Marriage is the tomb of love, and marriage is also the paradise of love. The same marriage has two completely opposite results. This is because different people have different management methods for their marriages.

How to bypass the great writer's pessimistic definition of marriage in an established marriage? The method is very simple. We don’t want to be literary giants, we want to be practical. We must learn practical skills to change our own destiny and the destiny of our marriage.

The principal wife transforms into a "mistress"

The difference between the first wife and the mistress is always antagonistic. If this is the case, then why don’t we just follow our husband’s wishes and simply be his “mistress” for a time?

The main difference between the mistress and the main wife is that she only wants money and does not ask about what she does; she only wants to have fun without asking about the pain; she only wants to go to bed without being jealous of her mistresses and mistresses...

Can't we really do this? If you find out that your husband has already thought of divorcing you, then at this point, everything will no longer matter and everything will be fine.

"Flirting" is also important

The importance of flirting cannot be ignored in marriage, especially in marriages with more than ten years of marriage.

If you have always been a very practical housewife at home, working hard to support your husband and raise your children, you may have a happier married life. But compared to wives who know how to flirt, even if the house is dirty and the children are naughty, husbands will still give priority to women who can jump over the wall.

Boring is boring, this sentence is absolutely true. In marriage, it is not difficult to be a perfect wife, but the difficult thing is that you have to know what things are important and what things are not important.

Be your husband’s only personal assistant

I once heard a story about a successful man who had an affair, but his wife never took it seriously. The reason is very simple. This wife was absolutely sure that she would not be replaced by others, and the result afterwards was exactly the same. After following his husband for a period of time, the mistresses abandoned him one after another.

When people asked her the secret of her success afterwards, she said straight away, "No one can take my place. I am his personal assistant and the mother of his children!"

What this woman said was actually only half right. The child was indeed good, but this was not the reason why she successfully fought off the mistress. It was the personal assistant who saved the marriage.

It turns out that although this man is very profitable, he has always been unfamiliar with the word "life" since he was a spoiled child. He had relied on this wife for everything in life, so over time, he realized that he couldn't live without this woman, so he obediently returned to his wife.

Three things women should never do after marriage

Shopaholic

If you plan to accept a born shopaholic as your wife, you must have a strong financial foundation behind you, otherwise your marriage will be quite difficult.

To sum up, this kind of girl is not naturally a frugal person, and you should not try to make her understand your hard work. She can love you very much, and she can do this and that for you, but there is one thing that you cannot interfere with her shopping desire, and she will not allow you to do so. Once you touch her bottom line, the consequences will inevitably be a war.

Compare

A woman who often likes to make comparisons may have good intentions in doing so. She hopes that you can work harder and this is also out of consideration for her family.

But many times, this kind of comparison between girls will make you feel dissatisfied, which is the root cause of destroying your marriage. Just imagine, your girlfriend is in your ear every day encouraging you in this way, what would you think? Don't you think wrongly?

Sigh

Women who become housewives after marriage often do not understand the hard work of men. This type of girl will constantly lament around you, which is somewhat of a complaint. As for the content, it’s just about being idle and bored. Sometimes she will even be embarrassed by you. To sum it up in a sentence from a netizen: “It’s just about being idle and looking for trouble.”