Who is more interested in sex? How to increase each other's sexual interest?

Sex has different requirements and expectations for sexual interest. It is normal for it to be high and low sometimes. Men's sexual interest is more urgent, undistracted, targeted, more focused during sex, and easier to reach orgasm. Women’s sexual interests are often thought to be scattered and they urgently need emotional intimacy. The difference in sexual interest is not quantity, but quality.

The sexual interest of men and women can be equally high, but generally men’s sexual interest is higher than that of women. This is because testosterone is at work, and the stimulation of the acquired erotic environment also has an impact. Women want romance, men want pornography, and the structures of their sexual interests are very different. Sexual interest actually comes from the brain, not technology. It is necessary to withdraw from daily life and concentrate on thinking about sex, or use sexual fantasies to generate sexual interest.

It only takes 3 seconds for men to have sexual impulses, and it takes 15 to 20 minutes for women to have sexual feelings.

How much sex is enough?

Surveys in medical publications show that one-third of couples have sex two or three times a month. Another survey shows that one-third of couples have no sex life for a long time, or have sex once every two months. These couples are under 38 years old.

True sexual compatibility does not refer to the same sexual interest, but the same expectations for sexual interest, or the same view of what is normal/abnormal sexual interest. Despite differences in sexual interest, any disparity in sexual interest can be overcome as long as expectations and attitudes are the same.

What are the most common sexual problems complained about by men and women? Men always feel that sex is not enough and expect more. At the same time, he is worried that his sexual performance will not be as good as his wife expects, and he will gradually lose his sexual interest. Women complain about insufficient communication with their husbands and expect more emotional communication and intimacy. The more a woman talks, the stronger her desire for sex becomes. Women can speak up to 12,000 words a day, while men can only speak 4,000 words a day.

For men, sex = love; for women, love = emotional communication and intimacy.