We sympathize with the poor not just because he is poor, but also because he has no right to "give", just like we sympathize with an unattractive man not only because of his ugliness, but also because he has been deprived of praise. Opportunity. But in fact, these two types of people are the ones closest to happiness, because they know how to make every choice in life with a normal mentality. They also know how to grasp their own inner cultivation in rational thinking. They work hard Improving these is not just to make up for visible deficiencies, in fact, they want to enjoy life in a healthier and more active way than others. Today, Feiwen wants to talk to you about men’s self-cultivation.

First of all, a well-educated man must be a man who understands taste. Many men may not agree with this, thinking that it is only a woman's business, and categorically saying that women understand taste is for the sake of better sex. A good understanding of men and enjoyment of happiness, but in fact, men should know more about fun. Of course, interest requires some talent, but acquired practice is also indispensable. You must be able to tell some jokes and be able to stir up the atmosphere. Everyone expects you to sing well when you can sing, have fun when playing, and when a woman is unhappy, you can make him happy and make her happy. For a well-educated man, taste can be very noble or a little vulgar, but it cannot be absent.

A man’s good cultivation should also include learning to respect others, even those who are very close to him. Including your significant other or those who admire you, do not use your advantages to trample on the dignity of others, and respect the love they give. You must know that if you don’t give respect to others, others will not give you face. As we often say, respect is given by others, but face is lost by yourself. A well-educated man will never let things about his appearance and reputation harm him.

Of course, a man’s cultivation should also include tolerance and forgiveness. A man cannot reach a high level of cultivation without a broad mind, and it is precisely because of tolerance that you will forgive others. In fact, to forgive others is to accept the reality and forget the pain, because everything has settled, which is also good for yourself. Moreover, forgiveness is a transcendence of knowledge. It is a kind of generosity and detachment; there is a saying that goes like this: "When I forgive you, I forgive myself. What about a man who transcends cognition, a man who accepts reality, and a man who forgives himself? Will he be a man who is uncultivated and unhappy?

Furthermore, a man's cultivation should also be reflected in his maturity. An immature man cannot achieve much in his cultivation. Maturity does not mean a stubble on the face or wrinkles on the forehead, but a convincing and satisfactory attitude and way of dealing with people and things. A mature man is the kind of man who makes women want to rely on him. It is complete willingness and no hesitation. Although maturity is a vague concept, it is reflected all the time. If you don't have it, you can't force it. If you insist on being pretentious, you will only make others laugh.

A well-educated man should also be pleasing to the eye. If a man's own image is too bad, I think his self-cultivation will not be much better, because this is also a kind of emanation from the inside out. Just like that sentence: There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women. The same goes for men. There are no bad men in the world, only lazy men. I'm not stressing how gorgeous a person's appearance should be, but at least it shouldn't make people sick. Because external comfort is also a kind of charm, and it is also a kind of long-term persistence. If there is no cultivation to complement each other, it is probably just playing the piano to others.

A well-educated man should also know how to appreciate others. The process of appreciating others is like tasting and discovering one's own project. If you cannot fully release your vision, then you will also stagnate. Because of this, we should accept and appreciate others with an open mind, and be generous with your praise when appropriate. In this way, others will have a good impression of you and give you as many points as possible.

In short, the cultivation of a man is to understand the balance of wisdom between gain and loss, and to know how to judge all things without deliberately. It will let a man spread his charm with the passage of time and the baptism of the years. Infinite charm. Therefore, a good man should know how to persist and improve his self-cultivation. On the other hand, if a man can perform well in self-cultivation, even if he is not a good man, at least he is not a bad man.

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