She has become a complete love skeptic. A woman who always calculates the input-output ratio will not have the courage to take action. How can she meet a good man without reliance and action? It is inevitable to hate marriage.

The invincible advantage of a 35-year-old single girl

Of course, this is the smartest and most confident age. She knows how to give men enough space. A woman of this age will never be stupid enough to ask questions. Do you still love her? If she and your mother fell into the river together, who would you save first? She will never call you to pretend to greet you, but actually ask you who you are with. No, no, no, a 35-year-old woman will never do this. She has reached the stage of her strongest independence. The single life has tempered her and made her "perfect".

She often casts a sidelong glance at her girlfriends' "dirty affairs" in their marriages, and feels that their caress about a man's look and harsh words are simply "drained in their brains."

Yes, when her analytical skills are at their best, she often comes to work as a "love counselor" uninvited. However, she herself often only wants to be an adviser and does not want to go into battle to capture a love prisoner. Yes, she was sharp enough, but what was even sharper was the fact that beside her stood a well-developed boy or girl who was almost as tall as her.

If you marry her, you will now be the father of an adolescent boy and girl. Are you happy or not?

Typical disadvantages of 35-year-old women

The biggest obstacle to remarriage is, of course, that she does not understand gentleness and is doubtful about love. She believes that all suitable men are still stuck in the dungeon of marriage, while all unsuitable men have left the cage. A 35-year-old woman will also gradually become indifferent to love and remarriage. She will think that I earn 4,000 to 8,000 per month, I can even repair the toilet, I have bought sex toys to experience the happiness of a person, and I still want to What do men do?

Her views on marriage are becoming more and more pragmatic. She believes that if she remarries, it must be because her children need a father. She believes that the only value of her next marriage is to find a man who is willing to take responsibility for her children to the end. She is a man. It doesn't matter whether this man loves her or not, and whether she loves him or not, she has never thought about why he would love her child if they were not very compatible and affectionate. This is superficial. Attached question.

She has become a complete love skeptic. A woman who always calculates the input-output ratio will not have the courage to take action. How can she meet a good man without reliance and action? It is inevitable to hate marriage.

Remarriage feasibility plan one: A 35-year-old woman should marry a 50-year-old man

First, a 50-year-old man and a 35-year-old woman have almost equal wisdom and equal love. Sense of responsibility and similar values. Men generally mature late. When they are 35 years old, they have just broken away from video games. When they are 50 years old, they know how to remember the birthdays of their mothers, wives and children. At the age of 35, they either work overtime or socialize late into the night. Going home at 6:30 and having dinner with his family is a golden moment for him; a 35-year-old man still only knows how to waste his health for fame and fortune, but at the age of 50, he has begun to understand the importance of health. He quit smoking, limited drinking, stayed up late, and swam 1,000 meters in the swimming pool every week. When he was 35 years old, he used excuses not to go for a physical examination. When he was 50 years old, he felt that the unified physical examination at his workplace was not careful enough, so he bought another insurance. He knew An individual's health not only belongs to himself, but also to his wife, children and parents.

Such a "more aware" person? Should a woman get married?

Second, it is easier for a 50-year-old man and a 35-year-old woman to get along with their children. A 35-year-old man doesn't know how to deal with a rebellious child in adolescence. He will roar and rush over to deal with the disobedient child like a bloody bull stirred up by red cloth. A 35-year-old woman recalled that her child’s biological father was the same age as her. After her son turned 10, her ex-husband often used a belt to greet him because she couldn’t figure out “why there were so many strange looks and tempers on the biological son.”

For this, she divorced, and for this, she found a 50-year-old man. She found that only a man in his 50s would understand how to put himself in the shoes of an adolescent child. After experiencing so many ups and downs in the world, it was difficult for a naughty child to arouse his hot temper. His paternal nature was similar to that of his ancestors. The kindness of the next generation. It is undeniable that this naturally occurring patience is the source of harmonious coexistence between stepfathers and stepchildren.

Third, a 50-year-old man realizes the urgency of being filial to his parents earlier than a 35-year-old woman. If she is so busy that she forgets to appreciate the spiritual needs of her elderly parents, he will realize it first and do it for her, which will make her feel unspeakably caring. A 50-year-old man accompanied his 70-year-old parents back to his hometown in Shandong on behalf of his remarried wife. He met his parents-in-law’s gray-haired childhood friend, ate millet pancakes that had just been taken off the stove, and cooked them with water from the Yi River. After drinking tea, he watched his mother-in-law hug his 90-year-old aunt. When he came back, he told his 35-year-old wife that this was the most regrettable thing he had ever done in his life.

At this moment, in the mind of his remarried wife, the thing she will regret the least in her life is marrying such a "benevolent and filial" man. At the age of 50, it is the time when the desire for competition fades away from a man's eyes, and warmth and consideration appear.

The second feasible option for remarriage: a 35-year-old woman should marry a 28-year-old man

The first, of course, is the balance and equality of sexual desires. Everyone knows that women’s emotional needs develop early, while physical desires develop later, especially in Eastern women. There is no such wonderful interaction between a 35-year-old woman and a 28-year-old man - neither party is beyond their capabilities.

Sexual harmony can also help women restore their longing for love, which is an important way to avoid mental hardening and desertification. Only after enjoying the pleasures of sex with a younger man will a 35-year-old single woman admit that sex toys cannot replace real feelings. Only men and women who give and gain equally can have true spiritual fusion and relaxation.

Second, dating a young boyfriend gives a 35-year-old woman the right to start her dream again. After a 35-year-old woman dated her 28-year-old boyfriend, she relived the thrill of her first love at the age of 20. She said that she thought dreaming was a luxury, intertwining fingers and blowing the sea breeze was also a luxury. Wearing long hair and wearing a skirt is also a luxury thing...

But he brought so many luxurious details to me, making me feel that a life with dreams and a life with wishful thinking is the real life. I Life before was just about survival. That's right, she had never thought that she had to ask for other people's opinions before cutting her hair short, and she had never thought that there was anything wrong with wearing pants all year round. She thought that having no dreams was the "insight into the world," but she didn't Knowing that if you deal with everything alone for a long time, your heart will wither, and this is the beginning of irreversible aging.

Now, someone has given her back the soft and juicy heart of 10 years ago. Isn’t it worth celebrating?

Third, it is not tiring to take care of two children at the same time. A major psychological concern of a 35-year-old woman in dating her young boyfriend is that she is afraid that raising two children will cause physical and mental exhaustion. In fact, it is not tiring to have two children at home, because the older child will naturally form an educational and entertaining partnership with the younger child. Isn't it said that the ultimate father-son relationship is "father and son become brothers after many years"? The 28-year-old stepfather and his teenage stepson can talk to each other, play ball together, and share the experience of secretly liking the same girl. They are closer to "brothers" than "father and son."

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