1. Behaving frivolously

When you meet a stylish man at a social party, you are the first among the ladies to walk up to him and exchange business cards to show your unlimited charm. , however, you may not have cared about your waist that swings too much when walking, your voice that is too sweet to appear sexy when you talk, and your female colleagues who are jealous of you will quickly spread the matter to the ears of the company's leaders in the form of gossip. Cause your trustworthiness index to drop rapidly.

You already know the reason for standing out and attracting attention. After all, no one pays attention to Cinderella. Maintaining the rate of turning heads and following the spotlight will help enhance your self-confidence. However, it’s best to leave things like midriff-baring tops to your cousins, and add a shawl when you go out wearing a halter top. Mature women are at least generous in appearance.

By the way, don’t forward text messages sent to you by sisters to the opposite sex. These words of encouragement may not apply to everyone. Remember, deep charm comes from your inner-outward temperament, not a temporary display of talent.

2. Love vanity

You are not twenty years old, so why should you make a grand celebration on your birthday? If your boyfriend doesn’t send you flowers, don’t secretly call the flower shop yourself. Request that flowers be sent to the company and that at least three female colleagues be present. Now that the couple is living a family life, there is no need to hold the male partner to high standards and strict requirements on Valentine's Day.

The latest mobile phones are not specially designed for you. They are just for show, and some functions you cannot actually use, especially those that look thin but are expensive. It’s just window appreciation. After all, his money is used to support his family.

It is understandable that women like a glamorous appearance, but those actresses who endorse high-end cosmetics brands use free gifts and can even make money after using them. You and they are not on the same starting line at all.

So, don’t force yourself, do everything within your ability, and be more practical when buying things, which will make you more feminine at home. Otherwise, in the eyes of men, you will never be a woman who can take care of your husband, raise your children, and take care of the family. This is one of the reasons why you have been unable to get married.

3. Impulse consumption

I believe that when you pass by a window full of beautiful clothes, you will also touch your bank card subconsciously. If you feel like an angel is flying in your heart every time you make a purchase, then You'd better remember that "impulse is the devil" before purchasing.

Have you bought that pair of sunglasses and then thrown them into the drawer and never paid attention to them again? The entrance in the newly opened boutique on the street Dolls are ridiculously expensive and can be bought for only ten yuan in Yiwu. Have you bought them on a whim and never opened the box again after you brought them home?

Yes, you have the same hobbies as all women in the world, and you are obsessed with spending money to buy gadgets that are not used at all. The moment you own it, you will feel "materialism" the happiness of the person. As for terms such as practicality, use value, and cost-effectiveness, you rarely care.

If you are only responsible for being impulsive when spending, and spending a little when impulsive, then it is no wonder that in the eyes of others, you are always a little girl who loves to spend money randomly.

4. Love fantasy

You are the kind of person who keeps saying that you are single and have no lover, but there is never a lack of love around you. When you are excessively depressed, you will also find yourself in the vast Internet or dim Looking for a quick bite of love in a bar. When you were a girl, you were a perfectionist. You were like a fairy descending to earth. You must find a prince, not necessarily an Arab, but at least an Afghan.

For the male protagonist in the upcoming love story, Gao Daquan adheres to high image standards. Later, you met men A, B, C and D, but you were not very satisfied with the relationship, so you began to feel that your life was far away and your love was elsewhere. Later, you met the man ABCD through the introduction of a friend. You thought that you had seen countless people and were mature enough, so you sincerely lamented that "you have seen through men long ago" and "none of them are good" and so on.

Actually, you haven’t figured out yet that you are basically a love fantasy. Everyone can understand the love dreams you had when you were young and ignorant, but after grinding in reality for so long, you are still unwilling to live a down-to-earth life. On the one hand, you keep dating but are always unwilling to be truly committed. He eagerly looks forward to something extremely romantic happening to him.

If you live with such an emotional attitude, obviously you will gain nothing except that your body will become more and more mature.

5. Losing temper

Some people are always slow to react, but you are just the opposite, and you lose your temper at the drop of a hat. Because your boyfriend makes an exaggerated comment about your dress, you will immediately throw away his arm on the street, leaving him desperately trying to find a hole in the ground in full view of the public. On your emotional barometer, mostly sunny to cloudy with short gusts of wind and sometimes showers.

If the occasional coquettishness can add a bit of cuteness to you, then please believe that not many men can stand your habitual outbursts. There are at least ten reasons that can explain to you who are emotional and tearful why you should not lose your temper: it will damage the liver and stomach, it will cause aging and shorten your life, it will affect your work, you will lose your affinity, you will lose your femininity, it will damage your image. ... Life is full of joy, anger, sorrow, and joy. Losing your temper is a normal phenomenon, but losing your temper is obviously a sign of immature temperament.

6. Relaxation

Tell me about your career. Do you often lose sight of things and do things based on your imagination? You spend three days fishing and two days posting nets in your business. First and Secondary If you want to predict whether your career will have a bright future, whether you can be a leader or just a leader's wife, you don't actually need to test how much talent and strategy you have. You just need to check the debris in your handbag. Or be more organized, or reflect on whether your blog is full of daydreams and freehand poems, or whether it is a well-organized work plan.

A person who has a plan for doing things, can implement the plan, and the implementation is effective and the effect is obvious will be welcomed by any boss. If the situation is the opposite, then don't use "plans are not as fast as changes". If you make an excuse, you change quickly enough, it’s because you don’t have any plan at all. If it weren't for your gender being stable enough, your chances of becoming the leader's wife would be slim.

7. Narrow-minded

The new female colleague is more popular with the boss than you, is younger and more beautiful than you, and wears more fashionable clothes than you. It really makes you I feel very unhappy! Trivial matters between colleagues, a few unintentional jokes back and forth, will immediately cause you to feel inexplicable jealousy. You start to act. Although there is no absolute malice, you can't help but say bad things about the other person behind his back, laugh at her embarrassments, and ridicule her dress...

Women are indeed jealous. Animals, in some aspects, lack a broad mind and are often prone to extremes. However, you need to know that mature people know how to tolerate and seek common ground while reserving differences. Think about your boyfriend's tolerance and understanding of you over the years! If you are as broad-minded as him, then the atmosphere in your office will definitely be much more harmonious, and your popularity will be better.

8. Self-willed

Since you were a little girl, you have learned to clamor for ice cream and buy new clothes without being taught. When you grow up, you will still be like this. If your boyfriend doesn't spend the weekend with you to get rid of your shopping addiction, and you don't care if he has to work overtime or attend official business, one word: trouble! If you dare to go against my will, if you dare to disobey my orders, if you dare to disobey my aunt... Okay, you'd better stop.

A woman who is arrogant, unreasonable and self-righteous, a woman who does not consider others’ perspective, or even a woman who is domineering and extremely self-centered, is unlikely to be a lovely woman in everyone’s eyes. It doesn't matter if you act petty or lose your temper, just stop it in time. Men are annoyed by women who are overly willful and don't think about each other under any circumstances. The meaning of maturity includes knowing how to respect others, knowing how to respect others, and being grateful.

9. Old and ignorant

There are many women like you who are very old and dangerous. Their hobbies are still in shopping and entertainment. They don’t understand social life, let alone career. develop.

People who muddle along without a sense of worry are often dealt devastating blows when they encounter twists and turns in life. The so-called ignorant are helpless, sad and pitiful. If you can be forgiven for saying that a fifteen or sixteen-year-old girl is young and ignorant, then if you are twice as old as a young girl, if you are still as naive and naive as you were more than ten years ago, and your EQ and IQ have not improved significantly, then that is your fault. Something is wrong.

It doesn’t mean that you are knowledgeable because you know a lot about celebrity gossip. It doesn’t mean that you have a deep understanding of life because you watch a lot of TV series. It doesn’t mean that you have a high level of computer skills because you type quickly. Just because you can joke doesn't mean you are an expert in business negotiations... There are also different levels of knowledge, and there are also different levels of self-cultivation. It depends on the accumulation of dealing with people over time, and it depends on your requirements and expectations for yourself.

If compared with young people, all you have is attendance records for several years, then sooner or later you will lose the status you deserve as an elder.

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