Yang Yang always prefers his father because his mother is too strong. At home, my mother said one thing, but my father didn't dare to say another thing. Even he was very afraid of his mother. He once asked his father why he was always "bullied" by his mother and did not dare to resist? Dad would always answer him with a smile, because Mom was right.

However, Yang Yang was too young and he didn't understand what his father said. He only knew that he didn't like his mother and only liked to be with his father. As Yang Yang grows older, he increasingly feels that his mother is too "excessive" and his father is too "weak". "Strong wives and weak husbands" are more appropriate to describe them. Yang Yang began to rebel against his mother, and instead of sympathizing with his father, he distanced himself from him, feeling that he was unmanly. Yang Yang envies those classmates whose fathers "make the decision" at home. He believes that only in that way can families be happy.

As time goes by, Yang Yang's age keeps pace with the times, and his experience and experience gradually increase. Yang Yang discovered that the happy family he envied was not as good as he imagined. Many chauvinistic husbands beat and scold their wives, and those with "small treasury" are always willing to engage in extramarital affairs or indulge in one-night stands. Looking back at my parents, my mother is still so "overbearing" and my father is still so "weak", but the two of them live a very happy life, and neither one of them has let down the family.

At this moment, Yang Yang finally understood that his mother's strength was to make the family better and better, while his father's weakness provided a favorable foundation for his mother, giving her room to display her abilities. This is a kind of mutually tolerant love. With it, marriage and family will become more and more harmonious.

The marriages of "strong wives and weak husbands" are also happy

A strong wife and a weak husband are not a master-slave relationship in an objective sense, but a way of expressing mutual tolerance and humility between husband and wife.

This kind of toughness of the wife is reflected in family affairs. Many couples are like this in real life. The woman manages the household and everything, while the man works outside to make money and turns over the "funds" when he returns home. However, this situation must be based on a deep relationship between the two, and the woman has the ability to control the family finances and is loyal to the family before it can be implemented.

The husband's weakness does not mean that he is weak and incompetent. This "weakness" is just a manifestation of a man's respect for women. Just like what Ip Man said in the movie "Ip Man", "Men are not afraid of their wives, but respect their wives." If the "weakness" expressed out of respect for his wife is regarded as cowardice, then this person definitely does not understand women and does not understand love.

Therefore, "a strong wife and a weak husband" is a manifestation of harmonious emotions between husband and wife, and it is not about who is the "master" and who is the "subordinate". Only by reaching this state of "women singing and husbands accompanying each other" can marriage and family be happier.