Several "homely" methods to treat premature ejaculation

As a husband, who wants to have premature ejaculation, and who doesn't want his wife to be satisfied and sleep well. "At this time, some people can't help but ask: "What is premature ejaculation? Ejaculation without penetration is undoubtedly premature ejaculation, but after penetration, the wife cannot help but ejaculate before she is satisfied, does this count as premature ejaculation? If calculated, then in more than half of the sex lives, the wife does not reach orgasm, that is, she does not achieve true sexual satisfaction. Can it be said that most husbands suffer from "premature ejaculation"?

A night of love is ruined in an instant, and you hate and love at the same time, full of melancholy. Isn’t this a great regret for a wife? As a husband, who wants to ejaculate prematurely, and who doesn’t want a good wife to sleep with satisfaction? It's a pity that this semen is like a flood that bursts a dike and flows thousands of miles. It is really beyond his will to "prevent and defend". As the saying goes, "The apes on both sides of the Taiwan Strait can't stop crying, and the boat has passed the Ten Thousand Mountains." At this time, some people can't help but ask: "What is premature ejaculation?"

This is a question that the medical community has not yet determined the final answer to. question. Ejaculation without penetration is undoubtedly premature ejaculation, but after penetration, the wife cannot help but ejaculate before she is satisfied, does this count as premature ejaculation? If calculated, then in more than half of the sex lives, the wife does not reach orgasm, that is, she does not achieve true sexual satisfaction. Can it be said that most husbands suffer from "premature ejaculation"? I'm afraid not, otherwise the husbands would protest vehemently. If not counted, some husbands ejaculate shortly after penetration, just like delicacies swallowed before they can taste in their mouths, and their wives cannot even experience a certain amount of sexual excitement. Can this be called premature ejaculation? ? Otherwise the ladies will have objections. At present, the more scientific and objective definition of sexual medicine experts is: Premature ejaculation occurs when the penis has not been inserted into the vagina during sex, or if the penis twitches less than 15 times after insertion, or ejaculation occurs less than 2 minutes after insertion, and the woman has not yet reached sexual satisfaction, it is called premature ejaculation.

There are many reasons for premature ejaculation, such as having sex before marriage, fear of being discovered, worry about pregnancy, nervousness, fear of wife, fear of failure, fatigue and drunkenness, reunion after a long absence, pain during sexual intercourse, etc. These are all Mental and physiological factors of premature ejaculation. Some of the negative psychological factors in impotence listed above can also cause premature ejaculation. The specific principle is: the penis is too sensitive to sexual stimulation, and the threshold of the sexual center to stimulate ejaculation is low. Mild or short-term sexual contact triggers the ejaculation reflex, and once this reflex is triggered, it is like a wild horse running wild and cannot be controlled.

In recent years, it has been discovered that excessive foreskin can also cause premature ejaculation. The principle is: the glans has been wrapped by the foreskin for a long time and rarely rubs with underwear, so the surface is delicate. Once an erection occurs, it will be too sensitive to friction, tightness and changes in wet temperature, which can easily lead to premature ejaculation. Therefore, some people advocate that patients with phimosis and prepuce should be circumcised before marriage or even before school age.

Occasionally occurring one or two premature ejaculations during sexual intercourse is not considered pathological. This diagnosis can only be made when premature ejaculation occurs in most sexual intercourses.

Traditional Chinese medicine has a good effect on the treatment of premature ejaculation, but patients are required to persist in taking the medicine for a period of time. Some Western medicines can cause drowsiness, so they are more effective for patients with symptoms such as insomnia, anxiety, and tension. The male genital treatment instrument can adapt the penis to the internal environment and sexual stimulation of the vagina, improve the ejaculation reflex threshold of premature ejaculation patients, rebuild benign sexual responses, and is of great help to patients returning to normal sexual life. It is called "desensitization therapy" in China.

Move-stop technique, stretching technique and spouse squeezing technique are commonly used in behavioral therapy in the West. Patients can consult experts. As long as they persist in training for two weeks to two months, they will be successful.

There are several home-based methods that I would like to introduce to you:

1. Strengthen the communication of thoughts and feelings between husband and wife, eliminate gaps and misunderstandings, understand the husband’s premature ejaculation and actively cooperate with the treatment, which will help Overcome negative psychology.

2. Do enough caressing and kissing before intercourse, so that the woman can enter the excitement stage or even the plateau stage first, and it will be easier to meet the woman's sexual requirements.

3. Change the time of sex. People usually arrange sex in the evening, but if you change it to when you wake up, when physical fatigue has been relieved and you are full of energy, and then chew a piece of chewing gum to flirt, I believe the quality of sex will be improved.

4. Wearing a double-layer condom can reduce the sensitivity of the penis and prolong the ejaculation time.

5. Reduce the amplitude and speed of penis twitching to reduce sexual stimulation of the penis. At the same time, the woman actively caters to the movements and reaches orgasm as soon as possible to satisfy both parties.

6. Distracting the man’s attention from sexual intercourse, such as looking away from the woman, diverting penis sensation to thinking about other issues, or even counting, will help delay ejaculation.

7. After receiving behavioral therapy, use the female-on-top sexual intercourse method for a period of time to relieve the husband's tension and increase his adaptability to vaginal stimulation.

8. Having sexual intercourse for the second time within an hour after ejaculation can significantly delay the ejaculation time, but the man's penis will feel swelling and pain. Although the above method is simple, and many people may know it, not many actually do it well. As long as you persist in doing it, you will definitely succeed.