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Little girls and boys who have just entered puberty, have just had their period, and have just had nocturnal emissions, already know this Emergency contraception, condoms in schoolbags...their various problems surprised the veteran workers.

In fact, it is not surprising that little girls know about emergency contraception and that little boys carry condoms with them. This is mainly due to the "sex education" in society in recent years. Children entering puberty, under our "sex education", know "sex" and learn "sex". And some "sex education" tells them that they must prevent pregnancy, so birth control pills and condoms are put into the battle together and have entered the schoolbags of little girls and boys.

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In the eyes of some people, sex education seems to be about teaching children how to prevent pregnancy. Their reason is simple. Since they can't prevent their children from having sex, they can simply "give" their children a condom and end it all. A small condom seems to represent our entire sex education. Some sex textbooks often over-describe and exaggerate knowledge such as human organs and sexual intercourse, while "underplaying" knowledge such as sexual morality and sexual civilization.

We must face up to the fact that teaching children how to have sex and how to prevent pregnancy is only a lower level of imparting sexual knowledge. Some people think that their sex education is successful once their children know how to use contraception. This is a misunderstanding of sex education and a serious misleading to children. It should be said that this is not sexual civilization, nor is it the ultimate goal of sex education. This will only intensify the curiosity of children who have just entered puberty and try hard. In order to show the degree of "sexual civilization", many people are in favor of it. Under their instigation, some teenagers start adult sexual life prematurely.

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It is undeniable that the temptation between the opposite sex is an instinctive physical reaction, and society Some of the "sex education" in China allows our children to "practice" sex, causing a series of social problems. The research report stated that 54.2% of middle school students believe that underage sexual behavior is normal. So many underage students identify with sexual behavior. This is a terrible sexual tendency. The direct consequence is that some students do not regard "sex" as "sex", but as a "game". In the end, they will definitely Harm the child's physical and mental health.

Men and women entering puberty are attracted and curious about the opposite sex. This is a normal physiological and psychological phenomenon, but we cannot let "condoms" become our "sex education." We must provide correct guidance, not only to let children realize that sex is not shameful, but also to educate children that premature involvement in "sex" will cause harm to both parties' bodies and minds. Sex education should let children understand that sex is everyone’s right, but we cannot abuse this right. Only when we are able to assume "sexual responsibility" can we exercise our "sexual rights."