"Sex" is the most pragmatic consideration for couples
My husband Ah Hai works in a travel company and often takes groups to Southeast Asia. At first, I was a little uncomfortable, or to be precise, I was worried. Although he was not Andy Lau, he was better-looking than Jay Chou. Many wealthy single female tourists had a very bold style and often teased him alone. I didn't know it at first, but he confessed everything to me. He said: "I love you, that's why I am invulnerable and return the jade intact to Zhao!" Once, at around 12 o'clock in the middle of the night, a young woman surnamed Wu "ran up" "Guest
" came and knocked on my husband's door. My husband politely let her in, thinking that she needed his help with something. But it turned out that this guest was not here to "complain"? ? The travel companion who shared the same room with her had an affair with another man from the same group during the trip, and was still stuck in her room at midnight. She couldn't stay any longer, so she had to come to the tour leader... My husband was about to make a call. But the female guest stopped him and leaned over with a half-smile: "No, let the lovers get married eventually! Otherwise, I will stay with you tonight..." My husband stood up in a hurry and said in a serious tone. I declined gently: "I'm sorry, I have a wife!"
Love encounters always involve doubles. When my husband told me this shapeless little story, I was resting on his arm. Qianjiao whispered. I was slightly averse to sex at first, but strangely, after listening to my husband’s retelling of his overseas “adventures” that night, I felt as if I had drunk an aphrodisiac and was extremely excited. I suddenly felt that he was a treasure and a rare commodity. Humans are thoughtful animals and can imbue simple sexual intercourse with a lot of imagination, but orangutans cannot. My husband once told me about such a scientific experiment: a psychologist deliberately played an obscene pornographic film to a group of gorillas in the hope that they would be stimulated and become sexually attracted to them. However, the result was a huge disappointment to the psychologist. The orangutans turned a blind eye to this, as indifferent as watching the meeting news. My husband is a very eloquent man. He likes to tell me stories, not just plain love words. I hate disgusting things. And the scientific experiment he told me was just to tell me that the reason why human sex is so beautiful is that it involves human imagination, thoughts, and aftertaste. It is not just 10 minutes, 30 minutes, or one or two. Hour time concept. A true master of lovemaking will leave a lingering fragrance on his wife's hands. Even when doing things during the day, she will unconsciously think of all the gentleness and consideration of her husband one night a few months ago, including the hints in his eyes and body language. Warming, the body has no memory, only the touch of the soul can make everything permeate every corner of you like fragrance. Take a deep breath at any time and you can make yourself smile.
Really, in the office, colleagues often wave their hands in front of my eyes, and then ask: "Hey, what are you thinking about? My eyes are straight!" Every time at this time, I will wake up from my sweet dream. Woke up feeling very satisfied. Thinking about everything my husband does at night, I feel particularly warm and even excited. Maybe during sex, I was just busy cooperating, and this kind of enjoyment lags behind. I find it more interesting and endless.
Besides "sex", I always regard all my husband's care for me as "love" in a broad sense. I am very careful and have a diary dedicated to recording my husband's "good things", such as: He He would sit aside and watch me drink the Chinese medicine for stomach problems before going to work; he remembered my parents’ birthdays; he liked children and “synthesized” two “children” who looked like us in the computer; he spent all his wages I gave all the bonuses to the bank to deposit; he would tell me unpleasant things in the company; he liked the food I cooked; when he sent me out for a taxi, he would write down the license plate number of the "taxi" on his mobile phone. ; He will rely on me to tie his tie; even if he buys a washbasin, he hopes to discuss it with me; when he wants to smoke at night, he will go downstairs to where my puppy urinates; I am on a business trip out of town Sometimes, he would call in the middle of the night and act coquettishly: "Honey, I want to fly to check the ward!"...
My habit of writing a diary was taught by my mother. Her two sentences I remember very firmly: "Don't eat in bed", "Don't think too badly of your husband"! By recording my husband’s merits, I find him more and more lovable, even respectable, and my love has turned into “love”. I feel moved and grateful, so I am content and cherish my blessings. I am a person who is very afraid of being alone. Since having my husband, I have become more courageous and confident, and I no longer feel lonely inside. The simplest and most effective way to love someone is to find out the details of how the other person loves you. In this way, you will feel at ease because of your close understanding. I am very fortunate to have a very broad storehouse of love, so I am not afraid of the future and never worry. Love famine. I became innocent, as if I was a girl again. I would often be in a good mood all day long because of admiration. I would even dry out a dripping, freshly washed white shirt from my husband on the balcony. , I feel like it is absorbing sunlight. Take it back at night, fold it, hold it in your hands and smell it, it will smell like sunshine. All this is very similar to my experience and understanding of marriage. Everything is ordinary and trivial, but if I taste it carefully, I can smell the strong fragrance of sunshine. I am a woman with a very sensitive sense of smell, and I love my husband's body odor to the fullest, especially his sweaty face when he comes back from exercise, which is very sexy. He never fights an unprepared "battle". Even if it rains at night, he will run on the treadmill for half an hour first. This is just to warm up for sex later. Therefore, whenever I see him getting ready to exercise, I will condition The reflection is confusing. Invisibly, he greatly advanced the "foreplay" in sex, and I would always sit in the bathroom and reminisce about it, dazed, excited, and then have a strong desire to "close to the water", wishing that there was a river. I brought it into the sea...
My husband is such a person who likes to use actions to "flirt" in a broad sense, and his words are just the icing on the cake. He is good at guiding me to fantasize, just like cooking rice into rice, which is what most men do, but his uniqueness is that he will continue to turn rice into wine. Once, I was undergoing minor surgery. I was lying on the operating table, feeling very cold and a little scared. In addition to holding my hand tightly to encourage me, my husband also whispered: "What will I do every time I come back from exercise?" A nurse next to me said quickly: "Drink water!" But I laughed. The answer he wanted was "making love," a deduction unique to both of us, a secret. After he asked this question, a wonderful effect occurred. I forgot about my fear and began to recall all the cuteness he had at night untimely...
Before marriage, I was a little confused and not confident about marriage. Unexpectedly, My dear husband has become my most personal mentor. He has improved my emotional intelligence in marriage. In a few words, he can summarize it as follows: Love is used to look forward to the future and look forward to tomorrow. With the support of love, we will be sure of tomorrow; " "Sex" is used for aftertaste, especially for a woman who is a wife. Maybe a man's "sex" means a bit of "relief", but a woman who loves life and understands life is good at aftertaste. Polish your husband's rough sex millet into exquisite pearl rice, then boil it into porridge or rice wine, which will intoxicate you and your husband.
I really wanted to share our couple’s sexual experience with everyone, so I called this hotline. You see, my husband’s warm-up exercises before sex virtually extended the “foreplay”; and my memories and aftertaste outside of bed actually greatly extended the “afterplay”. Whether it is "sexual" happiness or happiness, the participation of wisdom is crucial. This is the experience that our husband and wife have summed up together. In other words, live with your heart and make love with your mind. As a wife, I feel that I also have two major advantages: first, enjoying my husband to the fullest; second, trusting my husband and giving him freedom. If his hands and feet are tied up, how can he hug you and create a violent storm?
Husbands are not meant to guard, but to be used. "Use" is the most pragmatic kind of love.
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