Director Fang Baorui of the Premarital Examination Department of Haidian District Maternal and Child Health Hospital in Beijing said in an interview with reporters that newlyweds should do a good job in health care from three aspects: psychological, physiological and contraceptive.

Maintain a good attitude and avoid mental illness

Eliminate pre-marriage tension. Busy preparations for the wedding before marriage make both men and women exhausted physically and mentally. When the two parties disagree, they are prone to quarrels. They do not feel the beauty of love and feel that the other person has changed. Some people even have doubts about their future marriage life. At this time, both men and women should understand and trust each other, talk to each other well, and discuss matters slowly.

The wedding night is also a psychological test for men and women. Some people attach great importance to a woman's hymen. If a woman's hymen is found to have ruptured, they will think that the woman has had sex, which will leave a psychological shadow, thus affecting the future relationship between the sexes and even marriage life. Regarding this phenomenon, Director Fang said that according to regulations, doctors do not describe the hymen during premarital examinations. Some girls are born with a tough or thick hymen, some have no hymen, and some are injured during exercise, causing the hymen to rupture.

Both men and women should understand some anatomy knowledge and treat the hymen issue correctly.

Some men attach great importance to whether the first night is successful, and some men feel that the sexual pleasure in sex life is different from what they imagined. If the first night fails, it will affect future sexual life and even cause sexual dysfunction. Women's psychological state is more complex, they are nervous, fearful, shy, and often passive. Men should restrain themselves, caress and comfort women, and help women eliminate their timidity. If men only focus on satisfying their own physiological needs and ignore women's psychological needs, it will often cause women to be disgusted and afraid of sexual life. Director Fang believes that sex life is a matter for both husband and wife and should cooperate with each other. The woman should not be completely passive, eliminate tension and keep her muscles relaxed in order to reduce and avoid pain and discomfort caused by hymen damage.

Do a good job of contraception to reduce physical harm

Director Fang said in an interview with reporters that the pregnancy rate of newlyweds is as high as 85%, while the abortion rate is 67%. Director Fang reminded newlyweds to take contraceptive measures. Both men and women are relatively tired when they get married and have more opportunities to be exposed to tobacco and alcohol. If they become pregnant, it will often affect the health of the pregnant woman and the development of the fetus. Therefore, you must avoid "sitting on the wedding" and don't take chances.

Women should create a menstrual card and record it on the first day of menstruation. Women generally have their period every 28 or 30 days. When menstruation is stable, the 14-16 days before the next menstruation is the ovulation period. If you don't want to have children, you must avoid these days during sexual intercourse.

In the newlywed stage, men and women are still not able to cooperate well in sexual life. Director Fang recommends that men do not wear condoms and recommends that women take oral contraceptive pills for contraceptive purposes. Generally, short-acting oral contraceptives can lead to pregnancy one month after stopping the pills, while long-acting oral contraceptives require 6 months of stopping the pills before pregnancy can occur. If you want to have a child, you have to wait until 3-6 months after marriage before getting pregnant.

Finally, Director Fang also talked about the health care of some special groups during the wedding period. He said that since the Haidian District Maternal and Child Health Hospital started premarital examination work, they have received 20,000 people in nine years, and the disease detection rate was 7%. A considerable number of these 7% people are delaying marriage. Some people also have misunderstandings about prenatal check-ups. They always think that they are in good health and there is no need for check-ups. Some people are sick themselves and are afraid that they will be found out during premarital examinations, so they are not allowed to get married. Director Fang said that premarital health check-up work includes three aspects: pre-marital health guidance, pre-marital health consultation, and pre-marital medical examination. Pre-marital health check-up is actually to check reproductive health and teach sexual health knowledge to those who are preparing to get married. Hepatitis B virus carriers do not fall into the category of diseases that prohibit marriage. As long as hepatitis B virus carriers do not work in catering, donate blood, or donate organs, it is enough to regularly monitor the transaminase index. About 10% of the normal population is Australian anti-positive. Infection cannot be ruled out. As long as the transaminase index is not high, it is not considered a disease. Hepatitis B virus carriers can take five hepatitis B tests to find out whether hepatitis B virus is replicating in the body.

In addition, patients with heart disease must exercise moderation.

Pay attention to physical hygiene and prevent diseases

Develop good hygiene habits. Both men and women should cleanse frequently, especially before and after having sex. Women should change their underwear frequently. Some women think that they wear panty liners and do not change their underwear frequently. This is wrong. Doctors do not recommend wearing panty liners. This will increase the local temperature and humidity, which can easily breed bacteria. Just use warm water when cleaning. Various lotions will damage women's physiological environment and should not be recommended, let alone washing with soap. Frequent washing with soap or alkaline water changes the acidic environment of the vulva, which has a self-purifying effect. Instead, it is easy for bacteria to invade and cause urinary tract infection. Women should develop the habit of urinating after each sexual intercourse to flush out bacteria from the urethra to reduce the occurrence of honeymoon disease. It should be noted that sexual intercourse is not allowed during the menstrual period to avoid excessive menstrual bleeding or pelvic inflammatory disease after pelvic congestion.

Director Fang said that men should pay more attention to personal hygiene. If a man's foreskin is too long or has phimosis, it will affect the normal life of a couple. Especially a man's foreskin is a place where dirt hides dirt. If it is not cleaned, it will bring bacteria to women, causing urethritis, vaginitis, cystitis and other diseases. The secretions from the foreskin constantly accumulate into smegma, which can lead to penile inflammation. Long-term stimulation of the penis by smegma can lead to penile cancer. Smegma can also induce lesions in the female reproductive tract. In addition, severe varicocele in men can cause local congestion, increase the temperature in the scrotum, affect spermatogenesis, and is one of the causes of male infertility. However, after surgical treatment, it will not affect fertility.

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