From the developed coastal areas in the southeast to the fertile soil in the central and western inland areas; from prestigious international metropolises to rapidly developing small and medium-sized cities, it seems like overnight, the Sexual Culture Festival has stepped onto the stage of history. Facing the "naked truth", some people are curious, some are shy; some are afraid, and some are uneasy. Why?

The author suddenly remembered a piece of news I had seen: This year, some schools in Hangzhou planned to offer sex education classes in the first grade of junior high school. Unexpectedly, they encountered strong opposition from many parents, which triggered a sex scandal. Great discussion on education. Some parents think that their children should never know about this kind of thing when they are young; some think that there is no need to have special classes for this kind of thing and that they can be self-taught and will understand it naturally when they grow up; some even think that sex education should be carried out in the first grade of junior high school. It is undoubtedly instructing children to pay attention to this kind of thing, making it easier for them to learn bad things.

In fact, in today's society, many people view sex education as a "scourge" and talk about sex in a perverted way. They dare not, or are even afraid, so they are unwilling to face the issue of sex education. Under the long-term imprisonment of traditional and conservative ideas, the negative social phenomena nourished by sexual ignorance and ignorance are worrying, and the "bitter fruit" brewed is thought-provoking.

"Tasting forbidden fruit" seriously threatens the physical and mental health of young people.

Due to the lack of sexual knowledge and correct sex education guidance, in recent years, not only are more and more girls having children before marriage and having abortions, but they are also getting younger and younger, and the frequency is getting higher and higher. They seemed unaware of the extent of the harm this could cause. You Chuan, a doctor at the Beijing Maternal and Child Health Clinic, has made a statistic: Since 1998, about half of the women who have undergone mid-term induction surgery at a Beijing obstetrics and gynecology hospital are unmarried, and 14% of them are girls under the age of 20. Another rough statistic from the hospital shows that 50% of women undergoing induced labor in early pregnancy are girls under the age of 18. As for general artificial abortion, the proportion of girls is increasing day by day.

An 18-year-old high school student in Chongqing City had five consecutive abortions. The last one was due to heavy bleeding due to ectopic pregnancy, and the doctor had to remove her uterus, leaving her with lifelong regrets. There was a case of infanticide among girls in Haidian District, Beijing. A 17-year-old high school sophomore secretly gave birth to a child at home and threw the premature baby out of the window. She was sentenced to two years of forced labor.

A young girl in her prime gets pregnant out of nowhere, leading to the tragedy of "taste of the forbidden fruit", there are too many to list. Sexual life tends to be younger, lack of sexual knowledge, and even multiple sexual partners, leading to an increasing incidence of various gynecological diseases among young women. Adolescent sex education has become a difficult problem for families and society.

Juvenile sexual crimes have become a major social problem.

Currently, a very small proportion of young people’s access to sex education comes from school and family education, and most of them come from books, periodicals, movies, and the Internet. However, today's books, magazines, movies, and especially the Internet are not a pure land. Those unhealthy things have great temptation and encouragement for young people's sexual psychology and sexual impulses. Under the temptation of pornography, one teenager after another ruined their beautiful life.

On May 20, 2003, a case of rape and murder of a young girl occurred in a county in the suburbs of Shijiazhuang City. A little girl who had just turned 5 was raped and killed, and the perpetrator turned out to be a 13-year-old boy. A criminal gang in Woyang County, Anhui Province raped and gang-raped more than 40 women and forced some of the victims, most of whom were middle school students and underage girls, into prostitution. The final result was: the first death penalty for this criminal gang with numerous crimes, four members with suspended death sentences, five with life imprisonment, and the remaining 33 members were also sentenced.

It is a shocking and unquestionable fact that juvenile sex crimes occur from time to time, and the crimes tend to be committed at younger ages. When we feel sad for these young people who are imprisoned for sexual crimes, shouldn't we reflect on the shortcomings in education? Should we shoulder the unshirkable responsibility for a social environment filled with worldly hedonism and unhealthy culture?

There are more and more cases of divorce caused by lack of "sexual happiness".

If the missteps of teenagers are caused by the lack of sex education, then what does it mean that more and more couples are getting divorced due to lack of "sexual" happiness?

The issue of sexual life has always been a topic that people tend to be sensitive to and avoid. However, in today's era, some people go to court for not being "sexually happy", and some people get married and divorced; women have cheating, and men have affairs. Families are broken, and at the same time it casts a shadow on the healthy growth of children.

There are many reasons why couples are not sexually happy. In addition to physical illness, an important factor is lack of knowledge about sexual life and psychological resistance. There was a woman who felt a little scared by her husband's weakness at the end of every sexual intercourse. She believed that her husband had premature ejaculation and that premature ejaculation was hereditary. She did not want her son to have premature ejaculation in the future. For this reason, she went to court to divorce her husband. There are also some husbands or wives who think that sexual intercourse between husband and wife is a dirty thing and are not willing to do it at all.

Zhang Feng, member of the Standing Committee of the Guangdong Provincial Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference and director of the Provincial Population and Family Planning Commission, said: "We have investigated that while 10,000 couples are getting married, about 4,500 couples are getting divorced, and 85% to 90% of them are getting divorced. % get divorced because of sexual problems and disharmony in sexual relationships. " He pointed out that because men and women have their own characteristics in terms of physiological age and needs, middle-aged and elderly women in particular are often "out of tune" with their partners if they do not master certain skills. and knowledge, it is difficult to enjoy "sexual happiness" and naturally unhappy.

The Sexual Culture Festival spreads scriptures and sends treasures, and the Chinese people become "sexually excited".

How did Dayu succeed in controlling floods? The key is to be sparse but not blocked. Sexual culture aims to disseminate sexual science, popularize sexual education, and update sexual concepts. It is undoubtedly a "timely rain" and "strong injection" for the long-term lack of sexual education. The Sex Culture Festival lifts the veil of the mysterious "sex", displays the "naked reality", and helps Chinese people understand sex and get rid of misunderstandings about sex. How can it not make people happy?

For a long time, China has been a society characterized by sexual perversion. In the process of thousands of years of feudal thought, feudal system, and feudal rule, sex was believed to be mysterious and inviolable. The whole society is permeated by an anti-sexual abstinence atmosphere. Under such an atmosphere, parents dare not face sex and prevent their children from being exposed to sex, causing more and more problems and becoming more and more serious. Since the Sex Culture Festival was held, people have never dared to visit but the number of visitors has increased. From being afraid to talk about sex to slowly getting in touch with and actively understanding sex, it shows that people's concepts are being updated and improving. The era of talking about sexual perversion may become a thing of the past forever in the near future.

It can be said that the Sex Culture Festival is a socialized and public sex education lecture hall. What it brings to people is not only a shock to the soul, but also a supply of sexual knowledge and wisdom. Hundreds of static object exhibitions, dynamic series of activities, and experts explain sexual knowledge based on the current social situation, and explore hot topics such as sexual culture, sexual education, and sexual harmony. They help disseminate sexual science and popularize sexual education, and guide people to correctly understand and view sex. Maintaining and enjoying sex has real and far-reaching positive effects. Why can the Japanese regard sex as a simple part of life and spiritually restore it to the level of human instinct? The key is to educate and promote sexual culture.

Adhere to morality and education, and don’t let sexual cultural festivals change “sex”.

While we applaud the Sexual Culture Festival, we are also worried about the individual disharmony that occurred at the Sexual Culture Festival.

In order to disseminate sexual science and popularize sexual education from multiple perspectives and channels, the content of the Sexual Culture Festival is getting richer and richer, which is understandable. However, how do people feel about the kind of performances that "legally" produce erotic and sensual performances or other performances that stimulate people's erotic imagination under the guise of sexual culture?

Why did the beautiful women’s large-scale SM performances at the 4th Zhongyuan Sex Culture Festival arouse strong public doubts? Let’s take a look at these scenes: a woman wearing a mask is tied up, while a man dressed like a gangster is violently raping the woman; a woman holds a whip and tramples a man on all fours; a sexy heroine drives a male slave on the stage , the male protagonist binds and whips the sexy slave girl passing by on the catwalk... The author is confused, what is this promoting? Preach what?

Perhaps too many sexual culture festivals are repeating the almost unchanged old routines, so some organizers are inventive and innovative in order to attract everyone's attention. However, when making unexpected moves, one must adhere to moral principles and respect education. If performances like this are allowed to continue, I am afraid that not only will the real purpose and significance of holding a sex culture festival be lost, but it will also have a huge negative effect.

More than 2,000 years ago, Mencius said: "Food and sex are the same as sex." It can be seen that the old man talked about sex with a calm mind. When the wheel of history moves into today's civilized society, why do we still "talk about sexual perversion" and regard sex education as a "scourge"? The holding of the Blessing Sexual Culture Festival can completely open the hearts of the Chinese people, untie the knots of the Chinese people, eliminate sexual ignorance and ignorance, so that children can grow up healthily, the family can have a happy "sexual happiness", and the society can be harmonious and beautiful.