A netizen asked: I have been married for more than three years and my married life is quite satisfactory. But one thing I have never understood is why my husband always stops and remains still a few seconds before ejaculation, as if he is enjoying it. Do all men do this before orgasm?

Expert answer: Ms. Lin’s husband may be stationary before climax due to some special physiological or psychological factors or experiences. This situation is not universal, but it is not a big problem.

For both men and women, orgasm is the peak of sexual response and the shortest stage in the sexual tension process, lasting only a few seconds to more than ten seconds. It releases the previously formed high degree of muscle tension through involuntary muscle rhythmic contraction, and brings a wave of pleasure that spreads throughout the body centered on the genitals. It also releases the congestion caused by sexual excitement in the reproductive organs and other places. crowd out.

In order to achieve orgasm, both men and women must obtain sufficient sexual stimulation during sexual life, so they all hope to speed up the frequency and intensity of sexual stimulation. But because it takes longer for women to reach orgasm than for men, and because men lack the ability to further respond to any sexual stimulation after an orgasm accompanied by ejaculation, he may stop at this time. This is similar to what Ms. Lin said. Therefore, we advocate that the man use various methods to stimulate his partner as much as possible so that the woman can reach orgasm first.