Sexual amnesia refers to incomplete abstinence. A "sexual fast" is set between two people to suspend sexual life, but it does not mean to completely give up physical contact. It is said that men are animals that think with their lower body. Whenever they see a beautiful woman, they will be distracted and drool while watching the beautiful woman. When in love or newly married, men seem to be thinking about things in bed all the time, as if they can't live without sex.

As the love relationship stabilizes and the honeymoon period of newlyweds ends, for a period of time, men no longer think about their lover’s body every day. It seems that they have lost their memory of their lover’s body. Interested... Many women begin to suspect that men are having an affair, otherwise it would be impossible for them to lose their memory of sex.

In fact, when a man has such symptoms, it is not necessarily because of an affair. The above symptoms are called "sexual amnesia." Sexual amnesia refers to incomplete abstinence. A "sexual fast" is set between two people to suspend sexual life, but it does not mean to completely give up physical contact and retain gentle touch, sweet pillow talk, and surprise. A small note, the intimacy of interlocking fingers, a kiss like first love... the time of "sexual amnesia" varies from person to person. Generally speaking, it should be no less than 10 days and no more than 60 days, otherwise it will become permanent "sexual amnesia" "Yes.

In fact, it is not just your lover who has sexual amnesia. Almost all men have sexual amnesia. Let’s take a look.

There are many benefits of sexual amnesia

Many men and women in the honeymoon period always want to be together all the time and make love every day. However, this will only make the disgust between both parties stronger and stronger. It is said that distance brings beauty, a short separation is better than a new marriage, and a short separation, whether physical or spiritual, is beneficial to the relationship between both parties.

Selective amnesia has the following major benefits: 1. Maintain a certain sense of distance, so that both parties will not feel tired of going back and forth; 2. Enhance communication between lovers, you can take advantage of this period Inspire the romance between two people who are consumed by daily trivial matters; 3. Reserve energy for the "unlocked" period, so that every physical exchange can be enjoyable; 4. Stay away from diseases. From a medical professional point of view, excessive sex life is harmful to the body Health has great destructive power.

In married life, many people are troubled by complicated and trivial matters and will no longer create romance for each other. During the abstinence period, there is just no sex life, but both parties can create more. Surprises, such as sweet pillow talk, surprise notes, interlocking intimacy, first love kisses... These are indeed of great benefit to married life.

Sexual amnesia must be determined by both parties

A crucial feature of sexual amnesia is that it must be defined by both parties. If either party implements sexual amnesia without the consent of the other party, it will not be of any benefit to the relationship between husband and wife.

When a man commits sexual amnesia on his own, it is easy for women to think that the man has a family outside the home and is having an affair; when a woman commits sexual amnesia on her own, men will think that the woman has become sexually frigid or is sexually abusing herself. Sex cold war. The suspicion between the two will only make the relationship weaker and weaker, and make the distance between them further and further away. Communicating with the other party in advance will reduce a lot of unnecessary trouble.

Therefore, when you think your sexual relationship is too frequent and you are too tired, when you think you should regain the romance of your relationship, you might as well say softly in his/her ear: "How about we fast for a while." You will find that from the day you break your fast after fasting, your cooperation will be greatly improved, and you will enjoy the long-lost orgasmic pleasure. If you want sexual amnesia, tell him/her first.

Sexual amnesia must control time

The duration of "sexual amnesia" varies from person to person. Generally speaking, it should be no less than 10 days and no more than 60 days.

We use 10 days as the starting point mainly because generally speaking, couples have sex every three days, and a woman’s menstrual period takes up about a week every month, so men generally Everyone has experienced a week-long fasting period. It is not difficult for men to fast for 7 days, so it is necessary to start with 10 days. If the time is too short, the necessity of fasting is lost. And 60 days already accounts for one-sixth of a year. If you fast for more than 60 days, then I believe that men will no longer be able to bear the loneliness and will have long forgotten the smell and feeling of you, and women will no longer be able to bear it either. Living. If the time is too long, the two people are likely to set their sights on other members of the opposite sex, bringing a serious crisis to the marriage.

Everything has its pros and cons, and we must control the situation carefully. Going too far is not enough. We cannot say that sexual amnesia is good and just postpone it indefinitely. When your marriage or love life becomes more and more boring, you might as well choose sexual amnesia to inject fresh blood into your relationship.