"Sexy capital" is not superficial, it is rich in content: beauty, sexual attraction, liveliness and cuteness, social skills, sex, and self-presentation skills. This is sexy in a broad sense. It can be understood this way: you are managing your image, and the influence you have on the other party is a kind of external comprehensive strength, or the external comprehensive strength exuded.

Sexiness is more than just big breasts, legs and ass. The sexy in "sexy capital" is of course sexy. As a woman, sexy means fully exuding the allure of the female gender. That is gentle as water, coquettish and coquettish, etc. Of course, this is not enough. A little exposure is sexy, but all exposure is selling flesh. Therefore, the content of sexy capital also includes how you show your sexiness.

A delicate face coupled with sexual attraction and self-presentation skills will make men not leave her. Such as Yang Yuhuan. She was born with beauty. Fatness was regarded as beauty in the Tang Dynasty. Yang Guifei's slightly fat figure, white and plump skin, and her new sexual attraction were self-evident, which naturally fascinated Emperor Xuanzong of the Tang Dynasty. She was proficient in music and good at singing and dancing. She is also good at playing the pipa, which will greatly increase her charm. It can be seen from this that the reason why Concubine Yang has been favored by the emperor for so long is because she has capital and ability, because her sexy capital is relatively abundant.

Although society has now become more open to the point where "sex" is no longer taboo, mentioning the word "sexy" still carries a contemptible and derogatory connotation. It has also formed the discriminatory concept that "beautiful women succeed by selling their looks", which leads many women to prefer to be told that they are not beautiful, rather than being praised for their sexiness. In fact, "sexiness" is not the regional GDP, the "red light flashing" in that area, it is not about showing off cleavage in the office to show off sexiness, nor is it about posing in social situations, nor does it only mean attraction in the bedroom.

For personal success, sexy capital is as important as economic capital, educational capital and interpersonal capital. Not to mention that beautiful women can only be vases, but it seems that vases shouldn’t have intelligent minds? Is Fan Bingbing in the entertainment industry, the woman who is so beautiful and flamboyant and known as a vixen, really just a vase? I don’t think so. It is reported that Fan Bingbing has only made a profit since she established her studio. At this point, Andy Lau is also ashamed of himself, because Andy Lau lost all his money back then! For this reason alone, we must admire Fan Bingbing’s smart mind with her beautiful face.

Therefore, if you want to stand out in today's highly competitive society, as a woman, in addition to focusing on economic capital, educational capital and interpersonal capital, you must also cultivate your own unique sexy capital. The following six elements are required to constitute "sexy capital":

1. Beauty: Exquisite face.

I believe that most women will feel inferior and say: They will never be beautiful in this life. In fact, this just shows that you have misunderstood the word beauty. Yes, the most direct beauty is a face that can make people fall in love at first sight and fall in love with you again, or at least make people feel amazing in the crowd. However, external beauty will gradually age with the passage of youth. But the real lasting beauty is the face you take good care of, showing unparalleled sophistication and unique personal temperament. Especially eyes and smile, these are the two skills we need to cultivate most that have nothing to do with beauty but can make people admire!

2. Sexual attractiveness: attractive body with personal characteristics and style.

Sexual attraction? Did you immediately think of that? This is your fault again. In this world, there are only two advanced species, men and women. Sexual attraction should not only attract people of the opposite sex, but also people of the same sex. The attractive body mentioned in sexual attraction is not what modern people think of as attractive. It's the personal charm that radiates from within. In terms of dressing, he has his own unique personal characteristics and style. Only in this way will you become the most special person in the eyes of others, and a special person will always be remembered!

3. Social attractiveness: social skills that combine elegance and charm.

A good man has three gangs. In other words, if a person wants to succeed, no matter how capable he is, it will be difficult to achieve the expected goal. Therefore, the relationship between people is closely related to the success or failure of your career. Of course, you may say that you just want to be an ordinary person and do not need success in your career. But in real life, even if you are just an ordinary person, you still have to go to work, right? When you go to work, there are interpersonal relationships between colleagues and superiors and subordinates that you need to manage. You may say, I am not an important person in the company, well, even so, you still need to have a good relationship with a few people in the same office! Of course, even if you are just a housewife, you still have neighbors. As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. Good neighborly relations will also help your life! In short, we humans cannot transform into solitary animals, but when a person lives in a group, the impact of good or bad social skills on an individual's life and career cannot be underestimated!

4. Liveliness: physical fitness, social activity and humor.

Would you rather be with someone who is full of energy, or would you rather be with someone who is dull and lifeless? Would you rather talk to someone who has a sense of humor or someone who is dull and lifeless? The answer is obvious, I believe most people choose the former. So, let yourself be a person with unlimited energy and a sense of humor! Even if you are a woman, it does not prevent you from having a sense of humor and using your humorous instinct!

5. Presentation (instrument): fashionable dress with personal characteristics.

Appearance is dignified, this is the absolute rule for a woman to be charming. Stylish look? Are you a little surprised? Yes, it is fashionable dress. Even if you are over forty, it cannot be an excuse for you to dress up in an old-fashioned way. In fact, fashion is not so out of your league, it just depends on how you match it to create a charming woman with your own characteristics! At this point, if you think you have little talent, you can ask a color consultant to help you and let him teach you how to apply daily makeup!

6. Sexuality: the ability to love.

By the way, this is where we talk about the "sex" you have in mind. Many women dismiss this and think that sexual ability is only related to men. If you have this idea, I can only guess that you are the one who is not very satisfied with your sexual life. In fact, a woman who knows some sexual skills and learns to please a man so that he can work harder to give you a satisfying sex life will eventually become a man even if she does not have good looks, a proud figure, or a successful career. The sexiest thing in my eyes. Remember, flattering words in sex life should not be limited to men pleasing women. You should also learn to please men. After all, when he satisfies his sexual desire, he is also giving you pleasure and sexual happiness!