Among women who are single, their words and deeds often have the characteristics of being single. If you are wandering in a similar situation, then you must check yourself with the following to see if you are really hopelessly single...

First: Special gossip

Beside a single woman, there must be a few close friends who are like those nagging women in the movie "Infinite Motion". Every man around him, and taking pleasure in it. It ranges from world-wide entertainment events, including the measurements of the latest girl to date; to grassroots emotional realities, for example, the proprietress of the clothing store downstairs seems to have several lovers... But after all is said and done, in the final analysis the topic will still focus on When it comes to men, anyway, the men around them are either impersonal or unloving. Finally, I came to the conclusion that in the context of globalization, the general background is like this, no wonder you are single.

It’s sad, even if you can find a boyfriend, he will be drowned in the spit of your girlfriends. Since you are not a paparazzi reporter and have no professional need to spread gossip and embarrass people you know, why don’t you shut up and seriously think about the advantages of the men around you?

Second: Always being called upon by the boss Go

"Career-oriented", "workaholic", "strong woman"...all the titles used to describe older single women are just very tragic excuses, although you also know that "girlfriend" Or "Mrs." is a title that will make you feel happier. Who told you to be single! Your boss thinks that you have no family burden and calls you many times to urge you to arrive at the company within half an hour for meetings, but you still pretend to be very cooperative. You may comfort yourself this way: The company's new plan has just begun. The first half of the year will be busier, and the second half of the year may be a little slow down. Come on, you said this to yourself as early as last year's work planning period. . The person who can arouse your interest is no longer a man, but a male customer.

You have devoted your youth to the company, leaving early and returning late, making your job your home. After three years, you have finally become a middle-level cadre such as a department director. Who will be responsible for your singleness? I have been depressed many times. However, after taking stock of the men around me, I feel deeply disappointed and have no choice but to stay in Gaobucheng. I put away this reverie out of humiliation.

Third: Holiday Panic

You are very tired from work, but the strange thing is that you are still afraid of holidays, especially holidays like Valentine's Day.

If you are single, either no one will send you roses, or you will receive more than one bouquet of roses. The former is quite desolate, which means that you have to go back to your cold little home alone. Before that, you had to endure the excitement of lovers holding roses and holding hands in the streets. Your ex-boyfriend may feel guilty and give you a comforting phone call, but I'm afraid this will only make you feel more miserable. In the end, you had no choice but to go to bed early with the stuffed animal on your pillow in your arms, hoping that the sun would be shining the next day so you could bask in the pillow. The latter looks glamorous, but in fact it is more than enough and full of dangers. The relationship between you and the men who show you kindness on this day will not make a qualitative leap because of the arrival of the festival. The most likely result is that in a Western restaurant surrounded by sweet couples, you and this man finish the absent-minded dinner in a seemingly inseparable manner, and then return to your lonely den alone with roses in hand.

Gradually, your holiday panic disorder becomes more and more serious. Common symptoms include anxiety, wandering around, and having nothing to do during holidays. By the way, your birthday wish is always to get married. This wish has been made for many years.

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Fourth: Get into some bad habits

In the beginning, you were like every girl, pure, childlike, as graceful as a virgin, and unconventional. After falling out of love again and again and being hurt, you will either smoke up the clouds or sip and sing softly to comfort your lonely heart. Anyway, no one will care about you, and there is no need to raise children and regulate your body for the time being, so you just anesthetize every thought and nerve that may cause pain.

Perhaps it cannot be called a hobby. You are not addicted to things like tobacco and alcohol. At best, you just use cigarettes to wake up and drink to relieve your worries. In your opinion, knowing that smoking hurts the lungs and drinking alcohol hurts the stomach is better than being sad without smoking or drinking, so it is difficult to really quit.

Fifth: Afraid of wedding occasions

On the surface, in front of classmates and friends, you will still show some chicness as a single, but in your heart, you are eagerly looking forward to your marriage as soon as possible. Ending being single - Most obviously, you're afraid to hear that one of your classmates is getting married again. It's okay if you just hear that, but if someone formally invites you to a wedding banquet, you'll be in trouble.

First of all, you have to face the dilemma of going to the banquet alone, while others are holding hands and holding hands in pairs; then, you have to cheer up and appreciate the grand occasion of the wedding alone - seeing the bride and groom When you look sweet and intoxicated, you have some envy, some joy, and some solitary sadness. Deep in your heart, you have a mixture of emotions. When you hear the groom speaking intimate words to the bride, do you also think of each other's vows in a certain year and month? When you see the bride and groom holding hands and kissing, do you think of some freshly remembered moments?

Let’s not forget the most fatal news for single women, such as marrying your boyfriend in advance. In short, other people’s wedding wine will be bitter wine for you.

Sixth: Passionate about blogging

With the advent of the Internet web2.0 era, those narcissistic, self-admiring, and self-injurious complexes of singles have finally found a partner. Great space to free up – blogging. Although you often laugh and quarrel with your bad friends, deep down in your heart, you still lack deep communication with each other.

When you can't find the right person to communicate your emotions, you have no choice but to write a web log to talk to yourself - it can be a few unprovoked emotions, or it can be a running account of trivial chores. It's like an extension of a daydream, or a continuation of a youthful dream. Between the lines, there is a strong desire to talk. Although it may seem like you are talking to yourself, in fact, there is always an imaginary reader and readership.

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