When men no longer love you, their behaviors are often very similar. If your "he" has the following behaviors, you should be careful!

1. Indifference.

When your man changes his mind, his first characteristic will definitely be indifference. Indifferent to you, indifferent to your friends, and indifferent to everything around you. Even if you work overtime late, he won't call you to say hello, let alone expect him to pick you up downstairs at your company. In short, when you hope that he will care about you, you will suddenly find that he disappears.

2. Play dumb.

In fact, it is easy to be indifferent. The first key is to learn to play dumb. For example, if he knows you are very tired after get off work, he will pretend not to see it; for example, if he knows your doubts clearly, he will pretend to be innocent. It is said that men are little boys who never grow up, especially when it comes to pretending to be stupid. They definitely have a natural talent.

3. Busy.

Have you ever noticed that suddenly starting from a certain day, your man starts to be unusually busy? Not only do you need to work overtime today, but you need to socialize tomorrow, and even the day after tomorrow will be filled with meetings and studies. You find that the time that once belonged to you has been erased from the calendar by his busyness. It doesn’t matter whether he is really busy or not. What is important is that he will no longer be busy around you.

4. Drowsiness.

You used to feel very sorry for him because he always had so little rest time; but now you don't understand why he only likes to sleep when he comes home? When you are still busy with housework, he is already lying on the bed; when you want to chat with him, he tells you that he wants to sleep. For him after his change of heart, home is just a place to sleep.

5. Silence.

Some men are not good at hiding things by nature. When his heart no longer belongs to you, any words between you become redundant to him. Especially your nagging made him feel irritated, so he became silent. Don't doubt it, when he becomes impatient with your nagging, when he starts to be silent towards you, his heart is no longer with you.

6. Forget.

When a man loves you, his memory will be very good, and he will remember every little anniversary between you. However, when your man changes his mind, his memory will slowly decline. The numbers that were once etched in his life began to slowly disappear. Even if he remembers some important days, he would rather forget them.

7. Selfishness.

Love is great and can tolerate everything. Therefore, when there is love between two people, there is every possibility of happiness. However, when love disappears, when your man no longer loves you, all tolerance and forgiveness will disappear without a trace. He will forget your rights for his own benefit, and he will work hard to do everything just to satisfy his own selfishness.

8. Anger.

In the past, he was definitely not easily angry. Even if you made a big mistake, he would touch your head with pity and call you naughty. But when he changes his mind, any little mistake on your part will become the reason for him to become furious, even if the rice is a little bit hard-cooked. For you, there is nothing that can make him not angry.

9. Unfeeling.

When a man's heart changes to the point of hopelessness, ruthlessness will become their only expression. Otherwise, what kind of expression do you think he would have left? In fact, when a man becomes ruthless, the level is definitely no less than Li Mochou's hatred of the world. However, the target of his ruthlessness will not be anyone else, but only you.

10. Strange.

After love disappears, what will be left between you? Besides being strange, it is still strange. Don't expect that you can still be friends. Once a man changes his mind, there is no reason to completely forget how good you were and how happy and smiling you were. Want to be friends with him again? That is impossible. To him, you will just become strangers.

How to tell if a man is having an affair

Men naturally yearn for romantic encounters, and they have a good appetite. They will basically not refuse anyone who comes, because the threshold for sex is not high, especially for revealing sex.

A bird was holding a piece of meat in its beak, ready to swallow it deliciously. At this moment, a fox came down from the tree, and she had an evil thought: she wanted to eat the piece of meat. So, she praised the bird for being so handsome and resembling the singer Jay Chou, "But, I've never heard you sing before!" The bird was so encouraged by her that it began to sing enchantedly, but the meat fell off and hit the fox. No idea. When I told this somewhat adapted fairy tale to my son, he asked me seriously: "Dad, that bird is my uncle and that fox is my aunt!" I laughed. This was also a fairy tale version of an affair.

It is said that the biggest or most common problem that Tang Monk, Zhu Bajie, Sun Wukong, and Sha Monk encountered on their way to the West to learn Buddhist scriptures was related to all kinds of romantic encounters. Journey to the West is the story of romantic encounters.

There are real women and fake beauties, some who are obsessed with marrying their master, some goblins who change their ways to do evil, some who tease them, and some who are sincere. I have never understood why they have so many romantic encounters and stories. In fact, they have so many romantic encounters. The "accident" is the story. More importantly, when an affair happens, this group of special men will be tested. It would be easier if they were all lay disciples; it is their different personalities, origins, hormone levels, tastes, wills and morals that make them... Versions of stories, farces and even jokes that would lead to so many romantic encounters. Among the masters and disciples, Lao Zhu has the most distinctive attitude towards romantic encounters. In one word: happiness. In fact, this is also the instinctive reaction of ordinary people. Anyone who comes will accept the order. Tang Seng's reaction was another extreme: bitter! His life is miserable, he can't eat delicious things and can't afford fun things. From this perspective, Zhu Bajie lives a more chic life than him.

Men naturally yearn for romantic encounters, and they have a good appetite. They will basically not refuse anyone who comes, because the threshold for sex is not high, especially for revealing sex.

The problem is that the old pig often makes jokes and teases, is played by goblins, and loses his principles, responsibility and even basic IQ in the face of women and romantic encounters. In his opinion, the sow also has double eyelids, is open to all kinds of things, and has an excellent appetite. When I saw the goblin bathing in the river, I didn't know what to say, so I asked stupidly: Are you planting rice?

What about Goku? He is relatively calm, even a little aloof. In the past, domestic heroes generally did not approach women, which was more hypocritical, so he was immune to romantic encounters and hated them very much.

It seems that men have three typical feelings when it comes to romantic encounters or the process: Zhu Bajie's happy "pain", Tang Monk's painful "pain", and Sun Wukong's hated "pain". Men who have an affair may generally have such a "three-stage" mental journey.

Nowadays, the lines for men to have an affair are usually: "You look like a friend of mine in the past", "My marriage is stable, but sex can't satisfy me", "Your hair looks delicious when it is let down", "We are all adults..." etc.

Men constantly repeat the roles of the three men in their romantic encounters, from Zhu Bajie's joy, to Tang Monk's pain, and even to Sun Wukong's hatred, which hurts his spinal cord. A man and a woman chatted on a long-distance train and found out that they were both married and on a business trip. After the meal, the two drank a few glasses of wine, and the woman revealed that her husband, who liked to be a womanizer, must have been stealing food while she was away. After hearing this, the man also admitted that he was worried that his wife would cheat on him. At this time, the man suddenly said to the woman: "Since we are in the same boat, why not cooperate and take revenge together." After the passion, the two lay quietly for a few minutes, and just as the man turned over to sleep At this time, the woman said softly: "Do you want to take revenge again?" The man said ashamedly: "I'm sorry! I have forgiven my wife." This is a man. Painful man.

If you really play with sex, men can't play with women.

In an affair, different men have different interpretations. In the past, we liked to say that evaluating a man depends on how he died, which was the yardstick of the revolutionary or war years; now, evaluating a man can also depend on how he loves, and even how he treats an affair. Yes, an affair is like a test, and different men can come up with different test papers.