Some people always hope to continue to "innovate" in their sexual life. Logically speaking, there is nothing wrong or wrong with this. But in real life, sex always happens between two people. The other person may understand and support it, or they may not understand and support it. Therefore, many people, especially husbands, always hope that there will be a panacea or magical secret that can "develop" or "transform" their wives in one fell swoop. Unfortunately, things are not that simple. Whether either spouse has the desire for novelty and the corresponding ability depends not only on what the so-called "new" is, but also on what kind of view he/she holds on the previous sexual life. If he/she is already satisfied, he/she will feel that the other party is "taking risks", or at least "making trouble over nothing", making it difficult for him/her to actively cooperate. If he/she is already dissatisfied with his/her previous sex life, it will be difficult to believe that the so-called "new" can bring any benefits. If he/she has already blamed the other person's emotional deficiencies for the unsatisfactory sexual life in the past, then any kind of "new" technique will not be able to impress him/her, and the effect will often be worse. Furthermore, a person's evaluation of a couple's sex life is mainly determined by his/her basic attitude towards life. In the process of growing up for decades, everyone has unconsciously formed their own views on life and sexual issues, and it is difficult to change them. If a couple is fundamentally not the same type of person, then although they may complement each other and complement each other in the marriage, they are unlikely to be in sync with each other in the "novelty" of their sexual life, or they may each have their own "novelty" , unable to reach consensus. This has nothing to do with the level of sexual knowledge, because everyone is actually constantly screening the sexual knowledge they receive. Even if you know a lot, if you cannot accept it, that sexual knowledge cannot be transformed into your own sexual behavior. This often has nothing to do with love. Even if one party accepts the other party's "innovation" out of love, if that "new" goes against his/her basic attitude towards life, he/she will feel it is a kind of humiliation and torture. Any "innovation" should not be unilaterally imposed on others. It must be voluntary, shared and not harmful to either party. Otherwise, we would rather be "conservative". This is also a basic attitude towards life and the most basic moral principle in the sexual life of couples.

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