A few friends are together. The most talk about is not the topic of Valentine's Day, but about what type of women in men's hearts can be good wives. It's a bit strange, haha, but don't be surprised. Today, Xiaolong, as a die-hard representative of the post-80s generation, combined the thoughts of a group of die-hard post-80s men to count the qualities of a good wife in the eyes of post-80s men.

1. Age

Of course, those born in the 1980s are looking for people born in the 1980s. People born in this era who have not suffered any great hardships and have not enjoyed any great blessings will at least not have a generation gap. Those born in the 1990s are too young, and most of them are "non-mainstream" people, so don't mess with us. Although we are a generation that combines tradition and modernity, we are still not as "avant-garde" as you are. Your "avant-garde" speed has skyrocketed. On another planet, you must know that people on earth are still hostile to aliens.

2. Appearance

You don’t have to be too pretty, of course, being too ugly will turn off your appetite. The facial features should be straight and comfortable to look at. The nose is a nose and the eyes are eyes. Don’t crowd your nose and eyes together. The body should be as well-proportioned as possible. If you have practiced dance or yoga, that would be great. As the saying goes, "trees must be straight and people must be upright." You should walk with a normal posture. Don't come with those who have internal or external splays or Lingbo microsteps. Then walking with you will not feel the same.

3. Talent and learning

"It is virtue for a woman to have no talent." This is a feudal saying and we do not agree with it. Life needs to be colorful, you need to know several crafts, and you need to know some arts, in order to bring pleasure to the fast-paced life of the city. Music, chess, calligraphy, painting, music, music, music, and handicrafts can be anything. Life should be enriched.

4. Personality

Don't think of yourself as a princess who can't take care of you. Pampered and pampered. Be aggressive and realistic, don't act like a glass man. To be independent, it doesn’t matter whether you make money or not, but you must have the ability to survive independently. Don't count on me for everything. What I'm looking for is a wife, not a girlfriend, not a daughter, and not a mistress.

5. Occupation

Our parents have some requirements for this, but we don’t care. The income cannot be too high. We all earned our money through our own hard work. We don’t want to become a nouveau riche character, and we don’t need to rely on women to make a living. We hate that kind of character who is just a free man.

6. Diligence

Must be able to do housework. We definitely have to share the housework, such as sweeping the floor and washing dishes, but we don't want to do laundry and cook. I hope you can still cook some side dishes. You know, although we won’t be able to eat at home every day in the future, at least we have the ability to eat all the dishes we cook occasionally.

7. Dress up

"Heart of beauty in everyone". It’s normal for women to like makeup, and we don’t object to it. Of course, we don’t rule out the occasional facial mask to replenish it, but your makeup must be natural, fresh, and clean. Black and white must be too bright, and it looks like a ghost or a turkey or something. If you are working in a special industry, please stay away.

8. Make friends

You Are the One. No matter what the reason is for breaking up with your previous boyfriend, if you dumped three people in a row, then you are a flirt. If you were dumped three times in a row, then you are really not a good person. Poor people must be hateful, this is an unspoken rule.

9. Love

"As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world..." This song has grown up with us, and we are very affectionate to it. Therefore, you must educate the children without regrets and have no regrets. Selfless loyalty to your lover must be accompanied by caring for your elders day and night. In short, be loving. Starting from us, we don’t want the next generation to become loyal representatives of the “non-mainstream”.

10. Patriotism

Foreign languages ​​are useful, but don't speak them to us. We understand English, but we prefer our mother tongue, remembering that we are Chinese. I can travel abroad with you, but don’t expect to emigrate. You must remember that China is the best. We love our country very much. If you keep telling us that everything in foreign countries is better than China, then let me tell you, family war will break out immediately.

This is the standard of a good wife in the eyes of men born in the 1980s and our interpretation of this standard. It is our personal feelings and behaviors. It does not mean that girls who do not meet these conditions are bad, but they are just not suitable for us.

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