Zheng Banqiao’s “rare confusion” is well-known at home and abroad. In fact, there are two types of confusion: one is really confused, and lives in a daze, seemingly born with it, unable to pretend, and unable to seek; Pretending to be confused, knowing clearly what is right and wrong, but pretending not to distinguish between good and bad, has turned from being 'smart' to being confused. In fact, the philosophy of "it's rare to be confused" is very negative, and it just tells people not to be too smart. This is the road I have traveled and the things I have experienced. My perception of this issue may be a little biased, but it is my own profound experience in connection with reality. People often say the latter. However, sometimes, we really have to be "rarely confused". When the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people are careful, there will be no disciples. As far as life is concerned, don't take everything too seriously. However, it is not okay to do things. In terms of the principles of life, it is also Don't let "rare confusion" break our own moral bottom line.

Some people say that smart women must learn to "play dumb"! For the sake of happiness, a woman's "playing dumb" is both a strategy and a state of mind. For example, when anger surges into your heart, take a step back and you will see the vast sea and sky; when the blood rushes to your head, take a step back and you will feel calm. Perhaps, when emotions are ferrying between happiness and non-happiness, what people find difficult to grasp is the kind of mind that "rides the wind and waves to help the sea"! Find a buffering harbor on the crest of the waves...

How many people open their eyes wide before marriage, but turn a blind eye or close one eye after marriage? The so-called closing one eye is probably "pretending to be stupid"! It is also Zheng Banqiao's "pretending to be confused". Everything has its ambiguity, and marriage is no exception. Being too serious will only cause cracks in the marriage. If you don't want to let go of your marriage, then you might as well try "pretending to be stupid". Saying this is not to ask anyone to swallow their anger, but to change the way of thinking and blur the little things in life. In fact, the tediousness of daily life is also reflected in emotions. Don't bother yourself with those trivial things.

Some people say: "A woman only enters marriage when she is dizzy, because the word "marriage" is the word "nu" plus the word "dou" (female), then it becomes "marriage." It is not unreasonable to savor it carefully. Since you got married because you were in a daze, you must not be too sober if you want to keep the marriage. You must continue as you were before marriage, only look at his advantages and ignore his shortcomings, so that you can live happily as always.

No one is perfect, and no gold is pure. It depends on the perspective and attitude you use to look at it. Some things, trivial things that have nothing to do with principles, things that relate to everyone's preferences and habits, may not be to your liking. But after all, marriage is for two people, not just you. When the time is right, you have to learn to be confused and pretend you don’t know when you haven’t seen it. Wouldn’t that save you worry and effort, and wouldn’t you be happy every day?

Smart women will choose to "play dumb". If a woman is too emotional, she will often fall into inexplicable thinking. Some people say that love should be a kind of tolerance. You must tolerate your lover's strengths as well as your lover's shortcomings. If you lose your own personality, it means losing your original attractive charm. Love is not about loving to the point of suffocation, nor is it about adding burden to the other person. True love is the perfect combination of spiritual soul and physical desire.

Often when a woman's patience reaches a certain limit, she will take the initiative to break this "window paper" because she feels that the other party has ignored her existence, and her pretending to be stupid and tolerant has turned into Unbridled indulgence. Of course, countless people will think that tolerance means indulgence, but some men will still find opportunities to cheat under the supervision of their strict wives almost 24 hours a day. This is the legendary rebellious psychology! Maybe...

So, women who "pretend to be stupid" to a moderate degree are often happier than real women. Because she knows how to protect her own interests, when her interests are not violated too much or on principle, she will be very tolerant and give her man more space and freedom. But there are countless women who are so tolerant, causing their men to leave her, but these seem to be a minority. If there is such a man, then it must be said that this man is too stupid to choose to abandon his original wife in such a good condition.

It is actually very difficult for women to be confused, because it is difficult to grasp the right amount, and if you don't get it right, you will be beaten. However, women who can "pretend to be stupid" and confused will often live a happier life, because this is a common phenomenon. . Ladies, you might as well put down your vigilance and pretend to be stupid. Maybe you will be better than now.

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