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From the previous “pornographic photos scandal” to the later “pants-removing scandal”, a series of “immoral” incidents have had a very bad impact on minors. Even some children followed suit and behaved in ways that were inappropriate for their age. While people are condemning his low morals and lack of legal concepts, have they ever thought about the cause of the matter?

On the one hand, children do this because they have a weak concept of legality. They must not think that this is illegal. Among the few legal provisions they know, it is related to sexual harassment, indecency, and sexual assault. There must be very little or vague information related to sexual crimes; on the other hand, its direct motivation is also very simple, nothing more than curiosity, teasing, and impulsiveness, so that it cannot extricate itself. According to human nature, people begin to be curious about "sex" in adolescence. First, it comes from society's mystery and curiosity about sex since ancient times. Second, it comes from their doubts about their own youth development. In addition, due to immature physical development, The functions of the nervous, endocrine and other regulatory systems are particularly imperfect, making them psychologically impulsive, difficult to control, and weak in endurance. This will inevitably lead to "temporary confusion".

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The formation of a person's moral concepts, The environment has a great influence on it. The current sex education in schools is very weak, and the sex education in the family is also uneven. In contrast, the sex education in society is pervasive: the Internet, print media, various advertisements, and the words of adults in society. and behavior; mainstream - improving personality, establishing noble sexual ethics, shaping male and female gender roles with civilized charm, improving scientific sexual values, cultivating elegant sexual aesthetics and performance capabilities, and learning methods to establish harmonious interpersonal relationships between the sexes - It is too weak. Compared with the pluralistic sexual culture in society, the influence of the former on teenagers is negligible, and the construction of sexual morality for teenagers is even more distant. We have to say, "Sex education has lagged far behind precocious puberty"!

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Natural, sexual and cultural freedom in society , is social progress, but it requires a prerequisite. Just writing "Not suitable for those under 18 years old" on some works will not be very timely. Instead, it will arouse the curiosity of increasingly precocious teenagers! What is needed is to strengthen sex education for teenagers! From psychological defense to the establishment of moral consciousness, from legal concepts to the improvement of sexual values, from sexual scientific judgment to the cultivation of sexual aesthetic consciousness. Sex education is a process of guiding people to become healthy, confident and happy good men and women, a process of improving the quality of men and women, and a process of improving social civilization. This requires government support, school implementation, parent cooperation and the whole society. Creation of social atmosphere. For the sex education of teenagers, every adult has an unshirkable responsibility. This is one of the components of our sex education and is the great trust given to every adult by society!