Sex is not just about "having sex" and then stopping. You also need to have enough afterplay.
Men generally choose to fall asleep after sex. In fact, this is a very irresponsible behavior. If you want to improve this situation, both sexes should work hard on each other. Men should learn to be considerate of women and actively engage in some after-sex play, while women should talk more sweetly.
After two orgasms, what is your choice? Whether to stay in bed and be affectionate, or to take time off to work, or to continue playing your own computer games, or to fall asleep. A perfect sex is composed of foreplay, climax, and afterplay. Most people will do foreplay, but few people will do afterplay. However, ignoring afterplay will make women dissatisfied, so You need to do after sex.
"After finishing his work, he fell down and fell asleep, but I was still not satisfied. He didn't care about my feelings at all." Many men who do not have sex after sex often make their partners complain like this .
Experts say that a perfect sex life is a combination of foreplay, climax and afterplay, but ignoring "afterplay" is a common problem among men all over the world. A survey in the United States once showed that after sex, 32% of men immediately smoke or get up to find something to eat, 17% of men fall asleep, 14% of men get up to go to the toilet, and 9% of men go to the shower.
Taken together, 72% of men ignore the period after sex. The same is true in Asian countries. 40% of men in Japan show no tenderness to their wives after having sex.
"In fact, afterplay can play a compensatory role both psychologically and physically." Experts say that psychologically, proper hugging and touching will make women less likely to "he only cares about venting." ", don't care about me at all"; physiologically, many women have difficulty reaching climax during sex. Afterplay can help them welcome a belated climax through the stimulation of sensitive areas with hands and mouth.
Thus, it is obvious that after-sex play is important to women, so no matter what, after sexual life, men might as well spend more time with women in bed and chat with them about happy topics. You can also continue to use other methods to help women reach orgasm. In short, men should not ignore sexual afterplay. Ying should take active action.
From this we can see that men should not completely ignore the other person's feelings after sex, but should think more about it from the other person's perspective. At the same time, because women will be more satisfied after sex, women Friends can also express their inner thoughts more, and through some active communication, the sex process can be made more pleasurable.
Full afterplay makes women more satisfied
If friends of both sexes want to have a stable and harmonious relationship, they must master some after-play skills to promote the relationship between the sexes. Although these after-play skills to promote the relationship between the sexes are very common, many friends do not If we don’t pay too much attention to it, we will not study it in detail in the following article.
1. Hug.
Experts believe that this method is most conducive to further deepening the relationship between men and women.
2. Conversation.
Experts believe that after sex is the best time for both sexes to communicate about love. However, sexology experts remind women that it is best to start the conversation by praising their partner's sexual ability. This will make men feel extremely satisfied and will not easily make men doze off, which is conducive to continuing the sexy and warm atmosphere.
3. Massage.
Mutual massage between partners can keep the two of them in physical contact and enjoy the wonderful feeling of skin-to-skin contact.
4. Shower.
In the steamy bathroom, the two can continue to admire each other's bodies and caress each other. Hot water can also stimulate blood circulation and relieve men's fatigue.
So after orgasm, pay attention to these after-sex dramas, which can make your relationship deeper and make your sex life more harmonious. Therefore, no matter when you have sex as a couple, you need to pay attention to these after-sex scenes.