The best way for a woman to deal with a man is not to tether him, but to attract him. A leash is suitable for dogs, but not for men. Dogs can be loyal, but men are a bit philandering. Therefore, if you want to tie up a wandering man, it is better to find a dog. To put it simply, attraction is a magnetic field. You don't revolve around him, but he revolves around you. Of course, this requires you to use some "tricks".

A girlfriend came to me crying, saying that she was so good to her boyfriend, but he abandoned her. She said bitterly that if she had known he was so carefree, she might as well have gotten a dog. However, after some time, she did not keep a dog, but still found a man, and repeated her old tricks, pestering her new boyfriend every day, lest she accidentally let him slip away. This kind of anti-paradigm love is so scary. I guess it won’t be long before she will scold men harshly again for being inferior to dogs. Unfortunately, there was no way a dog could keep her warm during the cold winter months. Therefore, the girlfriend still chose the man and planned to tie the man up like a dog. This trick is really not very clever. A dog will endure the pain of a chain for his master, but a man will not, because he intends to be your master, not a servant. Therefore, even if you try your best, you can't tie him down, you will only get more and more tied up and run away.

Many women make the same mistake as their girlfriends, either tying him to his stomach or tying his sex. Don't you know that today's men's appetites are getting bigger and bigger, they will have enough of the best food, and they will get bored no matter how good they are in bed. For a man, freedom is more important than love. When he feels chained, he will probably become farther and farther away from you. Instead of doing this, it is better to learn to be his magnetic field and let him revolve around you. So, some people wondered: Who wouldn’t want him hanging around? Isn't this what we are trying to do? I said, efforts must have a direction, but your direction is wrong. You haven't figured out the meaning of magnetic field. The magnetic field mentioned here is to create your own magnetic field first. Loving yourself is a prerequisite, enriching yourself is an additional condition, and of course attracting him is the final result. If the prerequisites are not prepared, how can we talk about the results?

My girlfriend made a major mistake, that is, she mistook "being mean" as love, thinking that only by tying, coaxing, and being humble can she keep a man, but she didn't know that a man doesn't even love her. How can a woman talk about letting others love her? The main theme of a magnetic woman is to establish her own magnetic field first. For example, she can stand alone in her career, but she can also be a gentle woman in love. Her attitude of being strong and soft allows her to easily control various roles.

From this point of view, the magnetic field is also so simple. First let yourself emit magnetism and have independent feminine magnetism. Do you still worry about men not entering the magnetic field? I think I can't drive him away even if I hurry up. At that time, I'm afraid it's him who will be troubled, not you!