Should sex toys (sex toys) be used? Due to differences in social consciousness and cultural background, the understanding of sexual appliances in China and the West is quite different. With the civilization and progress of society, sexual appliances have gained a correct understanding in China today, providing a "lubricant" for harmonious sex between couples.

A newlywed couple is often troubled by the husband's premature ejaculation. However, one night, when the excited young husband took out a cylindrical "couple's pleasure exercise device" and prepared to arm himself to satisfy his wife's sexual needs, the woman was shocked, and she turned pale with disgrace, and repeatedly rebuked her husband for " "Dirty", "perverted", "useless". As you can imagine, the young man's enthusiasm finally ended in frustration and failure. This ridiculous ending also raises a question: Should sexual devices (sex toys) be used? How to use it?

1. The history and types of sexual devices

Human beings have been seeking effective ways to use devices to improve or enhance men's sexual function. In ancient China, "Fangzhongshu" has been used to "xuanzhongshu". There are records of instruments such as "Yuhuan", and there are also many descriptions of the use of female sexual devices such as "Burmese bells". In 1960, Geddings 0sbon in the United States designed and developed the Vacuum Constriction Device (VCD), which was approved by the FDA in 1982 for the treatment of male sexual dysfunction. Common sexual appliances include massage sticks, external massagers, male and female masturbators, semen locking rings, eye rings, lubricants, functional condoms, vaginal gels, etc., which are mainly divided into three categories: ① those with the ability to treat and improve sexual function Utensils; ② Utensils to increase the interest of sexual life; ③ Utensils to meet sexual needs under special circumstances. As for some appliances that satisfy abnormal sexual fetishes, such as S (Sadism) and M (Masochism) products, they are not recommended in this article.

2. The role of sexual appliances

Due to differences in social consciousness and cultural background, sexual appliances are called sexual therapeutic appliances in China, which is currently in the period of reform and opening up in terms of ideology and economy. , obviously highlights its auxiliary role in restoring sexual function; while in Western countries, it is generally called a sex toy, mainly emphasizing its sexual entertainment aspect. The difference in name just fully reflects the characteristics of the sexual device. When used correctly, it can achieve the functions of self-entertainment, masturbation and self-therapy. Professor Shi Chengli, a contemporary Chinese sexual medicine expert, summarized the following aspects of the role of sexual devices:

1. People who fear sexually transmitted diseases can use devices to release their sexual desire without contacting the opposite sex.

2. It can provide sexual enjoyment for those who are unconditionally married, those who have been away for a long time or those who live alone, and avoid visiting prostitutes.

3. People with strong sexual desire can use it to release excess sexual energy instead of engaging in extramarital affairs when their sexual partners cannot satisfy them, thereby stabilizing their marriage.

4. Sexual appliances can be used to induce or treat male impotence and female frigidity.

5. If one of the spouses is sick, disabled, or widowed and unable to have sex, sexual appliances are used as masturbation tools.

6. When couples cannot enjoy their sexual life to the fullest, they can use sexual instruments to stimulate them to reach orgasm and obtain sexual satisfaction.

7. Most sexual devices also have contraceptive functions, and the use of sexual devices can prevent unplanned childbirth.

3. Correct use of sex toys

Human sexual function has two major functions: fertility and pleasure. Research shows that happy sex has ten major physiological effects and is the lubricant of married life. Clinically, it is often found that some infertile couples pay too much attention to fertility issues, resulting in decreased sexual desire and frigidity. And couples who have completed their reproductive mission expect higher sexual pleasure. The process of people exploring "sexual interest" is like tasting delicious food. In the beginning, you will never tire of eating home-cooked side dishes. As time goes by, you will want to add some sourness and spiciness, use special tableware to increase the provocativeness of the senses, and use different dishes. Order to recombine the joy of eating. The seven-year itch, the same sex life of couples will gradually make people feel boring, which will affect the harmony and happiness of family life. Proper use of sex toys can improve sexual life satisfaction. Therefore, as long as the husband and wife are willing to use some sex toys reasonably and safely, it can

improve "sexual well-being" and enhance reproductive health. What about enjoying it but not doing it? !