We often see men defending face everywhere. Has anyone seen what happens when a man breaks face? Men who lose face first become crazy and secondly become detached. No matter which extreme it goes to, it's actually very unfortunate for women. A smart woman is willing to put in the effort to protect her man's face and make the small atmosphere between the two of them more harmonious.

1. A smart woman might as well show weakness

Mr. Li, who came from Taiwan, opened a restaurant in Beijing and the business was booming. One day when the restaurant was closing, he met his wife Hedong Shiroar. Mr. Li ran away under the table in a hurry. Just as the guest came back to look for the lost thing, he bumped into him, making his advance and retreat awkward. At this time, the all-rounded Mrs. Li suddenly patted the table: "I said lift it, you have to carry it, and I am here to help. Use your power next time!" Mr. Li walked down the slope and praised his wife for her thoughtfulness. The situation crisis was easily resolved.

2. A smart woman might as well pretend to be stupid

Yu Hua and her husband have been married for 10 years, and they still care about each other. Her secret is. On the wall of her bedroom is a note with her "house rules." Everything is decided by him; the second article is still implemented with reference to the first article. Later, my husband was moved and added another one. The wife has the final decision-making power.

3. Smart women might as well be more modest

Don’t think that if you tell him, he will do what you ask/When we hope to get a set result, we must consider the other party’s acceptance. For example, if he always forgets to put the toothpaste cap on after brushing his teeth, you should say "please" a few more times instead of constantly throwing "no, no" and the like to him, so that he will accept it happily, and He won't get angry out of shame and break the pot.

4. Smart women are different inside and outside

No matter you use your husband as a rice cooker or a vacuum cleaner at home, when it comes to his face, you must be cautious and hold an ancient and precious porcelain in your hand. Only by giving him enough face can you get "high returns".

5. A smart woman can cry with him

In fact, men are very tired. When they open their eyes, they are faced with various responsibilities and obligations. They dare not admit that they are also very fragile and need care. When he is satisfied, please give him enough appreciation. When he encounters injustice and setbacks, you might as well cry with him. Then forget it as soon as possible and don’t mention the old things.

6. Smart women train their minds more

Remember, it’s not about worrying but training your mind. If you want to give a man enough face, you need to train your mind a lot. Your cultivation, your conversation, your charm, your appearance, your wisdom, and your smile are all important components of a man's face. Otherwise, if there are only jade trees facing the wind and no beautiful women to accompany them, how should the outermost layer of gold be attached to the face?

Five psychological aspects of men that should not be touched

1. Being ridiculed for being timid

Since ancient times, there has been a saying that heroes save beauties, but men all like beauties, so in their minds, they all hope to be a hero that beauties can admire.

It's a pity that we are a civilized society, so there are not so many beauties who need men with strong bodies to act as beauty guardians.

But this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. For men, ridiculing them for being timid is nothing more than insinuating that they are not men enough, which is an insult to them.

2. Being picky about appearance

I always thought that only women care about their appearance, but actually men care about it too. Recently, a friend of mine got a girlfriend, and he always felt that his relatively standard figure was not strong enough to give his girlfriend a sense of security.

In fact, what his girlfriend said is that her men are quite muscular, so men’s lack of confidence in their appearance often comes from their own psychological pressure. In fact, this is not what women care about. No matter how tall, strong or handsome a man is, what a woman cares more about is how sincere the man is to her.

However, it is said that men care about other people's evaluation of his appearance, all because they are confident enough in their genes, just like those short men always hope to find a tall woman, they hope to make up for their shortcomings through complementation, so If a woman is picky about a man's appearance, he will interpret her as disapproving of him.

3. Praise another man in front of him

Just like a woman doesn't want a man to praise another woman in front of her, a man also minds if a woman praises another man in front of him, even if the man is a relative of the woman or a friend of the man.

Men can't stand it. When a woman is with him, she praises another man desperately. This will not only make the man feel that you are looking down on him, but it is also very mentally retarded.

Just think about it, most men love face, especially in front of the woman they love, and most of them want to be recognized by the other person. If you praise another man in front of him, you are just telling him that there is another man who is better than him. , if he still knew this man, imagine which man could tolerate it?

4. Disclosure of private life

I still remember that I used to know a woman who always liked to talk about the things between her and her husband. Why was it that one day after helping her husband wash his underwear, it was blown away by the wind while drying it on the balcony? Why did I buy a few cans today? He had to ask his husband to reimburse him for the soda and rolls of toilet paper at night. He even mentioned the fact that his husband snores at night.

Everyone has two sides, and her husband can be considered a man of some social status, with many people supporting him. In their own homes, all men will disarm and restore their truest self. At this moment, he is also undefended, picking his nose and scratching his scalp.

If a woman treats the secret between you and him as a topic of discussion, for a man, it is tantamount to exposing his weaknesses and vulnerabilities in front of others. He will feel betrayed and will be repelled from exposing it in front of you. The most real side.

5. Sexual expression

Every man hopes that he can be long-lasting and powerful, but he will always be unable to do what he wants, and a woman's attitude when faced with a man's inability will greatly affect a man's future performance. What's particularly bad is that some women also like to promote the private addiction between husband and wife. You must know that men's incompetence is not all physical problems, many of them come from psychological problems. Women's ridicule is the cause of men's "psychological incompetence" reason.

For example, the woman I mentioned earlier, her husband doesn't come home every three days, and everyone knows what's going on. And because she has been married for many years and has not given birth to a child, she is afraid of being laughed at, so she goes everywhere to spread the word that her husband is not good in bed. I think for a man, not being good in bed may be a much more serious problem than not having money, so the man openly took a young and beautiful woman out to have sex with him, and used his actions to tell everyone that he was not "not good" anymore, but It's because he has no "sexual interest" in his wife.