"It's not that I don't want to marry you, it's that I don't want to marry anyone, I don't want to get married at all." 3 years ago, when I told a girl the thoughts I had suppressed in my heart for a long time, my last love reached its end. I can only say sorry if this was hurtful to her, but it was a huge relief to me. I am afraid of marriage and I am afraid of love. The so-called love will never bring pleasure to me. If it does, it will only be greater helplessness and pain after a short period of joy. I only know that I see that in this world there will always be so much love that is tasteless but a pity, and there are so many marriages that are just passing by. If everything just means different degrees of harm to each other, all happiness is a forced smile, and some People are trying their best to maintain it, and some people are pretending to cover it up. So, what's the point of loving someone? What's the point of marrying someone?

Why do you have to love someone? Who stipulated it? So what if I don’t love you? Can't a person live happily alone? Don't ask again, I'm used to it. I go to work and get off work alone, go shopping alone, cook alone, and cook just enough rice for myself. After eating, I watch TV, take a bath and go to bed. The days pass like this, and I never feel that I am missing anything.

You can imagine that if there are two people, you may have to drag your tired body to pick her up from get off work after a day's work. When buying groceries, you may have to argue with her about what to eat. Deciding who will wash the dishes when you're done, fighting for the remote control while watching TV, she'll let her worries bother you when you're about to go to bed. Usually, she wants you to go shopping with her, buy clothes with her, and go out to play with her. If you want to go here, she wants to go there. You have lost your freedom and given her most of your possessions. She still doesn't want to go there. She is happy, uses you to lose her temper, uses you as a punching bag, and you can only give yourself up to satisfy her, because you "love" her, she knows that you "love" her, her eyes are always staring at this word, staring at you The performance makes you have to live very tiredly, and you can't escape. Love means bondage. Don't tell me "actually bondage is also a kind of happiness". No one can truly endure it for a long time.

Maybe some men will say they are very lucky because they have found a good girl who is gentle, considerate and considerate. She will obey him in every aspect and let him live freely and happily. Then, this kind of love is beautiful. Of? No, it's just that the bound party has become a woman. They seek perfection and sacrifice themselves in exchange for the superficial happiness between the two. So I want to say that people all have thorns. When they are close to each other, they will inevitably prick each other, which means harm everywhere. The essence of love is just to maximize the helplessness and pain, and all the beauty. They are all superficial, superficial, and never reliable.

Books say, "Humans are emotional and spiritual animals." It seems that you have to be "spiritual" to be worthy of this character, and you must "love" something. So, I also spend time and money, why can't I love computers, TVs and DVDs? They will always listen to you and will always bring you real happiness, and even the sadness they get is a kind of satisfaction. Of course, they can't "love" you in return, and they can't care about whether you have enough food and clothing like a lover, but they will never betray you.

As for the satisfaction of physical desires, you know, this is the reason why many people use it under the guise of "love". If I don't love someone, I can still be satisfied, or even be satisfied better. Close the door and watch a pornographic movie DIY, and occasionally find a professional service. It is straightforward, simple and easy. As long as you give the money, you no longer have to take any responsibility. No one will hurt you, and you can't. other people.

This is what I really think about "love". It may not sound good, but it is the most practical. When writing the article, please put quotation marks around the word "love". Thousands of years ago, it was said that human beings were both male and female. God standing on the top of the cloud saw that the world was too calm and had nothing to do with him, so he split the male and female apart with a palm and created the thing "love" to cause chaos in the world and make the recipients happy. Human beings who can no longer endure torture finally think of praying to God; and marriage after love is just a custom and a system of mankind, but it makes so many people unhappy, and makes so many people fall into the quagmire of pain and pretend to be deaf and dumb.

Therefore, don't say that I am "incompetent in love". Love is inherently incompetent. It is not that there is no happiness, but that there is as much pain as there is happiness. I reject love, reject its happiness and reject its pain. I don’t want anyone to ask me if I’m hungry, cold or cold. I don’t want someone to chat with me and fight with me. I have grown up and know myself well. , know how to take care of yourself, and know how to find the same happiness and joy in other ways.

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