What is “sexual amnesia”?

Not completely abstinent, a "sexual fasting period" is established between the two of them to suspend sexual life, but this does not mean completely giving up physical contact, retaining gentle touch, sweet pillow talk, and surprises A small note, the intimacy of interlocking fingers, a kiss like first love... The time of "sexual amnesia" varies from person to person, but it should not be less than 10 days and not exceed 60 days, otherwise it will become permanent "sexual amnesia" Got it! There are several major benefits for couples to implement intermittent "sexual amnesia":

1. Maintain a certain sense of distance, so as not to feel tired day and night.

2. To enhance communication between lovers, you can take advantage of this period to stimulate the romance between them that is consumed by daily trivial matters.

3. Reserve energy for “unlocking” and make every physical exchange enjoyable.

4. Stay away from diseases. From a medical perspective, excessive sexual activity is extremely harmful to health.

“Sexual Amnesia” reality show

Don’t think that intermittent “sexual” amnesia is just a fantasy. Nowadays, many couples have taken the lead in trying such a life. The author interviewed two couples who live like this. You might as well take a look at their personal experiences:

Actor: Peng Jun (pseudonym) Media Personnel

Tuesday, May 1, 2007 Yin

I really don’t understand why she would come up with such a thing and give it a formal-sounding title, which is nothing more than 1, 3, 5, 7... We can’t " that" . After persisting for two months, I finally looked forward to the long vacation, and actually encountered the "taboo period", really!

May 6, 2007 Sunday Xiaoyu

What is annoying is that in the supermarket, she offered to buy "that" (condoms). I really can't figure it out, this month is not " "Taboo period"? There is no "use" in buying it. But as for her, she said she was prepared, and I have adapted to it now. It only took 30 days anyway, and I found that her temper has changed a lot and she has become a lot more diligent. Could it be that she feels she owes me? ——Excerpted from Peng Jun’s diary

Peng Jun: The first one or two months are the most difficult, but people should learn self-control. The desire to control this aspect has also allowed me to learn to control my temper, and we have fewer quarrels than before.

Actress: Xu Li (pseudonym), a shopping mall salesperson

Saturday, May 5, 2007 was cloudy

He got angry with me today because I asked This "taboo period" has been going on for several months. Can't it be passed by just enduring it? I tried to reason with him, but he didn’t listen. This would really benefit both of us, but he just didn’t understand my good intentions. I was really wronged...

June 21, 2007 It’s sunny on Thursday

Today he took the initiative to pick me up from get off work for the first time. I was so touched! I think this is due to the "taboo period" of trying it for almost half a year. In the past, he was always a macho man. Not only did he come to pick me up from get off work, he even asked me to go downstairs to buy a pack of cigarettes. Now I'm fine, I finally know I feel sorry for you! ——Excerpted from Xu Li’s diary

Xu Li: I learned this lifestyle from a magazine. At first I was afraid that he would disagree, but we persisted. I think the sentence in the magazine is right: married life requires such innovation.

Everyone should learn "intermittent amnesia"

What needs to be clarified is that I do not agree that intermittent "sexual amnesia" is the highest level of platonic love. On the contrary, I think this kind of couples and lovers The life between two people is the highest form of love.

I saw a survey and 7% of people felt that the first purpose of finding a partner was to solve physiological needs. I was so surprised! In fact, the life expectation of "wife and children on the hot bed" still exists in the hearts of many people, as if life after marriage should consist of going to work, getting off work, eating, and sleeping, as if marriage is just for continuing the family line. As everyone knows, there should be an independent space between husband and wife, there should be tender hugs, there should be sweet whispers, and there should be intermittent "sexual amnesia"...

Of course, if we only consider intermittent "sexual amnesia" Limiting it to sex life is also one-sided. There are many places for "intermittent amnesia" between husband and wife: please forget the other party's unreasonable troubles, please forget the other party's occasional small negligence, please forget the other party's harsh words in anger, please forget the other party's inadvertent and unintentional hurt...

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