The end of the year is coming, and everyone’s home will inevitably have waste items that have been accumulated for a year and need to be disposed of. So between husband and wife, will there also be some emotional garbage accumulated in the past? Organize and clear it well, don’t let the accumulation of garbage affect your new life in the new year!

1. Don’t mind that hug so much, in the final analysis it is just a hug

The reason why the feelings of the past are attractive is mostly because the current environment is better. Only when people are happy will it be easier for them to express their true feelings. So don't mind his passion for his former lover, maybe that's just the pride he feels because he has you. Even though that hug was warm, at least it wasn't hidden from you. As a successful woman, you really should show corresponding generosity and make him more proud in the New Year.

2. Women’s meanness is often due to lack of self-confidence

Men can think of it this way: women often squeeze on their husbands in public just to improve their status and Confidence, or just for "satisfaction". And there is a law that everyone knows: when a woman says "no", she is actually saying "yes" in her heart. When a woman is willing to say "yes", she is no longer a woman. By analogy, if your wife calls you stupid twelve times, it is equivalent to praising you for being smart twelve times - worthy of a year-end reward.

3. He is playful and you punish him

Men are like this sometimes. After marrying a daughter-in-law, they think they have another mother, and they are even more playful than before they got married. Then you should learn from your mother-in-law, especially when you are not feeling well but she still goes out to meet friends. Facts have proved that it is difficult for him to change for this, and if you don't have an attack, he will only get more excited. Therefore, it is much better for him to have a good time, for you to scold him happily, and to finally gain and lose something than for you to be sulky alone.

4. Love that has a shelf life is better than love that is just like chewing wax

Perhaps her lingering tenderness towards you has made her tired, so the indifference after having sex is just a kind of rest. You can be dissatisfied, but don't draw any conclusions. If you really can't justify yourself, you can try a little farewell. Even if you don't feel "better than newlyweds", at least you can let the other person feel the distance between you and you, which can also distract you from your disappointment. Since people's relationships have ups and downs, your relationship can also follow this pattern. It will alleviate some of the frustration during periods of calming down passion and will not accumulate into resentment.

5. Maybe the moment he raised his fist made you want to die

As long as men are not cowards, most men will be a little violent. Those who don't take action are just better able to control their emotions. After you have been angry with him for being rude and brutal for half a year, you can look back at this incident. Unless he's a brute, you can mostly find your fault. The only thing left is to teach him how to deal with this matter. Of course, you can give him three rules. No matter how wrong you are, if he does it again, he will never want to see you again.

6. Maybe she just forgot that she was a wife for the first time and got drunk all night at her best friend’s house

In fact, just like people can cheat during the day, staying out at night is not a problem in itself. If you are worried about this, you might as well try to see if you are so crazy that you forget to go home. If you have tasted the sweetness, you will definitely understand the little girl’s playful mind. Marriage means a loss of freedom for women more than for men. If marriage makes you narrow-minded, it's best to convince yourself otherwise. Otherwise, your wife's one night out will not affect her, but it will become a blockage in your heart. This kind of depression is purely self-inflicted.

7. Women nag to exercise

If you have listened to her nagging for 11 months, then discuss it and let yourself nag for the last month of the year. . You've been listening to rotten millet for a year, and it's time for her to listen to your complaints and comments. This changed form of communication is very effective for a nagging wife. The most important thing is that it allows strong men to release all kinds of "little chicken intestines" accumulated in their hearts. Even if this doesn't change her nagging habit, it can at least make you feel more comfortable without hurting her. Husband and wife, this is how they come up and down.

8. It is better to always find women than to always find women

If his job is related to the opposite sex, you only need to take some technical psychological precautions. Maybe he is indeed very popular with women. If it really hurts to see him working hard for women for many years, then write a high-profile year-end summary for him: A certain comrade has done a good job in women's work this year. I hope this comrade will continue to work hard next year. , to win the support of more lesbians, especially gay lovers. I think he must be very satisfied with your attitude. It's better for him to take the initiative to improve the situation than for you to continue sulking about it next year.

9. Although wool is a bit prickly, it is very warm

The experience and understanding accumulated over the years of marriage will indeed allow you to understand more of the other person's shortcomings and flaws, and you will be more comfortable attacking the other person. However, when you are planning to settle accounts after the fall, should you also think about the fact that the understanding you have gained over the past 7 years has made the other person more considerate of you? Similarly, if you count these incidents, you will find that although wool is itchy when worn on the body, it is still very warm.

10. It’s not terrible to forget your wedding anniversary

It’s better than forgetting to get married. Rather than brooding over this, it would be better to give him a chance before the New Year. Set up a "520-day wedding anniversary" or something like that to make him guilty and meritorious. If he is also guilty of his forgetfulness, he will definitely care about this "520th wedding anniversary" very much. If you can get double or even more anniversary gifts, you will be happy for many days.

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