The first lesson: Seeing the problem is even more direct.

When men and women are interacting, understanding that the other party is definitely pursuing the sexual pursuit, but the key points of men and women know. The woman wants to know, why did he call at night instead of at noon? Why did he invite me to watch a movie? Is there a special reason for this?

Compared to women’s wild speculations , what men want to know is the truth; how old are you, are you single? Are you free on Saturday night? Do you want to see me? Do you love me? Many women refer to men's straightforward decisions and straightforward statements of what they have met. It's unfair and callous. In fact, men look at problems more like a car running on the road. Their usual way of thinking is to go from point A to point B in a straight line and rarely deviate from the track.

If a man invites you to watch a movie, don’t think about any symbolic meaning it implies at the beginning. Just think about why he invites you to watch it instead of inviting someone else. Nine times out of ten, it's because he loves you and likes you, that's all.

Lesson 2: Keep silent as long as it is appropriate

Many women tend to make a mistake, that is, regardless of their friendship, they like to talk about the big and small things in life without caring about them. If the other party is interested, just talk about it for several hours.

Yes, women like and are good at sharing secrets with others, but no matter how big or small, right or wrong, they confide in him when they are half-baked, revealing secrets will only make you boring, trivial and unmysterious in the eyes of men. Feeling, the relationship between the two came to an end.

In fact, more men like to show off their various advantages to women. At this time, all they have to do is listen. Because he just wants you to "worship" him, and remember to give him a look of affirmation from time to time.

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Lesson 3: Love is not everything in life

For women, love is life, oxygen, and life. Therefore, women Their love is always vigorous and known to the world; most women will also pour all their feelings into it. But men are different. Even if they are passionately in love, they will have the ability to be ruthless and ignore their relatives and devote themselves wholeheartedly to the things in front of them.

Men are too ruthless, you may think so, and sometimes you will be angry with him for delaying your date again because of other things. In fact, they are just more practical and know that there are many things more important than love in real life, such as work, money, and his buddies.

Remember: He has no contempt for your existence at all.

Lesson 4: Don’t tell your friends about private affairs

In addition to sometimes wishful thinking about sharing your feelings with men you meet for the first time, women also have some fatal problems, that is, with their sisters They were so open and honest that they talked about almost everything, from their lover's childhood nickname, to kissing skills, and even..., they were all topics of small talk for each other.

But have women ever thought about it, sharing these private affairs with friends is very likely to cast a shadow on your relationship with him. On the one hand, it will make him feel that his privacy is known and everything is not hidden, which is very uncomfortable, which is a kind of betrayal and betrayal; in addition, maybe you don't care about things that much, but because you hear your friends cheering Jealously saying, "Yeah, he's really hard to please" makes you feel worse. And things that you shouldn't tolerate in the first place, but because of your friends' comfort words, make you even less determined to solve the problem.

Lesson 5: Cut off love immediately

The meaning of this sentence is not that "men are afraid of commitment", the fact is that "men are afraid of making promises. The dialogue is not the woman he is destined to be." "Before a man enters a stable relationship, he always asks himself: Does she meet my needs? How do the two of them cooperate sexually? Can she be self-sufficient financially?

If the answer to all the questions is no, he will never waste time having a hard time with you. Nine times out of ten, he will give up and continue to look for a beautiful woman on the road of love. They will never be like women, who clearly see each other's incompatibility, but still try to get into trouble and want to reform each other. In the end, it is difficult for people to reconcile, and it is still "long-term pain is worse than short-term pain"!

Lesson 6: Falling out of love will not make you miserable

This does not mean that Chinese people are cold-blooded and ruthless, and cannot feel the seven emotions and six desires. . When a woman is broken up in love, she will be extremely sad and cry until she is in a dark state; women with a higher level of love will not be able to eat or drink for several days. It is less common for men to indulge in sentimentality without eating or drinking due to a lovelorn relationship.

Part of the reason why men are so tolerant is due to general biological behavioral responses. Experts believe: "Psychologically, men are more likely than women to have a mental chemical reaction to overcome pain." In addition to psychological differences, of course men recover faster from a broken love. They know that they will eventually fall in love again, and there is no grass anywhere in the world. Moreover, the most practical way to heal is to fall in love with another person as soon as possible.

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