Although a woman strategically acts coquettishly through traditional "weak sexual appeals" such as fear of the dark, pain, and cold, the goal she wants to achieve may not be her husband's simple sweet words of comfort, encouragement, or She also has a greater purpose of physical comfort, such as to empty her husband's pocket, influence his decision, and even keep her husband's eyes on her.

Men all like women’s superficial, sensual and instinctive act of coquettishness, such as hanging their arms around your neck to kiss you, rubbing your face with their messy hair, cooing like Lin Chiling, using repeated words to make sentences, and frequently The flowers tremble and shout "no", "hate", etc.; however, sometimes, we men will miscalculate and misjudge women's strategic coquettishness. No matter how much alcohol you drink, men often don’t understand its true motives, so they don’t appreciate it and don’t dig into it. For example, they may pout in anger, bump you under the bed with their butts, draw skulls on toast with ketchup, sneer in the mirror in the middle of the night, or simply be arrogant. Be reasonable... At this time, we grown men should not be impatient or get angry in a disgraceful way. She is actually acting coquettishly. She needs your coaxing and your love at this moment, and you need to appreciate her beauty and her beauty like you are digging for treasure. possible "conspiracy". In this world, there are no women who can't act coquettishly, only men who don't know what to do.

Male friends always say that most of the time, his wife does not make him feel distressed, but a headache! Because the conversation between the two parties is a bit like "chicken to duck", they each express their own opinions, and the woman always has to guess what the implication is. Guessed again and again, and basically guessed wrong. I also think women are naturally fond of guessing games, so the ladies in "A Dream of Red Mansions" always have to guess lantern riddles with gusto when they have nothing to do; usually when they receive calls from girls, they also like to act coquettishly: "Guess who I am?" ", I usually respond with surprise like this: "Gong Li, right? Or Maggie Cheung?" When getting along with a girl, you must have an "emotional heart", don't be stubborn, respond to her in an empathetic way, tease her, and not "Fight" made her angry. If you really love, you should understand the heart of a woman, even if it is to find a needle in a haystack, you have to keep trying!

A man wandered the streets alone and just had a fight with his wife and didn't want to go home. In fact, it was just a trivial matter: The wife asked him, "Do Zhao Wei's eyes look better or mine?" The man was writing an annual report for the leader, so he said nonchalantly, "I don't know." Ask me again..." This time the husband learned the lesson and changed his words: "Of course you are beautiful!" I thought the nightmare was over, but my wife was no longer willing to give up: "You are lying!" and then started to pester her like a book. Then, the husband was so annoyed that he finally said a concluding speech: "You are so shameless and boring!" So, a civil war started in full swing...

If women are in public places, they are often reasonable and gentle, and they are the leading factor in social harmony.

So, why do you change as soon as you meet the man you love? Freud, the master of psychological analysis, believes that once a woman falls in love, she will become childish, naive, and like breasts. They talk in a coquettish voice, like to suck (kiss), like to act coquettishly (or act wild), or use childhood nicknames (nicknames), etc.; in other words, love makes women easily become irrational, which can be traced back to various low-level behaviors in infancy. need. It seems that it is natural for women to pretend to be cute in front of their men. After seeing this clearly, will men treat our women's various strategic coquetry with a more peaceful, tolerant and even a little pity?

It is true that women are definitely good communicators in the workplace, but once When I go home and talk to those close to me, especially my miserable husband, I usually like to engage in "brain teasers", which are full of mysteries and difficult to decipher. In many cases, the opposite is true. Just like the popular fashion of "wearing underwear outside", it was invented by women! When one day, she calls you a "dead ghost", a "bad guy" or even a "hooligan" or a local "murderer". "Thousands of cuts", please don't rush to defend or get angry. She will not "scratches" someone who has nothing to do with her, nor will she utter the above "poisonous curse". With this in mind, you You won’t feel sad or sad easily. The so-called beating is pain and scolding is love, this is the principle.

Women like things that "empathize with" and are most afraid of their men having "two minds". Correspondingly, they also care most about whether her husband has digested her "transformation" words, or whether the body language she sends out is accepted by him. , accept, and then make correct and heartwarming responses. For example, when my wife comes home from work, she kicks up her high heels and chairs, throws pillows, and blows her bangs (because she doesn’t have a beard), and then tells how a colleague is a villain and how his boss is boring and partial... As her husband, of course, first of all, you can’t refute it. The second is that you don’t have to offer advice seriously. If you rush to give her a lesson on interpersonal relationships, it will be counterproductive, because she knows more about people and the world than you do. The third is that you don’t have to be a patriarchal person to discipline: "You have it yourself, too." What's wrong..." This won't work, and that won't work. Is there nothing you can do? In fact, the most labor-saving and effective response is: "I understand, you are really wronged! Come and drink a glass of water to relieve your anger!" At this time, the wife wants to What matters most is the support of "public opinion" and the "empathy" of family members.

It is worth mentioning that although a woman strategically acts coquettishly through traditional "weak appeals" such as fear of the dark, pain, and cold, the purpose she wants to achieve may not be Her husband's simple sweet words of comfort, encouragement, or physical comfort may have a larger purpose, such as to empty his pocket, influence his decision, or even keep his eyes on her. Some presidential wives and wives of corrupt officials often influence their husbands' decision-making and value orientation through such strategic coquettishness. For example, in ancient times, many foolish kings would not hesitate to start wars or set fire to kill people just to make their beauty smile. Many cadres under investigation in the country often At first, they were often blown away by the pillow wind... Therefore, while men pay attention to and understand a woman's strategic coquettishness, they must also be vigilant: What is the higher goal of her coquettishness? What is her intention?

Women’s strategic coquettishness many times is actually a disguised attempt to manipulate the other person’s reaction, and men must take it seriously. What are your weaknesses? Where have you offended her? What else is she dissatisfied with? Of course, we ordinary men should pay more attention to how to deal with the overtones of our wife's strategic coquettishness, rather than being wary of what she has. Earth-shattering ambition. If the wife is busy in the kitchen while her husband is reading the newspaper on the sofa with his legs crossed, she may talk about it. One moment she will complain that the gas is too small and the range hood is too noisy, and the next moment she will blame the children for running around. ...At this time, the husband should respond in time. Her purpose is not to complain, but for you to come forward and beat her on the back and whisper: "Madam, thank you for your hard work!" To be honest, women don't want much and they are very simple. , is a vague feeling of "being cared for and valued". In this sense, a man does not need to work so hard to guess his wife's motivations and the logic of her words. There are two most correct ways for you, and they are always effective: "I understand" in one sentence, and "hug" in one action. .

There is a line in "Chinese Style Divorce": Instinctive coquettishness is okay, but intelligent coquettishness is terrible! In fact, it is not terrible, as long as your ears, eyes, mouth and heart are all in place, from surgery to Internal medicine, being your wife's masseur and mood doctor, then this "doctor" will be a good husband, and a "smart" husband, and all the "coquettish" skills will be solved easily. In this way, marriage is a romantic game played by two close lovers that can lead to a win-win situation. The so-called loving with all your heart means being your wife's confidant, being the worm in your wife's belly, and being the barometer of your heart. Yes, I love it, so I understand!

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