In a survey of about 5,000 people conducted by us and a female channel on a certain website, the data obtained is:

About 40.67% of people spend 8 hours of 24 hours a day engaged in 17.16% of people have close contact with the bed for less than 8 hours a day; 39.55% of people spend between 8 and 12 hours in bed, and a truly luxurious life in bed requires more than 12 hours Only 2.61% of talents!

How to define our life in bed which lasts from 8 hours to 12 hours? What exactly do we do in bed? Now let’s unravel the mystery!

1. Sleep: How to sleep?

Beds, called “couches” in ancient times, were originally used for sleeping! Therefore, the first form of Ukiyo-e on the bed should be all kinds of topics about sleeping.

Survey on room and bed allocation

1. 73.13% of the respondents had only one bedroom at home, only one big bed, and only one quilt to sleep with.

Keywords: Emotion

" It definitely affects some of each other's sleep quality, but we all believe that emotion is the first priority in bed life. "

2． There is only one bedroom at home and only one big bed, but 17.91% of the respondents sleep with two separate quilts.

Keywords: initiative

“ Try not to affect each other’s rest; when thinking about ML, either he takes the initiative or I take the initiative. ”

3. There are two bedrooms at home, each sleeping in his own room, and no one interferes with each other’s rest. 7.46% of the respondents

Keywords: privacy

“ When thinking about ML, Or he comes to my room to look for me, or I go to his room to look for him, and other times he has his own privacy.”

4. There is only one bedroom at home, but there are two single beds, and couples who sleep separately account for 1.49% of the respondents.

Keywords: Convenience

“ Separation without separation does not affect each other’s rest; when I want to have sex, either he comes to my bed to find me, or I come to his bed to find him. ”

A popular saying in China is: first-class couples sleep in separate rooms, second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples sleep in the same bed.

The so-called first class is like a nobleman. The master and the housewife have their own bedroom and living room. When living as a couple, the master "Yuyou" usually "comes by chance" to the housewife's room. The so-called second class is the petty bourgeoisie. They cannot afford two bedrooms, but they can afford two beds. Sleeping from one bed to the other is considered a kind of romance. The third class is naturally the civilian class, and the happiest thing is to have a wife and children on the hot bed.

The popularity of separate beds is undoubtedly inseparable from the trend of individualism. In the bed of the Chinese people, it has begun to emphasize the equality of everyone in the free era. Some people say that those who implement the "separate bed system" are spiritual aristocrats. At least, they show a detached attitude on sexual issues and dare to separate. Naturally Is not hungry or thirsty. In fact, for today's young couples, the problem of sexual hunger and thirst is not serious, but the problem of aesthetic fatigue is rampant. Sharing the same bed before marriage is no longer new. After becoming a couple, the certificate will naturally not stimulate the novelty. The popularity of separate rooms and beds can also be regarded as a means of "creating hunger and thirst".

Sleeping Positions & Relationships

Various sleeping positions usually reflect the relationship between the host and the host in bed.

Sleeping face to face or hugging each other: 35.68% of the people who participated in the survey adopt this sleeping position

In addition to indicating that the two are still in love, it also shows that both men and women are possessive people. This kind of love is very strong and unreserved. At the same time, everyone does not want anyone or anything to affect the relationship between the two parties, and they have the desire to sacrifice and pay for each other.

Back-to-back position: 30.24% of the respondents are willing to sleep with their backs facing each other.

This sleeping position can be judged in two situations. One is that everyone is a relatively self-centered person. Even if there is no major conflict at ordinary times, they do not want to be disturbed by each other when sleeping, so the relationship can easily become alienated. In terms of sex, it often manifests as hot and cold, and inseparation. If one party intentionally sleeps further and further away, or even changes the position of the pillow, the other party should pay more attention and guide the other party to express their dissatisfaction, so that both parties can calmly solve the problems in real marriage life.

Embracing style: 19.57% of men or women prefer to sleep with their partner in their arms

It is a warm and stable couple. Trust the other party very much and can give the other party a sense of security. A man hugging her from behind shows that he doesn't mind taking care of his woman wholeheartedly, and is willing to put her first in everything from daily life to any major decisions. And if a woman hugs him from behind, it shows that she is willing to take care of her man's life so that he can have no worries and work hard on his career.

Sleeping on the shoulder: A sleeping method that 14.51-year-old women like to adopt

Many people like to sleep on each other’s shoulders. It is known that this is a problem for most people. The most natural and comfortable sleeping position. In fact, this sleeping position means that both of them enjoy their current marital status and affirms the position of their partner in their hearts. It can be seen that the two of them understand and understand their partners very well, their relationship is equal, there is no distinction between high and low positions, and they get along very comfortably.

${FDPageBreak}Survey on Snoring & Insomnia

1. Although 44.4% of women claimed that their husbands' snoring was not serious, he still had breathing pauses every time. They worry that one day problems will really arise if this continues.

2. 22.76% of women will try to fall asleep before their husbands, and if the guy's snoring wakes her up at night, they will get angry with him or wake him up too.

3. 16.79% of women wake up their husbands mercilessly whenever they snore, otherwise it would be impossible to fall asleep.

4. 16.04% of women admitted that because of their husband's snoring problem, they were often disturbed, causing sleep disorders and even insomnia.

Snoring & Insomnia

If there is such a person who snores so loudly in bed, the other person will inevitably suffer from insomnia. Most men snore, and women who are listening must be familiar with the following scene: just when the loud snorer suddenly calms down, you on the pillow thought you could finally sleep peacefully, but who knows, suddenly "snoring" again With a loud bang, the air flow broke through the obstruction, gushing out thousands of miles, and the deafening snoring began again.

There is no doubt that the number of couples sleeping in separate rooms due to snoring is increasing day by day.

2. Chat: What to talk about?

While marriage brings a stable sex life, it also makes sex unstable. This is an undoubted fact. In order to restore passion, people have promoted the slogan "talk in bed, have sex in bed". In fact, this is not a satire on bed life, but a new way of pursuing "bed pleasure". It reminds people not to forget that in addition to being a stage for intimate contact between two people, the bed is also a private place where people can relax. But unfortunately, not many men and women remember this truth.

Top 10 topics that Chinese men and women love to talk about in bed

1. 25.38% of the participants claimed that “there is no theme, just joking or joking”

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