Perhaps what is most lacking in the world is the medicine of regret. Whenever we have been searching for a long time to find someone to be married to for life, but as events go by, we will find that we are not satisfied in one way or another. I know in my heart that "if you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer the consequences", but you still have no regrets and "don't look back until you hit the wall!"... The following commandments are for reference by sisters who are in love!

The first commandment: Don’t let the in-laws meet too early

I thought that it would be a good thing for me if the parents of both parties met and got closer to each other. In fact, this was a big mistake. After getting to know each other, they would Gradually, misunderstandings will arise due to different living habits. In more serious cases, no one can understand the other. In the end, it will be you who is in trouble. The best thing is that it’s time to get married. When the in-laws of both parties meet again, it’s best to remain polite! It’s best to meet less after marriage! As the saying goes: "Distance creates beauty!"

The second commandment: Don’t develop a shopping preference for your future mother-in-law’s family.

Don’t be too fond of buying things for your mother-in-law and father-in-law during the holidays before marriage, but when you go to your own home, you don’t make any requirements for your husband.

If this happens for a long time, the husband will gradually become accustomed to thinking that buying things for his mother and father is normal, forming the concept that when a girl gets married, her husband's family should be the main one. I suggest that when buying gifts during holidays, each party should buy one gift for each family. It will be easier to deal with it after you get into the habit of getting married.

The third commandment: Don’t be too enthusiastic about taking on your husband’s housework before marriage

Don’t take the initiative to cook, do laundry, wash clothes for your husband, etc. before marriage. Girls should maintain a certain degree of reserve, otherwise It will make your mother-in-law think that you care about her son, or that you care about their family! Do some appropriately, but don’t get too involved!

The fourth commandment: Don’t talk too much about your natal family’s affairs at your mother-in-law’s house

You may be interested in talking to your mother-in-law. Don’t talk about your natal family’s affairs with your mother-in-law. Just talk if you feel bored. Talk about TV series and current affairs. The less your husband’s family knows about your own family’s affairs, the better! Especially if you have sisters and brothers, whose parents bought a house, who bought a car, etc.! In the future, when you buy a house, a car, etc., your mother-in-law will pay attention to whether you have received financial support from your mother's family!

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The fifth commandment: Don’t meet your in-laws too early

See you again if you think you are okay. After you have met, don't stay in your husband's house all day long, otherwise it will make them think that you care too much about their son's relationship. Girls should hold it in check when it's time to be careful.

The Sixth Commandment: Never spend the night at your husband’s house before marriage

The reason for spending the night at your husband’s house too early is the same as the third commandment, only worse!

The Seventh Commandment: Having sex before marriage is known to the husband’s family

Do I need to explain the reason! Let your in-laws look down upon you! If you catch up with a busy mother-in-law, you are dead!

The Eighth Commandment: Go to your husband’s house to celebrate New Year’s Eve!

There is plenty of time after marriage, so you should spend more time with your parents now! The reason is the same as the third commandment!

The Ninth Commandment: Learn to say "no"

When your mother-in-law is rude to you or your family in words or actions, or makes unreasonable demands, tell her in a timely manner Politely stop and refuse! Don't just tolerate and avoid. Do you understand what it means to intensify your efforts? Of course you have to be civilized and polite! Stay ladylike! Neither humble nor arrogant!

The Tenth Commandment: Spending too much money on your husband’s family before marriage

You want to live a long life and pay it all at once. What happens next? For example: This time my brother-in-law has no money to go to college, so you can sponsor him for 1,800 yuan. Next time my sister-in-law has something to do, if you don’t give her enough, it will be troublesome. So it’s best to keep developing at a constant pace!

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