Couples who have been drifting in love for a long time always want to find a place to dock. Home is the anchorage of love and a symbol of stability.

However, marriage is like a picture, and time may make it ordinary. In order to have this "anchoring place", couples who have been married for decades will not only think of it when they encounter difficulties in the competition in the world and are out of breath or in pain, but also even in the calm and ordinary days, I am still worried about it all the time and obsessed with it. In addition to the need for both husband and wife to promote noble moral sentiments and enhance their sense of responsibility for the family, the best way is to deepen the love between husband and wife and do everything possible to make them happy after marriage. Your life is still immersed in the atmosphere of love, so that the other person will still have new expectations and new satisfactions every day; and, constantly improve yourself, develop yourself, attract the other person with your new achievements and new style, and constantly conquer the other person. The heart that already belongs to you.

For a like-minded couple, they need to use their hearts, wisdom and hands to create a new love life as always.

(1) Create mutual happiness in the common pursuit of career.

As a social emotion, Aiqian is destined to be affected by many social, political, economic, and cultural factors. It is impossible to be isolated from the world and to be lonely and conceited. Love is the driving force of career, and career is the sublimation of love. There may not be many people who hope that their lover will become a strong man, but anyone who has a sense of responsibility for society hopes that his lover will pay attention to society, have a strong sense of professionalism, and have a constant pursuit of career. Therefore, married couples spend all day being close to each other, closing themselves in their own small family circle, and the warmth of love is difficult to last. With new goals in their careers, couples can continue to deepen their understanding and overcome difficulties together in their common values ​​and pursuits, which will bring opportunities for new emotional integration.

(2) Add new content and find new fun.

In addition to work, study and housework, efforts should be made to add some new content to family life and create a good environment for emotional development; for example, weekend activities can choose and cultivate a common hobby between husband and wife. This helps reduce the feeling of monotony.

(3) Always pay attention to the emotional communication between husband and wife.

Praise the other person, affirm or remind the other person, an approving look, a happy smile, a warm praise, all will bring intoxication to the other person. Sending a small gift when you return from a trip or on the birthday of the other person will stir up love in your lover's heart; when your wife does laundry, her husband goes over to help; when her husband writes an article at his desk, his wife gives him a cup of hot tea. Even before and after going to and from get off work, a gentle farewell and a cordial greeting will make the other person feel his (her) status in his/her heart and create a sense of satisfaction. There are many ways to convey information and express feelings between husband and wife. It may seem like trivial things, but as long as they appear frequently in family life, they can add a touch of tenderness and attention between husband and wife. Special attention should be paid to the fact that after having a child, the wife must not leave her husband alone.

(4) Leave some space for your lover.

The union of the two sexes is a combination of feelings and life, rather than a dissolution of personality and personality. The two parties are not each other's shadow, so there is no need to be inseparable. Otherwise, just as eating non-stop will make people lose their appetite, sticking together will also make people lose interest. The relationship between men and women only has some common points. Both parties can have their own friends and hobbies, and can have more topics. Only when we are separated do we miss each other. Give each other a distance and a space to long for and wait tenderly. Therefore, a proper farewell can increase the freshness between husband and wife. As the saying goes, "A little separation is better than a new marriage." Psychologically speaking, this is due to artificial distance, which makes each other's image in each other's minds ever new and evergreen. A benign effect is formed. In a sense, there is no freedom without distance, and there is no attraction without distance. The interval of time and space often increases the intensity of love.

There are a few people who find it difficult to accept normal interactions between their loved ones and the opposite sex. They are always worried that one day they will be "squeezed out", so they often do stupid things: their lover answers a phone call or comes to the house. A friend of the opposite sex may inquire about the other person in a roundabout way, or look right and left at the incoming guests; there are also people who control the other person's activities by announcing "discipline", including spying on letters, intervening in social interactions, and even stalking and chasing, so that the other person does not have any problem. Free time and space, etc.; as a result, it is never possible to win the attraction of the other party. On the contrary, the parties often put themselves in a position of being indifferent. You can think about it this way, if "possession" is so strenuous, so tense, and so heavily guarded, what kind of love is there? How much connotation of love is there in a marriage that relies on care? Love is first of all a voluntary feeling. It is a strong attraction to the other person, a desire that cannot be pushed away or cut off. Since you can defeat all your competitors and achieve love success before marriage, why don't you have such grandeur after marriage? Instead, you can only rely on a marriage certificate or suppress the other person's spiritual life to prolong everything you have obtained?

(5) For the sake of your own appearance, for the sake of those who please you.

It is human nature to love beauty, both men and women. Married couples should prevent their pre-marriage emotions and aspirations from being lost in the rigid and repetitive housework and the dullness of getting along day and night. Pay attention to grooming, especially after women get married, they must not regard dedication and sacrifice to the family as their only meaning and obligation in life, and ignore the richer pursuit of life. Plunging into the kitchen, playing the role of "old mother", becoming wantless, or slovenly, becoming old and dull. Even in middle age, or even after entering old age, due to physiological reasons between men and women, the charm period of men is longer than that of women. At this time, it is more necessary to make subjective efforts and use deeper love and new understanding to find common ground between both parties. Reinvent yourself. No one can always have a red forehead, but "even if there is a loss in innate beauty, artificial beauty can fully compensate for it." Appropriate light makeup and clothing, coupled with dignity, elegance, depth and generosity, still give people a radiant feeling. Although temperament is said to be born with beauty, it is more about nurture.

(6) Have more sense of humor.

Only by being considerate can it be possible to promote mutual happiness. Facing the complicated social life, especially the trivial matters such as pots and pans in family life, sometimes we really need more courage to endure difficulties and the ability to control life. Humor in the family can reduce psychological pressure, especially humorous language in married life, which can often arouse emotional waves. Because humor is a symbol of perseverance, calmness, wisdom, and ability, and is a mediator of family conflicts. Most people in the world have a natural instinct: they don’t want to hear other people’s accusations against them. Husband and wife stay together forever, and they need mutual understanding and tolerance. There is no perfect person in the world. Strength without softness is another kind of fragility. Subjective impatience, complaints and accusations from either spouse will make the relationship dull and shrink, which needs to be overcome.

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