Help children identify sexual roles

At the beginning of sex education, children should be told that there are differences between men and women. Generally speaking, , boys are more proud in identifying and accepting their sexual roles, while girls are more passive. Nowadays, some boys are "feminized" under the care of their grandmothers, grandmothers and female teachers, becoming quiet, hygienic, polite and obedient. Some girls are selfish and domineering because of their pampering. Like boys, they are all Bad tendencies.

Parents’ attitude is very important

When children ask some sexual questions, parents’ attitude is the most important, and children should be answered with scientific and artistic explanations. For example, when children are 3-5 years old, they will ask questions like "Where do I come from?" This is their strong understanding of the origin of life. Don’t worry that children will imitate if you explain it too clearly. In fact, children’s thinking is very simple. Even if they imitate, it is superficial and they regard it as a game. Children under 10 years old do not have it. That motivation and ability.

So, it is normal for a child to be interested in sex, just like he is interested in anything he has never seen or played with before. Adults do not need to make a fuss and let the child relax in the most natural and real situation. Understanding the most natural things will be of great benefit to their healthy growth.

For children with this kind of problem, you can directly tell him that after the father and mother fall in love and get married, in addition to hugging and kissing, the father's sperm cells must enter the mother's egg cells and grow into a baby in the mother's belly. , born from the mother’s birth canal. At the same time, we should tell our children that giving birth to a baby is a very difficult process, and train them to cherish life and respect their parents.

Parents setting sexual role models is more effective than sex education

Parents’ identification of family roles

Some people say that sex role modeling is more effective than sex knowledge education. More important is the setting of sexual role models. If parents speak and behave in a loving, warm and harmonious manner every day, and appreciate each other, it is undoubtedly the best education for their children, because the children's ideal prototypes of the opposite sex correspond to their parents. The father should be responsible, take care of the family, care about his wife and children, not smoke or drink, speak civilized language, be punctual and trustworthy; the mother should be enthusiastic, smart, diligent and thrifty, and understand beauty. Parents should use themselves as role models for their children so that their children can gain recognition of their family roles from their parents.

It is necessary to have good hygiene habits

For example, girls should learn the order of wiping their buttocks from an early age, and boys should also wash their private parts frequently and know how to protect their penises. If a child likes to play with his sexual organs, parents should first tell the child from a hygienic point of view that unclean hands can easily carry bacteria and can make the penis sick. Secondly, parents should divert the child's attention by telling him stories he likes to hear, or doing things he likes. After playing games for a long time, children will get rid of their bad habits.