If the relationship between the sexes is not good, the sex will not be good either. The sexual interests of men and women are very different due to their physiological structures, which can produce chemical effects. Only by accepting such differences and adjusting each other's expectations and attitudes can any gap in sexual interests be overcome and a good relationship between husband and wife be promoted. The dispute in the relationship between the sexes is not about who loses or wins, but about whether an objective neutral point can be found to solve the problem. You are happy and I am happy, which is the most positive attitude.

Which of the two sexes has more sexual interest? How to increase each other's sexual interest?

Both genders have different requirements and expectations for sexual interest. It is normal for sexual interest to sometimes be high and sometimes low. Men's sexual interest is more urgent, undistracted, targeted, more focused during sex, and easier to reach climax. Women’s sexual interests are often thought to be scattered and they urgently need emotional intimacy. The difference in sexual interest between the sexes is not quantity, but quality.

The sexual interest of men and women can be equally high, but generally men’s sexual interest is higher than that of women. This is because testosterone is at work, and the stimulation of the acquired erotic environment also has an impact.

Women want romance, men want pornography, and the structures of sexual interest are very different. Sexual interest actually comes from the brain, not technology. It is necessary to withdraw from daily life and concentrate on thinking about sex, or use sexual fantasies to generate sexual interest.

Methods to improve women’s sexual interest: romantic gestures (such as sending cards, flowers, gifts, compliments), more communication and intimacy, satisfying sensual needs, partners willing to spend quality time together, and reducing dispute.

Methods to promote male sexual interest: more variety or more dramatic sex, sudden sex, nude stimulation, sexy inner beauty, positive response from partner, erotic and erotic stimulation.

It only takes 3 seconds for men to have sexual impulses, and it takes 15 to 20 minutes for women to have sexual feelings.

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How much is enough for a man and a woman to have sex?

How much sex is enough?

Surveys in medical publications show that one-third of couples have sex two or three times a month. Another survey shows that one-third of couples have no sex life for a long time, or have sex once every two months. These couples are under 38 years old.

Genders have different interests in sex, just like food. It is best to adopt the attitude of "you are ok and I am ok".

True sexual compatibility does not refer to the same sexual interests of both sexes, but the same expectations for sexual interests, or the same views on what is normal/abnormal sexual interests. Despite differences in sexual interest, any disparity in sexual interest can be overcome as long as expectations and attitudes are the same.

What are the most common sexual problems complained about by men and women?

Men always feel that sex is not enough and expect more. At the same time, he is worried that his sexual performance will not be as good as his wife expects, and he will gradually lose his sexual interest.

Women complain about insufficient communication with their husbands and expect more emotional communication and intimacy. The more a woman talks, the stronger her desire for sex becomes. Women can speak up to 12,000 words a day, while men can only speak 4,000 words a day.

For men, sex = love; for women, love = emotional communication and intimacy.