The true confession about the world of gender in the eyes of men can be revealed through the words of three professionals in the United States. The three are: Mr. Gersman, a lawyer, Mr. Pisso, an accountant, and Mr. Slade, a doctor.

In their eyes, men have the following 10 gender worldviews:

1. In the relationship between men and women, women are often dominant rather than men.

Facing the woman they like, men will show great fear and insecurity in their hearts. As the saying goes: "A man chases a woman, separated by mountains; a woman chases a man, separated by layers of yarn." There is also an interesting phenomenon: among the early overseas students, the women who abandoned their husbands first often took the initiative to pursue their husbands in the first place. woman.

2. In normal interactions, it is not always the man who is active and the woman who is passive.

A lot of the time, men prefer women to take the initiative. Because a man is used to taking the lead in his career, but when he enters the safe haven of the world between two people, a woman's courage and positive attitude will allow the man to find a balance in the exhausting struggle.

3. The reason why men will spare no effort to pursue something is often not because they like it, but because they cannot accept failure.

A man with a career and ambition will not spend too much energy fighting for a hopeless thing. So, if you like such a man, don't play emotional tricks with him. Sometimes a man will go to great lengths to pursue a woman, not necessarily because he loves her deeply, but because he cannot accept failure. In this case, once he gets this woman, he will not have the strength to create the same romance as before, unless he still has insecurities in his heart.

4. If a woman takes the initiative to flatter a man, he will not reject you, but he will not grow old with you.

If you find that the man you like is not interested in you at all, don’t be embarrassed and stay with him willingly. Because some men will accept anyone who comes, but their heart will never belong to you. So for such a man, give up as soon as possible.

5. When it comes to sexual content, the standards or standards of men and women will never be the same. It is definitely "only state officials are allowed to set fires, and people are not allowed to light lamps."

Some women will retaliate by cheating on their husbands, thinking, "You are not loyal to me, and I am not loyal to you." However, such "retaliation" is often self-defeating. Because a man doesn't think there's anything great about his temporary fling, but he will never tolerate even one "betrayal" from his lover.

6. Men can also be jealous.

These strong people who can only win but not lose in their careers do not want to lose in love, and they will not tolerate the people they love being obtained by others. The more insecure a man is, the more jealous he is.

7. Men are animals. If possible, they would never be willing to have a relationship with only one woman in their lives.

In the minds of men, sex and love are two completely different things. Women will always have sex with a man out of love; men will often have sex with any woman out of lust.

8. Men cannot stand or simply cannot listen to women’s endless nagging. They will never listen carefully to what a woman is talking about.

9. Men value actions rather than words. Men may never learn to speak a declaration of love in a woman's ear; they would rather express their love in action.

10. Men are animals with extremely strong self-esteem. If you want to enter his world, you must first satisfy his self-esteem.

In addition to the above 10 worldviews, they also talked about four ugly but real aspects of men:

One, a man can have sex with a complete stranger, such as a prostitute. . In other words: between men and women, women have sex for love, while men can have sex just for sex.

Secondly, men will even do deviant things behind the back of the woman they love. This does not mean that he is in love with someone else. For men, curiosity makes them willing to try all kinds of new stimulations.

Third, after a woman has been with a man for a period of time, the woman will need the man's commitment and hopes to become his wife. If at this time the man says to the woman, "I haven't thought about it yet" or " If I'm not mentally prepared yet", his "not thinking about it" and "not being ready" means that it will never be possible.

Fourth, in the eyes of men, a woman's appearance is always the first consideration in choosing a mate. For many men, a woman's appearance is everything.

Professors Mal Wilson and Martin Darley of McMaster University in Hamilton, Canada, once conducted an interesting experiment to confirm this point of view. They used 209 male and female students as subjects. Show male students pictures of beautiful women, and show female students pictures of handsome men. As long as you make a choice, you can win prizes. The condition is: if they make an immediate decision to accept the person in the photo they see, they can get a bonus of 15 to 35 US dollars the next day; if they are not satisfied with the photo and are willing to wait, they may get 50 ~$75 bonus.

What’s the result? A group of men who saw pictures of ordinary-looking women all decided to wait; another group of men who saw pictures of beautiful women made an immediate decision and would not wait for more bonus opportunities, nor would they care about whether there would be any in the future. More beautiful beauties appear. As for ladies, they don’t care whether the men in the photos are mediocre or handsome. Their rational thinking nerves are not easily disturbed, but they rationally choose whether to wait according to their own needs.

The above explicit description does not represent all men - not all men in the world are the same. However, if you think about it from another angle, perhaps this is the most authentic record of the depths of a man’s soul. If any women say that the men around them are not like this or their husbands are not like this, I would like to express my sincere congratulations, because they are really amazing and can overcome their natural weaknesses and learn to be self-disciplined and self-loving. They are not only mature men, but also men worthy of women's love and care.

So, women, please don’t take it for granted that you have such a good man. To them, women should pay deeper respect and even gratitude.

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