Sex life is an important part of a couple's life. A harmonious and harmonious sexual life is the natural physiological need of men and women, and it is the common desire of both husband and wife. Both parties have the obligation to cooperate closely and the right to joint satisfaction. In the process of sexual life, there are important psychological factors here, from the stimulation of sexual excitement to emotional communication, from the physical and mental investment of both parties to reaching orgasm together. As long as one party lacks understanding of sexual knowledge, or one party adopts a negative attitude, the two parties will not be able to achieve emotional harmony. Especially for women, the role of sexual psychology has a greater impact. Men must understand this feature in order to better play a proactive role in the life of a couple.

Many women are afraid that the other party will despise them, and try their best to suppress their true reactions and emotions to show their self-respect and aloofness. Some women have strong conservative concepts and believe that sexual life is an obligation that they have to fulfill, and they have a negative and passive attitude. This shyness, reserve, timidity and negative psychology of women are the resistance that stimulates and accelerates sexual excitement. It is unrealistic to expect them to consciously free themselves from these psychological shackles. In particular, a small number of women have very weak sexual desire before marriage, which makes it even more difficult to get rid of this predicament. The old concept holds that women should be completely passive in sexual life, but modern scientific research has overturned this outdated concept. Facts have proved that it is very necessary for women to learn to take the initiative in their sexual life to achieve sexual pleasure and satisfy both parties.

Men’s sexual response characteristics determine that their sexual desire is strong and can be aroused at any time and quickly progress to the level of complete excitement. Women only experience orgasms with strong sexual desire around ovulation or premenstrual period. Even so, their excitement and excitement are much slower and more subtle than men's. Before and after puberty, male sexual desire is centered on the genitals and generalizes to the surrounding areas, while female sexual desire gradually concentrates on the genital area. After middle age, men begin to generalize, and women instead focus on reproduction. Therefore, men pay more attention to sexual intercourse, while women have a wide range of sources of sexual satisfaction. For men, only ejaculation can bring pleasure, while for women, childbirth, breastfeeding, etc. can also bring pleasure.

${FDPageBreak} Every couple has its own characteristics in sexual life. Only when both parties understand the structure and function of male and female reproductive organs and pay attention to cooperate with each other's reaction patterns and special wishes can sexual life be achieved. Happiness and harmony. Men often bear the main responsibility, whether in society or in the family. Their strong sense of professionalism and responsibility make them consume a lot of mental or physical energy, and they are often exhausted at night. The wife should wisely choose the right time to take the initiative, leading her husband to completely relax the continuously tense nerves and muscles through a happy sex life, eliminate the complicated and troublesome affairs, and appreciate the perfection and happiness of family and married life. A wife should be a haven for a man to rest peacefully upon his return, not a source of new tension.

The sexual psychology characteristics of men and women are also different. Men will be proud of their own strength and satisfying both parties, while women will affirm their own attractiveness in sexual satisfaction. Therefore, sexual dysfunction manifests itself differently in men and women. Men are most likely to have problems with sexual intercourse, mainly impotence and premature ejaculation. Women are prone to problems with sexual satisfaction, mainly low sexual desire and no orgasm. If there is a lack of common requirements in sexual life and lack of mutual understanding and respect, it will hurt each other's feelings and even cause the other party to lose interest. In severe cases, it can cause sexual dysfunction and lead to the breakdown of the marriage. Some young men are poisoned by the remnants of feudal patriarchal ideology and regard their wives as their accessories. Regardless of whether the woman has sexual requirements or not, she does not even care about the other person's health.

She will still force her to have sex when she is unwell or in a bad mood. If she does not comply, he will get angry or even use violence. This kind of rough behavior will inevitably make the woman nervous, disgusted and fearful, and she thinks it is an insult to her personality. If things go on like this, women will develop low sexual desire, and some women may even develop from a reserved attitude to a confrontational mentality, deliberately being cold and rejecting the man's requests, and even playing with his feelings. This, in turn, will hurt the man's self-esteem, make him feel disappointed and then tired of sexual life. Coupled with anxiety and anger, he may develop into sexual dysfunction such as impotence. All these have sown the seeds of disaster, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the couple's relationship and the breakdown of the family.

Therefore, if you want to have a happy and harmonious sex life, you must pay attention to the following points: Both parties must have sexual desires and impulses, and cannot be forced. Both parties need to be highly focused and not distracted. The sexual excitement and euphoric emotions of both parties should infect each other and excite each other. Including expressions, postures, language and intonation, etc. People in love enjoy getting to know each other and making each other happy, giving and providing everything the other needs. Love requires time, sincerity, and rapid communication of feelings. Only on the basis of understanding and respect, coupled with a full understanding of sexual knowledge, can a married life be harmonious and happy.

It is worth noting that men and women have age-specific requirements and responses to sexual life. Understanding these characteristics and being considerate of each other is also a factor in a harmonious sexual life. Let’s take a look at the gender gap in terms of age.

${FDPageBreak} 1. 20-30 years old: Men are at their peak sexual period, they are excited quickly, have strong sex appeal, and are easily re-excited after orgasm. Women are in a shy and reserved state of mind and cannot let go emotionally. Men have a stronger sexual desire than women.

2. 31-40 years old: Male sexual function begins to decline, but the ability to control sex increases and can better meet women’s sexual requirements. Women begin to break through psychological barriers, become more aware of their bodies, and know how to achieve satisfaction and climax.

3. 41-50 years old: Male sexual desire decreases, energy is limited, sexual excitement is slow, and more stimulation is needed to reach the peak. But with more experience, he can satisfy the woman's sexual requirements more considerately and tenderly. Women's sexual desire increases and their sexual needs reach their peak. The psychological depression and obstacles are swept away, and I no longer pretend to be reserved. After menopause, vaginal dryness requires the use of lubricants. This decade is an incongruous stage of sexual life. After middle age, women's sexual desire can exceed that of men. The number of young couples and old wives in the West can reach 1/8-1/5.

4. 51-60 years old: The sexual requirements of both parties tend to be harmonious. Female demands have begun to dwindle.

5. 61-70 years old: The sexual function of both parties tends to deteriorate, but the sexual life of some loving couples can still continue. A survey shows that more than 60% of couples still insist on regular intercourse. Older women still have sexual desire, and excessive suppression will be detrimental to their health. Keeping their sex life natural can help them spend their later years in a more comfortable mood.

6. Over 71 years old: Reports indicate that one in ten couples still lead a regular sex life. In short, being able to maintain a happy sex life will undoubtedly be of great benefit to the health of the couple. Foreign surveys show that separated or divorced women are more susceptible to infectious diseases than women in happy marriages because their immunity is low and their ex-husbands are often in poor health. The survey also shows that some people who are still married but have bad relationships tend to have worse immunity than those who are separated or divorced. It can be seen that a happy marriage and a harmonious sex life are very important to health.

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