Stay away from sexless marriages and talk about sex life boldly

Nowadays, "sexless marriages" and "sexless lives" seem to be more and more common. People of all ages may encounter sexual problems, and the most common ones are asexual couples in their golden years, that is, they should have had frequent or active sex lives, but they no longer have them.

What should you do if your sex life has been silent for a long time and you want to restore the intimacy between the two? Brother Danding is here to give you some tips...

1. Learn to discuss sex

Couples must be open and honest so that there can be further communication. If you are too shy to speak up at first, you might as well start by watching warm romance or erotic films, and then find topics to talk about your feelings.

If one party really wants to have sex, but the other party doesn’t want it at all, then the two parties can negotiate not to have sex for a certain period of time, so that both parties have space and time to communicate and find out the problem.

2. Actively seek treatment

Master, the contemporary sex therapy master, once said: "Sex is a matter of two people. If one person is not good, the other person will not be happy. ” Therefore, if asexual couples still cannot solve the problem after discussing it, it is best to seek help from a professional therapist.

3. Relax, relax again

To break the taboos or stereotypes about sex, you must also relax your body. Women should learn to explore their sensitive areas through masturbation. Then, learn some new sex skills so that both parties can make sexual breakthroughs and enjoy different pleasures.

4. Teach your partner how to love you

For example, tell your partner where your erogenous zones are, where you feel more comfortable when kissing and caressing, and where you feel uncomfortable. When communicating, although you need to be direct and honest, you must also be gentle and courteous, and consider whether your words will hurt the other party. For example, a wife should not criticize her husband: "You push too hard, you are so stupid." Instead, say: "I like gentle touch."

5. Make time for dates and create time for two people

Sex life is not just a physical thing, but an art, a game between two people. If you don’t spend time on it, of course there won’t be good results. And dating is the best way to do business.

6. Seek changes and create freshness

Occasionally going to a hotel or carefully decorating the bedroom can bring great excitement and freshness to both parties.

7. Frequently exercise with your partner

Engaging in sexual activity requires physical strength. Good exercise habits will naturally make people stronger and more interested in enjoying sex.

8. Hug each other more

Two people should start from physical contact without sexual desire and slowly develop sexual feelings. This is the best way to change asexual couples.

Experts remind: Marriage requires mutual respect, understanding, trust, and tolerance. If there is a lack of necessary exchange and communication, such a marriage needs to be changed. You have the right to pursue sex and enjoy life. You must face it bravely and take this step.