Here, we roughly divide them into 5 categories according to their pleasure-seeking characteristics:

The first category of "rookie-level" singles: "asking for trouble". It will be natural to suffer until the end. Sweet

Places for fun: park benches, bars, midnight streets, couches at home

Keywords: drinking, soap operas, snacks, confusion, despair

Kaka, a 30-year-old male salesman

When you are in a bad mood, you go to the park for a walk. When you are in a bad mood, besides work, isn’t it just for being single? When a person has nothing to do every day, he feels that life lacks a lot of fun. When I was extremely depressed, I would go to the bar and drink hard. When I got very high, I felt happy instead. I feel like I don’t need to care about anything. I use this way of venting to relax myself and relieve myself from the pressure of being single.

The second category of "middle bird level" singles: looking for fun even after death is also looking for love

Places for fun: bars, nightclubs, red line parties, online dating chat rooms

Keywords: picking up girls, having an affair, speed dating, fate

Xiao Zhi, a 26-year-old male computer software programmer

Every weekend night is very empty. I started to feel depressed, and I heard that my colleagues who had company around me were calling their boyfriends and girlfriends to discuss where to go on a date. I thought about myself, being alone and not knowing where to go. But when I stayed home obediently, I really felt sorry for myself. The bar is a nice place. Real couples rarely go to the bar. The people there are singles like me who are alone to relieve their boredom. Even if they go with friends, most of them are single. Looking for a partner in the bar can be said. It’s about finding the right target audience. Moreover, in such an environment, people are very open-minded, flirting and flirting come easily, and the hit rate of speed dating is extremely high. It's just that quality varies greatly. If you unfortunately encounter a "one-night stand" hunter, you can only get up the next morning and sigh to the sky that "you met someone unkind."

The third category of "big bird-level" singles: "Fox friends and dog friends" will gather together and talk about love tomorrow

Places for fun: KTV, hot pot restaurants, bowling alleys, street water bars

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Keywords: carnival, party, eating, drinking and having fun, friendship, freedom

Sam, 29 years old, male, insurance company employee

What’s the point of being single? Being single is freer. Men don’t have to rush to get married before they turn 30. I’m still one year younger. After getting married, I’m afraid I won’t be able to spend the whole night singing and dancing with my friends at the KTV like now, right? There is plenty of time on weekends without a girlfriend, which can be said to be a good time for partying. Sometimes I would invite my buddies to my house to play cards, drink and chat together. The next day, I did a good job of cleaning on Sunday. This way, I can combine work and rest for two days on the weekend, which is very comfortable!

The fourth category of "veteran-level" singles: Who am I afraid of if I am single? Ah Q's spirit is lifted

Places for fun: cinemas, love parties, parks, bachelor parties

Keywords: self-confidence, comparison, masturbation (here it refers to psychology, but of course you It can also be understood as physical) and psychological balance

Fang Fang, a 38-year-old male website senior planner

What does being single have? Single, successful men aged 35-40 are the lovers that little girls dream of. There is never a shortage of women to strike up conversations at parties, and of course I enjoy it. Married men cannot enjoy such an affair. Even if they meet, it will be a hot potato. Should they accept it or not? If you are not careful, you will get into trouble. Even if your wife and children are not separated, you will inevitably have a marital crisis. Every time I think about this, I feel even more grateful that I am still single. I often go to various parties and bars, where I feel that I can enjoy ambiguity more freely than a married man. On the contrary, those married colleagues often cast envious expressions on me. Haha, this sense of accomplishment, which is not a sense of achievement, makes me even more satisfied with the status quo of being single.

The fifth category of "hardcore" singles: a person's tranquility and leisurely contentment are blessings

Places for fun: "wilderness", coffee houses, bookstores, exhibition halls, single beds, spa clubs

Keywords: leisurely contentment, inner heart, tranquility, exile, pamper yourself

Sen, a 33-year-old male designer

I like to go to exhibitions, movies, and coffee shops to spend weekends alone. Enjoy a rare moment of tranquility. Of course I know it would be romantic to do these things with someone you love, but I believe doing them alone is a different feeling and experience. After being single for so many years, I spent most of my time in my own single bed. Watch TV, read, listen to music, call family, send emails to old classmates, or meditate with your eyes closed. It feels like time is passing by little by little, but every second is so fulfilling.

These leisurely and contented people have completely regarded being single as a kind of enjoyment. In their eyes, being single means more quiet and leisure time and more opportunities to listen to their hearts. They can make full use of the freedom of being single to find happiness in being alone. Compared with people who are entangled in love, they are happy that they only have to take care of themselves. For them, this leisurely and peaceful Zen life itself is the greatest pleasure.

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