Speaking of the first night, many people must first think of a woman’s first night, but in fact, men also have their first night. Because they are virgins, they must have no experience in having sex for the first time, so many men generally behave nervously. If you are afraid that you will not be able to give your partner good memories, the editor below will introduce to you the issues that virgins should pay attention to when having sex for the first time. If you want to know more, you may wish to read it.

Things to note for men on their first night

1. You are also called bed-caller

Some women will moan during sexual intercourse. Due to various complex emotions, the moans are also varied. But at this time, you can actually bark a few times in a muffled voice, and the effect will be very obvious. These fragmented sounds and languages ​​can, in fact, be seen as a way for women to express their satisfaction.

However, the louder a woman's voice is, the more sexy she is. Nor does it mean that she has reached the climax and is really concentrating. There are still some people who are at the peak of pleasure but almost silent; and when they are slightly stimulated, they become wanton. There are not even a few women who moan.

2. Fantasy is not wrong

During sexual intercourse, both men and women will have sexual fantasies, and most of the objects of fantasies are third parties. Most women will think of the good memories of the past, but most men will just dream about it.

In any case, fantasies during sex seem to have a certain effect on increasing excitement.

3. Let her have an orgasm

The greatest joy of sexual intercourse is when both parties reach climax at the same time, but in fact, this is not an easy task. Therefore, you might as well be optimistic and regard having pleasure at the same time as a rare enjoyment.

It must be reminded that men must not ejaculate sperm into the female vagina the first time they have sex. Wear a condom during sex, it will help you solve your worries.

In addition, female orgasm usually comes slowly and requires men to supplement with oral sex or caressing. This is also an opportunity for men to express consideration.

4. Don’t ask for fun together

The orgasms of men and women are different, reflected in both nature and time. The male orgasm is linear, rising and falling in a straight line. For women, it rises in a zigzag pattern, and then falls in a gentle curve. The climax period may last for a long time, a short time, or may have ups and downs.

In terms of time, men always come and go quickly, but women mostly arrive late. If a man has difficulty reaching orgasm, he may be very young.

5. Don’t be nervous, it’s best to relax

When most men have sex for the first time, they are too nervous and eager to enter, causing the woman to end it before she is interested. Therefore, men should relax and take their time when having sex for the first time. And you must do it slowly during sex, don't make too big movements, pay attention to her expression, if it's painful, don't force it, it will bring a shadow to her.

6. Don’t be rude, be considerate

If a man is too rude during the first night, women will reject you from the heart and cast a shadow on women's psychology. If a man is considerate enough, he can fill the bath water for the woman after taking a bath, prepare towels, toothbrushes, etc. After washing everything, it is polite to let the woman go to bed first. You can make some excuses, such as going to the bathroom, etc. After the woman has gone to bed, lie quietly on the right side of the woman. This can also avoid being too shy.