For a long time, sex has been regarded as an "embellishment of life". It is better to have it, and it will not affect the quality of life if it is not available. But now, this attitude has changed, which can be seen from the frequency of women's sexual life.

The survey shows that 30% of women have sex 4-6 times a month; followed by 1-3 times, accounting for 24.22%; 21.58% have 7-10 times; and 11 or more times. 17.54%. But there are still 5.32% of people who have not had it even once. In the United States, 23% of people have sex 1-3 times a month, followed by 21% about 10 times a month. In addition, the proportion of "asexual" women in the United States is higher than that in China, reaching 9%.

While the frequency of sexual life is increasing, the quality of sexual life of Chinese women is also increasing. When asked "Are you happy with your sex life with your partner?", 40.65% of women answered "happy", 29.46% said "very happy", "occasionally happy" and "never happy" were 25.22% and 2.98% respectively. . This data is significantly better than the US survey results. Because only 16% of American women think that their sex life is "very happy", and 23% think that they are "happy".

Professor Peng Xiaohui from the School of Life Sciences of Central China Normal University pointed out that there is no "refractory period" in female sexual physiological ability, so it is stronger. Since Chinese society and culture have always had a negative and negative attitude towards sexual behavior, especially towards women, this rejection has suppressed their demand for sex to a certain extent. If women can get rid of these negative attitudes, cultural or social habits and let go of their bodies and minds, it will no longer be difficult to achieve sexual satisfaction.

"Chinese wives should take the initiative to learn sexual skills and learn more about and enjoy sex. This is a good thing that is conducive to the stability of marriage." Peng Xiaohui said.

Three adults will "try new things"

According to statistics from sexologists, even in France, which advocates romance and sexual freedom, nearly one-third of partners have almost no sex. This is not because sex has lost its appeal, but more importantly because partners have ignored the "innovation" of sex life and no longer work hard to keep sex fresh. In the long run, it will of course become tasteless.

The same problem was serious in this survey.

In China, 19.14% of women had tried something new during sex a year ago, accounting for the largest proportion. Followed by within half a year, reaching 17.41%. What is puzzling is that 66.75% of women "take no action" to improve the quality of their couples' sexual life. But only 37% of American women "let sex go". 41% of people will use lubricants to adjust the quality of sex, and 25% are willing to use sex toys.

The reporter learned that most European and American women have three essential things in their bedrooms: condoms, sex tools and lubricants. Yang Dazhong, Department of Sexual Medicine, Yuquan Hospital Affiliated to Tsinghua University, said that only a small number of Chinese women use lubricants and sex tools. "Abroad, in addition to middle-aged and elderly women and young women who have insufficient lubrication, some people use lubricants when using sex tools."

Yang Dazhong introduced that insufficient vaginal lubrication is a cause of sexual arousal disorder. Prominent performance will aggravate sexual pain. "Using lubricants can, firstly, increase the sensitivity of the clitoris and help women obtain more pleasure; secondly, lubricants contain moisturizing factors, which can prevent vaginal discomfort due to excessive dryness."

A few Sex has surprises

When asked "Can sex life be predictable?" 40.09% of Chinese women said "yes", 18.71% said "completely yes", "occasionally yes" accounted for 25.62%, only 14.07% of women said "no". In this aspect, American women are "sexually happier" than Chinese wives. Because only 15% of people can "completely" predict their sex life, another 15% can predict it, and "sometimes can" account for 26%.

The predictable sexual content is exactly the same whether it is Chinese or foreign. On the "list" of Chinese women, the first place is "sex place", accounting for 27.82%, followed by sexual positions with 26.49%, followed by sex time, sex duration, foreplay, etc. The U.S. list is almost in the same order, with only differences in percentages.

Dr. Debbie Herbnick of the Kinsey Institute for Sexuality in the United States pointed out that if you wear the same clothes every day, eat three meals without any changes, and without romantic emotional fluctuations, sex will naturally appear monotonous. But in fact, no matter how long you have been married, as long as both parties are attracted to each other and are willing to put effort into their sex life, there will be new content and feelings.

“Sex places and positions are the easiest changes to make. Sex is often an emotional expression. You don’t have to worry too much, just feel right. If you only had sex in bed in the past, Then you might as well move to the living room or spread a thick blanket on the floor to allow your body to be more free. "Before changing sexual positions, you can ask your partner for advice and understand their sexual fantasies," said Debbie Herbnick. and try to make it happen.”

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