People often have some misunderstandings in their sexual life. They believe that everything in their sexual life must be the best so that both parties will not be disappointed and contribute to love. In fact, it is these psychological burdens that prevent people from having a better sex life.

1. Require high-quality sex every time

Both husband and wife want women to have high-quality sex frequently, or pursue so-called sexual effects one-sidedly. This is unrealistic. , experts pointed out that female orgasm is affected by many factors, so couples have sexual intercourse: as long as they feel satisfied and happy, psychological pleasure is the most important.

2. Force your partner to have sex

There are certain differences in the sexual abilities of men and women, and individual sexual abilities will also decline with age. This is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire still exists. Affected by work, emotions, health, etc., differences in sexual desire between men and women always exist. Therefore, partners cannot be required to be consistent, otherwise the sexual intercourse may become mechanical and the "sexual interest" will be lost over time.

3. Sex that is too regular and rigid

Sex life is too regular and becomes a "system", with regular, quantitative, fixed points, etc. Too rigid time or way of making love will make the sex life worse. It becomes lifeless, low in excitement, and may even make your partner feel bored and make you feel that sex is a kind of coping between husband and wife, and it is easy for your partner to feel nervous and depressed about sex.

4. Often joke about sex

There will always be signs of sex when couples have sex, and the other party should respond positively. Joking about sex can also add fun, but it must be moderate. If you often send out inappropriate signals during sex, it's like "crying wolf". When there is a real request for sex, your partner may misunderstand and ignore it as a joke, causing conflicts and losing love.

5. Take a bath after having sex

The hygiene of reproductive organs is very important. Both husband and wife should clean their external genitalia before sex. If they have sex just after taking a bath, simply clean them. That's it, but you have your own opinions on sex. You always rush into the bathroom or ask your partner to wash off immediately, which may cause a lot of unhappiness. The lack of "post-sex fun" will also affect the quality of sex.

6. Excessive pursuit of novelty and difference in sex

The sex life of couples has become more lively in today's open world. Many people have watched "three-level movies" or described Books that detail the details of sex life will inevitably make you want to try them, as they may make your sex life more interesting and pleasurable.

However, we need to pay attention to the differences in sexual concepts between husband and wife. If it is difficult for your partner to accept this, you should try to stay consistent, or adopt a gradual and excessive approach to slowly change, otherwise it will definitely make your partner think. , doubts and even displeasure, "good intentions lead to bad things".