husband has shortcomings, mistakes, or has done something sorry for you. For me, this tolerance is easier said than done. Because if you want to be tolerant, you must first be calm and rational.

Women are mostly emotional. If something goes wrong, they can't control their feelings and show off their capriciousness and temper. In addition, a woman's belly is not broad enough. Whenever her husband feels sorry for her, she thinks that she is the most unfortunate person in the world, the biggest victim, and the most painful person. For this reason, they insist on seeking justice for themselves because of their grievances, and even make trouble even more serious. Little do they know that doing so will only force the husband to embark on a ruthless path.

Those who know the current affairs are heroes. Even if your husband has really done something sorry for you, you must think calmly, weigh the pros and cons, and control the degree of dispute with your husband. The so-called needle is hidden in the cotton, and softness is used to overcome hardness. As a wife, you might as well give your husband a little more forgiveness and tolerance. Your tolerance will move him and make him feel guilty. Only guilt can atone; only gratitude can repay.

4. Give him more care

Caring for a man is not just about providing him with adequate food and clothing, but the most important thing is to care about his inner world. To fully understand what your husband needs and what he really likes. Giving in to what others like does not mean blindly accommodating, but allowing the husband to truly realize his wishes and values.

If a woman never understands her husband in her life, she is truly a sad woman.

If, as a woman, you say what your husband wants to say, do what your husband wants to do, and you let him get everything your husband wants. I think my husband will never go out to find satisfaction.

Communications between people are mainly heart-to-heart communication, especially between husband and wife. Mental connection depends not only on the tacit understanding between two people, but more importantly, on the woman's insight into the man's inner world. To be prophetic, a woman needs keen observation, careful understanding and timely spiritual collision.

5. Give him more understanding

Men also have their own hardships and difficulties. In particular, men play an important role in the family in carrying on the family line and honoring their ancestors. They are bound to have more responsibilities and obligations than women. As a wife, you must learn to understand your husband. When a woman marries a man, you must remember that you are not only marrying him as a single person, but also the entire background behind this man. You must take the initiative to regard yourself as an important member of this big family, fulfill your responsibilities seriously, and do not care about personal gains and losses. In fact, everyone in the same family gets the same thing, but once it is lost, it is the loss of the entire family.

To understand your husband is to give him a stepping stone to overcome obstacles on the road; to understand your husband is to give him an umbrella to protect him from the wind and rain. To understand your husband is to give him more sympathy; to give him more pity; to give him more support.

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6. Give him more love and care

In fact, men are also very fragile. They have seven emotions and six desires and are rich in emotions. A wife should not only see the strong side of her husband, but most importantly, protect the weaknesses in his personality.

When your husband suffers setbacks outside, the only place where he can find comfort is at home. As a wife, you must not laugh at his incompetence. At this time, he needs your comfort and encouragement most.

When your husband is exhausted, you should use your enthusiasm to arouse his confidence; you should use your tenderness to relax him; you should use your passion to burn away his embarrassment and discouragement.

A man’s youth comes from a woman. Without a woman giving him the warmth of the sun, a man will never be able to bathe in the sunshine of spring, and he will never be able to be proud of the spring breeze.

7. Give him a little more help

My wife is a "good wife". This "help" is not only to help him in his career, but more importantly, to solve his worries. Do more filial piety for him in front of his parents-in-law; do more responsibility for him in front of his children. Let him put aside all selfish thoughts and focus on his career wholeheartedly. This is the true help of a wife to her husband.

You can help him steer the boat through thick and thin; you can share with him in the hardships. Solving problems for your husband is to help him release his psychological burden when he is troubled; when he is successful, let him make a clear judgment when he is forgetful; help him find his own position, and use your tender arms to give him strength at critical moments. . Career success is a man's true success. A man's success comes from his wife's constant support and selfless dedication. "Behind a successful man, there must be a great woman." This is the highest compliment for a woman.

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