Husband’s superb sex skills

In the sexual life of couples, the difference in feelings is particularly obvious, and the experience of sexiness also varies from person to person. How to arouse sexual excitement in your spouse will take some time to figure out. Because in sex life, you have to find a program that can stimulate the other person's sexual excitement. Reading the sexy guide below will help you understand the physical characteristics of you and your spouse, and the source of your excitement, so as to make your sex life more satisfying.

1. The power of touch.

The more nerve endings and blood vessels there are, the stronger the sexual stimulation will be. The outermost layer of skin on the human body has no sensation; sensation occurs in the second layer of skin. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious erogenous zones. But many people's erogenous zones include the neck, palms, soles and abdomen.

In sex, the order of touching plays an important role. Generally speaking, you should start with the least sensitive parts first and gradually transition to the most sensitive parts. Touching the most sensitive areas right from the start will only backfire.

Men and women prefer different ways of being touched. Women seem to be more sensitive to the intensity of touch. Usually they like to start with a gentle touch and then gradually increase the intensity. Many people touch their spouse in a way that they like, but not necessarily in a way that the other person likes. You should first find out what the other person really needs (such as the location and intensity of caressing, etc.) before you can achieve good results.

2. The vision of love.

Compared with the wife, the husband needs visual stimulation more for sexual excitement. This just goes to show why men like to have the lights on when they have sex, while women would rather have sex in dim light or in the absence of light at all.

But women can also be sexually excited by visual stimulation. Moreover, handsome men can cause the same visual pleasure to them as beautiful women to men. But as a rule they avoid talking about it.

Despite the importance of visual stimulation during sex, many people mistakenly avoid using their eyes. They worry that their physical appearance is not as good as they want. Women may worry that their breasts are too small and their thighs are too thick; men may worry that their penis is too small and their body hair is too thick. Our sense of self-inadequacy is so strong that it is often difficult to believe that others will be sexually excited by us.

3. Sexy smell.

Everyone has a body odor, which is formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin. Like fingerprints, it varies from person to person. When we feel someone is attractive to us, it has a lot to do with his or her body odor. According to the survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important "stimulant". About 1/3 of women think men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor. More than half of people think musky body odor is the sexiest. About 1/4 of people prefer spicy body odor.

Women’s sense of smell seems to be more sensitive than men’s. They can smell the slight odor of sweat from 3 feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive.

The human body's musky-like odor is produced by glands around the vagina and under the vagina. In the animal kingdom, pheromones, scented compounds known as pheromones, play a key role in courtship, attracting males to pursue prolific females. But things are different with humans. A whiff of your spouse's body fragrance is usually not enough to turn you on. But your spouse’s body fragrance does play an important role in sex that cannot be underestimated. Modern people are very fond of cleanliness and always wash their whole bodies clean and smell-free, which makes it difficult for people to use their natural body fragrance. Of course, bad smells are also very off-putting. Therefore, the best way is to keep it clean while retaining body fragrance.

4. Taste and sex.

We have about 10,000 taste buds, which are distributed in different parts of the tongue according to different sensory functions: taste buds at the tip of the tongue feel sweetness, taste buds on the side of the tongue feel sourness, and taste buds at the back of the tongue feel bitterness. Only the salty taste can be felt in all parts of the tongue. That's a good thing, because the human body can smell slightly salty even when it's perfectly clean.

Men and women seem to have slightly different taste preferences. Men prefer salty taste, while women prefer sweet taste. But the most important thing during sex is to clear out any unpleasant taste. Most of us like to have sex with our spouse after taking a bath. Although movies and ads often promote the smell of sweat as a "sexy medium," few people actually want to kiss and make love to their spouse right after playing tennis or golf.