Women must learn to cultivate themselves, unmarried women must cultivate themselves, and married women must learn to cultivate themselves to become a beautiful and mature "fairy" so that their husbands can only think of themselves. Haha! Although my Taoism is still very shallow on the long road to marriage, I have also accumulated some cultivation experience.

1. Maintain communication. Communication is very important between husband and wife. If you feel unhappy or happy, talk to your husband about it. The premise is that things should not be too trivial. Men generally have no interest in hearing about it every day.

Normally, men are not willing to speak out what is on their mind. Even if they are in extreme pain, they will only think of drinking to drown their sorrows. Then wives should be more considerate and take the initiative to talk to their husbands. When talking, he won't tell everything, at least he can tell most of it. This way, you'll know what to do. As time goes by, communication between husband and wife will naturally become smoother.

2. Mutual trust. It’s easy to talk about trust, but it’s really hard to do it! In this bustling big city, there are too many temptations... Who can guarantee that your husband is Liu Xiahui? Coming home late at night smelling of alcohol, you may not I consciously smelled whether there was any woman's perfume on him, and looked to see if there were any lipstick marks on his collar; when I saw him holding his mobile phone and chatting non-stop through text messages, I felt guilty, and quickly looked through his mobile phone while he was taking a shower. , to see if there are any suspicious text messages and phone calls.

But, do we have to do this? This is too tiring for women. Sometimes the relationship between husband and wife is like sand. The tighter you hold on, the more you lose. If you hold on tightly but not loosely, you will gain unexpected gains.

3. Remind him on special days of remembrance. No matter how careful a man is, he will be careless and forget the date of your wedding anniversary and your birthday. Don't always expect him to surprise you. When a special anniversary is coming, tell him two days or a week in advance and ask him not to forget to buy you a gift. Although it lacks the feeling of surprise, you will feel warm when he comes home from get off work and takes out the gift for you before sitting down to eat.

4. Be kind to yourself. Once many women get married and have children, they are always very picky about themselves. They are reluctant to buy a set of clothes all year round, and it is even rarer to buy a bottle of cosmetics. Why? Because we need to save money to finance a house and raise children.

Don’t think that your husband will be grateful to you for the rest of his life if you blindly give to him. Once they change their mind, their attitude of breaking up will be beyond your imagination. Why do you want to push yourself into the path of a yellow-faced woman? So, while saving, don’t forget to occasionally buy yourself a few sets of beautiful clothes and a few bottles of skin care products...

5. Leave some money for both parties A little personal space. Don't always dig up his secrets. Even though they are the closest couple, it doesn't mean that everything about him is under your control. Everyone has his own independent personality. He is not half of you, and you are not half of him. As long as he is loyal enough to you and values ​​you enough, leave more space for him and let him have his own little secret!

6. Learn to cook. As the saying goes, if you want to catch a man, the first thing you need to do is catch his stomach. This is true, but being able to cook is not necessarily to catch your husband. At least let him know that when he is not around you, you will still live well and feed yourself well. Two people who love each other can love each other forever, but in real life, it is not that one cannot survive without the other. Women must learn to be independent.

7. You must have your own circle of friends. Many married women have dozens of friends before they get married. They go in small groups wherever they go and talk about everything. But once they get married, it doesn’t take long for them to lose contact with their friends, and they only care about their husband and children. . In a long life, although marriage may take up more than half of it, it does not mean that you only need a husband and children. The husband has his own life to go, and the children will grow up... It would be very sad if you didn't have your own circle of friends.

8. Don’t talk about “divorce”. Arguments are inevitable, and when they get out of control, they may think of divorce, and they may even use words to hurt each other. But after calming down, apologize to each other, and don't always keep the divorce in your heart or talk about it.

Don’t always wait for your husband to say nice things first, but occasionally say "I'm sorry..." yourself first. A man will not always be patient with you. When his patience with you has been exhausted, When, your love no longer exists. He loves you, pampers you, values ​​you, and thinks about you. That's what he gave you. Don't take it for granted. If one day he takes it all back, you will become nothing in his heart.

9. Keep reading and improve yourself. It’s not enough for a woman to be beautiful, she must also have temperament and wisdom. The book says that if you have poems and books in your belly, your temperament will naturally develop. If you read more books, your temperament will naturally develop, and your wisdom will improve accordingly.

Men don’t like their wives to be ignorant. On the contrary, most of them hope that their wives are wise; it doesn’t matter even if they are not beautiful, as long as you are wise, you will have confidence. Your appearance will always grow old one day, but if you read too many books, what you learn becomes your own.

10. Be friendly to your husband’s family. There is no blood relationship, and we have not lived together for a long time. It is unrealistic to have a deep relationship with my husband's family. It is good to maintain a friendship. If we encounter unreasonable parents-in-law, we can't afford to offend them, but we can afford to hide them.

As long as I don’t deceive others too much, otherwise I won’t be a fuel-efficient lamp! But one thing is, never speak ill of his parents in front of your husband, and don’t complain about his brothers and sisters. No matter how important your position in his heart is, it is no more important than his parents. This is an indisputable fact. Don't even think about competing with his parents. If a man only cares about you and ignores the existence of his parents, I believe this kind of man cannot be called a man. (

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