When husband and wife have been together for a long time, there are inevitable bumps and quarrels. When these situations arise, couples must resolve these issues promptly and correctly. If it is not resolved well, it will affect the relationship between the husband and wife, causing estrangement and disgust between the two parties. So, how should couples get along to avoid the situation of a small itch every three years and a big itch every seven years?

Put down your machismo

Now both husband and wife have their own jobs, so they spend almost equal time at home. If women have to do all the housework at home after a tiring day at work, they will easily complain. Times have changed, men should throw away your machismo, give up your old concept of "men take care of the outside and women take care of the house", and share cooking and childcare tasks equally. Husbands should understand that the real "man" in people's minds today is a man who can work well outside, manage the family well internally, and balance strength and softness.

Speak less of the word "divorce"

The word "divorce" is like a curse, it will come true if you say it too often. In married life, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel. What both parties need to do is how to deal with these conflicts and reduce major issues to trivial matters. When friction occurs, be careful not to mention divorce at every turn, and be careful not to say cruel words that you will regret in the future, let alone hold a grudge against the other person. You must know that when husbands or wives encounter difficulties and misfortunes, they should support each other and rely on each other. After passing the most difficult stage, the relationship between husband and wife will be stronger and sweeter.

Don't have "two minds"

The couple is both a whole and an independent individual. They are interested in their own growing family and social circle, so various situations will arise. When most problems arise, be sure not to have any second thoughts and make a clear distinction between your husband's family and your natal family. Husband and wife should be considerate of each other, think about each other's thoughts, and worry about each other's worries. Only in this way can the relationship be strong. If one family needs help, the other family should do their best to support it.